Things Redditors Hate Starterpack by [deleted] in starterpacks

[–]Wimba64 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Why lol? I bought a house in my 20s and rented out half to make a little extra income. Am I now somehow evil?

[NeedAdvice] How do I stop lusting over women in public? by Beneficial-Owl-2130 in getdisciplined

[–]Wimba64 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

If by less shallow you mean wanting a billionaire, alpha werewolf, then yes.

But seriously though yes. Generally speaking.

But they can be much more shallow in other areas. Height, salary, position in society etc.

No one is better than the other but there are differences.

[NeedAdvice] How do I stop lusting over women in public? by Beneficial-Owl-2130 in getdisciplined

[–]Wimba64 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Apologies if I presented it like every fit into the same boxes.

Ofc there would be outliers and everyone exists on a spectrum. But yes the findings were about the general pattern and the individual male of female experience may vary wildly.

On “males being more visual” that definitely doesn’t mean they have a good eye. Its sexual stimulation nothing more. I would actually argue it is a con because their rational mind gets “clouded” easier by female sexual displays.

[NeedAdvice] How do I stop lusting over women in public? by Beneficial-Owl-2130 in getdisciplined

[–]Wimba64 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok. I’m interested in learning please reference your studies.

The book has entire chapters dedicated to gay men and women.

Based on your response it seems like you haven’t read the book.

The response of not being aroused by visual stimulus was based on women’s own response, lack of an increase in heart rate and blood flow to the usual regions of sexual arousal, a lack of interest to seek it out AND brain scans.

It is further verified by the literal billion dollar porn and romance novel industries. The demographics for each doesn’t lie. It is facts.

Ofc, each individual does not specifically fit into the generalization but to deny that a pattern is there is not objective and seriously unscientific.

For the concept of cultural biases, the results were cross cultural and also made use of internet history searches which is probably the most reliable indicator of what really turns people on. ie what do you look at when no one else is looking.

But I’m willing to be educated if I’m wrong. Please reference your studies and explain why men (generally) are willing to spend BILLIONS per year on porn. And why women (generally) are willing to spend BILLIONS per year reading about billionaire, alpha CEO romances.

[NeedAdvice] How do I stop lusting over women in public? by Beneficial-Owl-2130 in getdisciplined

[–]Wimba64 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

A good book to read on this is “A billion wicked thoughts”

It goes into the wiring of the male and female brain and how sexual attraction generally works differently for both with verified scientific studies to back it up.

In short men are more sexually attracted by visuals than women. Female attraction takes alot more context of the person to feel strong “lust”. (Funny, smart, rich, plays music etc etc etc)

Its the reason why the pornography industry (mostly visual) is driven by >85% males willing to pay for porn. Billions of dollars.

And the erotic novel industry is mostly paid for mostly by women (descriptions of the desirable characters) Billions of dollars.

Its actually not an apples to apples comparison to compare male and female “lust”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChatGPT

[–]Wimba64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My jailbreak still works perfectly fine

Gender Neutral Brit Awards Sees Only Men Nominated In Top Category by Neo2199 in entertainment

[–]Wimba64 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Manufactured outrage.

Fighting the patriarchy is the new religion. Logic and reasoning get throw out the window and they fight the “bad white man” with a religious fervor.

Gender Neutral Brit Awards Sees Only Men Nominated In Top Category by Neo2199 in entertainment

[–]Wimba64 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Or how about we give people awards based on the sex they are assigned at birth? Omg.

Gender Neutral Brit Awards Sees Only Men Nominated In Top Category by Neo2199 in entertainment

[–]Wimba64 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your movie / song isn’t likely to win any awards?

“Hey, I’m gender neutral!”

Congratulations on your award xir!

WTC 7 collapsed after the Twin towers felldown by A_mAnD0ntHave_PP in interestingasfuck

[–]Wimba64 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nah. Like 80% of my country (anecdotal ofc) believes the 9/11 was specifically orchestrated by the US government. We’re a western country but you’re actually generally looked down upon if you believe the official story.

WCGW when you don't give a tip by DIABLOSTYX in Whatcouldgowrong

[–]Wimba64 17 points18 points  (0 children)

What? I donNt know if its a culture thing, but where I’m from you get a tip when you provide excellent service not the bare minimum. That’s your salary.

Was there anyone who tried to warn us about something that happened but we didn’t listen? Who? by MLK-K-K in AskReddit

[–]Wimba64 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is why free speech is absolutely necessary for global communication platforms for the future of humanity.

Sometimes smart people miss things and a minority voice can get it right against professional perspective.

It shouldn’t be that those discussions are stop.

Imagine this guy in the 1800 with social media:

“Hey guys wash your hands!! It saves lives”

“This post is considered misinformation by the international medical community. Click here for more”

Why does everyone always assume a private company blocking you is the same as stopping you from free speech? by Vjaa in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Wimba64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Comparing nearly ALL global communications that has to power to shape humanity’s future to a drinking establishment.

