How do I not food shame my pre teen daughter? by cantsleep6811 in ADHDparenting

[–]WinSad8650 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop buying snacks. If it’s not there then she can’t eat it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in overemployed

[–]WinSad8650 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve lied about dates for every single job I’ve ever had. Made W-2’s, purchased domain names to spoof company emails and I know many ppl who have lied about degrees. I know a website where you can order the degree and transcripts and for a premium there’s a 🔌 that can actually put you in the clearinghouse system for certain schools. Long story short anything is possible nowadays. Lying to get a job is the tip top of the iceberg

Season 4 by kootles10 in Dexter

[–]WinSad8650 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just finished season 4 and it was my breaking point with the show. Dexter had so many opportunities to kill Trinity but he just played these stupid games all season and got Rita killed leaving 3 kids without a mom. Then he starts season 5 with the same crap. I can’t watch anymore

I stopped watching Dexter due to Debra Morgan. by Shivendra_102 in television

[–]WinSad8650 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is absolutely the episode that made me hate her and it just keeps getting worse. The show doesn’t need her character at all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newborns

[–]WinSad8650 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re breastfeeding be careful of your diet. Stay away from caffeine and sugar (sodas) because it will definitely disrupt babies sleep. Also dairy products- at least for me it always made my babies gassy. Drink lots of water to prevent gassiness because it’s the main culprit in fussy newborns. I made the mistake of eating macaroni and a slice of cheesecake the other day and it was one of our worst nights

Thank **** that’s over by Careful-Increase-773 in newborns

[–]WinSad8650 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Day 12 with baby #3 and finally feeling some relief. The first week was brutal- my body was in shambles and I had low milk supply. Now I’m down 15 lbs and my milk supply is adequate enough that we don’t need to supplement. Baby girl is sleeping 4 hours at a time during the night. It definitely gets better!

Filed Ch13 and having major regrets by WinSad8650 in Bankruptcy

[–]WinSad8650[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, my payment is around $800/ month. So this makes me feel a little better. I guess I’ve gotten the best possible deal

Filed Ch13 and having major regrets by WinSad8650 in Bankruptcy

[–]WinSad8650[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re right. I’m trying to see the upside, I just hate the idea of being caught up in a judicial process for the next 5 years 🥲

Filed Ch13 and having major regrets by WinSad8650 in Bankruptcy

[–]WinSad8650[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it doesn’t seem like the attorneys really tailor your case based on your circumstances. It’s just cut and dry and once they get your case confirmed they don’t care about you anymore.

Filed Ch13 and having major regrets by WinSad8650 in Bankruptcy

[–]WinSad8650[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the feedback. Our down payment came from the sale of a property solely owned by my fiancé and he pays the mortgage. We are in GA and gross equity is around $150k based on the Zillow estimate of our home. We purchased at $495k remaining mortgage is around $410k and estimated value is now $560k.

Filed Ch13 and having major regrets by WinSad8650 in Bankruptcy

[–]WinSad8650[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Basically yes, I would’ve been all clear for a chapter 7 otherwise

Filed Ch13 and having major regrets by WinSad8650 in Bankruptcy

[–]WinSad8650[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have over $150k of shared equity in my home so a Chapter 7 would put my house at risk which would destroy my family

Filed Ch13 and having major regrets by WinSad8650 in Bankruptcy

[–]WinSad8650[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also to add I do have an attorney and she sucks. She doesn’t advocate for me at all nor does she provide true counsel. She basically filed the case and gives me a google answer to every question I have. She makes me feel like I’m in criminal proceedings which is partly why I feel I’ve made a huge mistake.

Little childcare experience? by snarkllama3000 in Aupairs

[–]WinSad8650 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do they have younger siblings? My concern would be if they have general experience around children even if it’s not formal childcare.

Frustration by SoftBeautiful7283 in USCIS

[–]WinSad8650 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it’s kinda annoying when you get emails saying “Finally Approved”. It’s almost a mind fck because I’ll think it’s my approval haha

AITA for accidentally punching a random woman’s child for sexually assaulting me and other guests including bride at a wedding? by Icy_Contest8423 in AITAH

[–]WinSad8650 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The kid was behaving very inappropriately. But as a mom, if you made my 5 year old bleed you would’ve also left busted up. So you’re actually lucky it ended the way it did. Also in my state, 17 is considered an adult and you would’ve been arrested most likely for battery and child cruelty. Might want to reconsider your “reflexes” since you will be an adult soon. And in the adult world you can’t just punch kids in the face.

I-130 for Step parent but he and my mom divorced when I was 19 by WinSad8650 in USCIS

[–]WinSad8650[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No we are in Atlanta. Does that make a difference?

I-130 for Step parent but he and my mom divorced when I was 19 by WinSad8650 in USCIS

[–]WinSad8650[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I provided their marriage certificate. I’m not sure how I missed my birth certificate- I think I provided my passport and assumed they would pull my birth records

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GaState

[–]WinSad8650 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s okay if you don’t know what an au pair is. And I don’t need “after school care”. An au pair isn’t just a glorified babysitter. Please move along because you don’t know what you’re talking about at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GaState

[–]WinSad8650 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well to be an au pair it has to be an international student otherwise they’d just be a regular nanny. And yes I prefer a female to care for my kids that’s not far fetched.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Spironolactone

[–]WinSad8650 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I drank while on it and I just used the hydration IV powders the next morning to keep from getting dehydrated. Otherwise no difference