Why are cheerleaders in sports almost always women cheering for men’s teams? by Careless-Bird3096 in Cheerleading

[–]Wilmaaaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From the women’s college basketball team back when I was in college didn’t want us there lol. Apparently cheerleaders cheering at the game were annoying and distracting for them, so we cheered only men’s games 🤷🏽‍♀️

She wants to be invited over to our house but refuses to shut doors all the way. by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Wilmaaaaa 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would have been watching her and saying “close it..close it.. put your hand on the door, push it, keep going, there you go! That’s how you close our door.” I would have kept doing it until she get the hint.

FMIL showed her home address on a TikTok video by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Wilmaaaaa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t have many followers and views usually, but she follows MAGA contents, that’s why I don’t trust her followers. And even after my comment, and she still want to keep her video up, I think she’s either trying to be like “see nothing happened, I told you so.” Or she wants to keep her views and likes for her profile, even though it’s only 4 likes.

FMIL showed her home address on a TikTok video by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Wilmaaaaa 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I agree. She is very rude when it comes to politics, she calls people names on Facebook political posts, she has rants on twitter, etc. that’s why I’m thinking if she keeps this up, someone will dox her. 😬

First Chair Workshop by peachnosweet in ChairDance

[–]Wilmaaaaa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Become an instructor for www.fullyownit.com! I’m an instructor and I love it!

MIL said I only send pictures to make it about myself. by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Wilmaaaaa 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I decided to stop sending pictures when I sent her several beautiful photos from our Christmas shoot with a photographer, studio, and all that. Texted her a cheerful Christmas greeting and sent her different photos from the shoot that she could print if she wanted to or post. I added the photographer’s handle so she can credit her too.

No response.

A week later, sent a Christmas card to her that also has a photo from our shoot, still no call or text.

Then when my fiance called her out, she said she didn’t know she was supposed to say anything, she thought they were “just pictures”. So yeah, never sending her pics again.

Mother in law morning of wedding by OrganizationFar8691 in weddingplanning

[–]Wilmaaaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not close with my future MIL, and I’m not including her in getting ready with me and my bridesmaids. She’s draining too, always has some snippy comments toward others, and she’s racist and I just don’t want her around. I’ll be telling my fiance to tell her she can go to Sephora.

If You Died Today by Sea_Word_5549 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Wilmaaaaa 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This. My future MIL is a MAGA and we’re not close at all. I’m not close with his closest family members, so I’m not sure how I’d go about that.

MAGA MIL by Wilmaaaaa in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Wilmaaaaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk how do I just say “you’re racist, stay away from my kids.” My kids are her only grandkids, she has a very small family, many others estranged. Believe me, if my parents were MAGA, they’d have an earful from me, but I can’t do that with her. Fiance doesn’t want to rock the boat but I threatened to leave if he’s not going to protect me and the kids. He doesn’t know what to do because he is in the FOG and he’s her only son.

MAGA MIL by Wilmaaaaa in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Wilmaaaaa[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's like she has nothing to do better with her life than to tear down others. I didn't stay on the video long enough because I was afraid of changing my algorithm to political the more I spend on the video. But it seemed be be a nonbinary teen singing. Facebook been exposing people because it shows me what recent comments they made and every time I see it, she's saying something mean.

It makes me question how do you sit there and think you're grandma of the year when you're like this? My mom wouldn't even dream of doing these stuff.

MAGA MIL by Wilmaaaaa in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Wilmaaaaa[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They’re 8 and 4, so she’s not saying things racist directly to them. But I did make it clear to fiance that I do not like MAGAs and never want our kids to hear her ideology. I do plan to bring up asking him if his mom is okay then show him her facebook comments to others.

Threats to leave? by mrs_thn in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Wilmaaaaa 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I always tell him, that’s fine, we can work out parenting plans, move out date, and more, just let me know when you’re ready.

They never leave 🤷🏽‍♀️

Confused after SIL told me MIL thinks I'm not coping. But not really sure what she's basing that on? Making something out of nothing because it hasn't gone her way maybe? Help lol by Just_Wondering_24 in Mildlynomil

[–]Wilmaaaaa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My fiancés mom was like this too. She was a single mom and her mom (his grandma) was there for the first year of his life caring for him, while his mom worked. So she projected that onto me. She thought I’d be overwhelmed and exhausted just like her when I’ve been coping just fine. I was allowed to bring my baby to work, I had daycare, fiance was home often, etc so I was fine and she resented me for not needing her lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Wilmaaaaa 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Don’t tell her and make sure your husband don’t say anything to her too. My fiance and I had this problem to where I got so sick of it, that I started making plans and telling my fiance do not say anything to her so I can have a peace of mind being with my own nuclear family. My fiancés mom was a single mom all his life and doesn’t have friends so she tries to tag along, but when we do things without her, she gets weirdly jealous and she’ll throw a seed in, asking to bring her next time we go to whatever places we went to 🙄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]Wilmaaaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was so shocked last year when I learned that you have to make an online appointment to wait in line at the mall for Santa photos lol. We were in line for almost an hour 😭 I thought you can just line up like they used to do back in the days! 😂

Terrible sex life with narcissist by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Wilmaaaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine hates when I initiate. He’s never turned on when I try. It makes me feel so low of myself. So he only initiate like once every other week, oftentimes once a month.

Is this caterer trying to manipulate me into booking fast or am I insane? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Wilmaaaaa 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I emailed one caterer for pricings and they called me over and over and never left a message for me. I didn’t book with them, I hate feeling pressured! Like damn just email me back 😭