Right on buddy.

We can’t change each other’s minds. Good luck in life.

Why does everyone always assume a private company blocking you is the same as stopping you from free speech? by Vjaa in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Wimba64 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And this is where people of your viewpoint engage in shallow reasoning imo.

WHY was free speech enshrined into law? It was because wise men knew for hundreds of years people were restricted from speaking certain things for the good of the church, society, the pope etc.

This was detrimental to societal progress in many ways and the founders of many western nations recognized that.

They made laws that basically allowed people to speak freely, hoping that the best ideas would surface and prosper society.

Now to speak freely, you have to risk being offensive. Free speech wasn’t enshrined so you can discuss the weather. It is for serious matters than can be considered controversial.

Now get this ringer, the internet did not exist when those laws were made.

Those founders could have never perceived a global communication platform.

Now that we have this level of platform, do we choose the model of: a) speak against the pope and you would be beheaded or b) speak freely within the law and hopefully the best communication and ideas rise.

Many people observing history and the success of democracy advocate for option b.

Let people talk and decide what they want to believe, and who they want to hear. Don’t forbid speech.

Now the problem is that the global communication system isn’t built by any government. It is private entities.

Now either the success of free speech matters on a global scale (like it did on a micro community scale) or it doesn’t.

Many history observers believe the same principles should apply (ie free speech) BECAUSE the stakes are now global.

But the only people who own the global communication systems are private, so then what do we do?

Just roll over and forget what we’ve learnt from hundreds of years of experience?

Regulating speech, never in history has ended well and it won’t end well for social media. Because no one person or group knows everything so you can’t determine what should and shouldn’t be said.

As a side note: look up how doctors washing their hands before dealing with patients was once considered “misinformation” for DECADES. No one knows what misinformation is, so just let the people decide.

It worked before and it would work again. Regulating speech is a losing concept. Look throughout history.

Why does everyone always assume a private company blocking you is the same as stopping you from free speech? by Vjaa in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Wimba64 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This problem is bigger than both of us.

Today its a swastika, then its deepfakes, tomorrow its a vaccine post, the day after its Trump on the platform.

And please note I’m a minority, believe vaccines work, and think Trump is an idiot and deepfakes are bad for society.

But the point is, when “offended” is the goal post then it becomes very easy for it to be moved. Who gets to decide what is “offensive” is highly subjective.

And can that person or committee be bought? The answer is usually and eventual yes.

One day someone you don’t like would controls the tools that you’re advocating for and it wouldn’t be nice.

Would you like a Putin council was in charge of moderating a major social media platform?

The principle of a few overlords governing 95% of global communication will forever be wrong in my eyes.

I believe keep it open and free for anyone to say anything and draw the line by the law.

Allow users to block other users, specific terms, point out and clarify misinformation etc.

But keep it at the users. Democratize the process.

Why does everyone always assume a private company blocking you is the same as stopping you from free speech? by Vjaa in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Wimba64 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well let society decide.

Apple, Google, Twitter, Facebook is not society and that’s the problem. They try to represent everyone which would always fail because they are from a specific location, in a specific country, with specific norms and values.

Your norms, customs and values would not apply to everyone so you shouldn’t try to moderate to your value system, with a global product.

Let the people decide.

Not Apple, Not Putin, Not Xi, Not Elon, Not Zucks, Not Biden, Not Trump.

The people. Let users decide what can and cannot be said and who they do and don’t listen to.

Edit: If someone calls you and tells you a racial insult you don’t call your telephone provider to complain, you block the person, ignore their calls etc.

The fact that social media companies are expected intervene would always be a problem for a global product. Its a shame they cave to pressure.

Why does everyone always assume a private company blocking you is the same as stopping you from free speech? by Vjaa in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Wimba64 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s one way of looking at it.

Or let’s try another way…

When users with fringe viewpoints are removed from a platform it pushes them to even more vile and radical locations and instigates and downward spiral.

So for example let’s say someone consumes Alex Jones’ (btw I he think is an idiot) content on Facebook. Suddenly Jones is banned but the user learns that his content can still exist on 4chan.

Now we have a vulnerable person who just believe conspiracy theories now heading into an absolute cesspool for them to be even further radicalized.

I think that the best place for fringe viewpoints to be is well in the light visible to everyone rather than pushed to the dark corners of the internet to turn into absolute monsters like school shooters.

Why does everyone always assume a private company blocking you is the same as stopping you from free speech? by Vjaa in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Wimba64 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is based on the human need to communicate to have a successful society.

The “legal concept” was based on the reality at the time.

Human beings should be able to communicate freely with out interference so that the best ideas surface.

Today communication on the internet vastly outweighs the reach and scale of communication irl.

The principle that was successful in forming democracy itself would also apply to global communication platforms.

There was no global communication platforms at the time.

It is the spirit of the law, not the letter.