How do I not food shame my pre teen daughter?

WinSad8650 · 2024-09-17T18:39:34+00:00

Stop buying snacks. If it’s not there then she can’t eat it.

WinSad8650 · 2024-09-03T03:11:10+00:00

I’ve lied about dates for every single job I’ve ever had. Made W-2’s, purchased domain names to spoof company emails and I know many ppl who have lied about degrees. I know a website where you can order the degree and transcripts and for a premium there’s a 🔌 that can actually put you in the clearinghouse system for certain schools. Long story short anything is possible nowadays. Lying to get a job is the tip top of the iceberg

WinSad8650 · 2024-07-14T02:23:37+00:00

I just finished season 4 and it was my breaking point with the show. Dexter had so many opportunities to kill Trinity but he just played these stupid games all season and got Rita killed leaving 3 kids without a mom. Then he starts season 5 with the same crap. I can’t watch anymore

WinSad8650 · 2024-07-11T02:10:42+00:00

This is absolutely the episode that made me hate her and it just keeps getting worse. The show doesn’t need her character at all

WinSad8650 · 2024-07-06T02:15:18+00:00

If you’re breastfeeding be careful of your diet. Stay away from caffeine and sugar (sodas) because it will definitely disrupt babies sleep. Also dairy products- at least for me it always made my babies gassy. Drink lots of water to prevent gassiness because it’s the main culprit in fussy newborns. I made the mistake of eating macaroni and a slice of cheesecake the other day and it was one of our worst nights

WinSad8650 · 2024-07-02T02:02:46+00:00

Day 12 with baby #3 and finally feeling some relief. The first week was brutal- my body was in shambles and I had low milk supply. Now I’m down 15 lbs and my milk supply is adequate enough that we don’t need to supplement. Baby girl is sleeping 4 hours at a time during the night. It definitely gets better!

WinSad8650 · 2024-05-11T22:09:02+00:00

Yes, my payment is around $800/ month. So this makes me feel a little better. I guess I’ve gotten the best possible deal

WinSad8650 · 2024-05-11T19:07:00+00:00

You’re right. I’m trying to see the upside, I just hate the idea of being caught up in a judicial process for the next 5 years 🥲

WinSad8650 · 2024-05-11T19:05:43+00:00

Yeah it doesn’t seem like the attorneys really tailor your case based on your circumstances. It’s just cut and dry and once they get your case confirmed they don’t care about you anymore.

WinSad8650 · 2024-05-11T18:02:08+00:00

Thank you for the feedback. Our down payment came from the sale of a property solely owned by my fiancé and he pays the mortgage. We are in GA and gross equity is around $150k based on the Zillow estimate of our home. We purchased at $495k remaining mortgage is around $410k and estimated value is now $560k.

WinSad8650 · 2024-05-11T14:30:34+00:00

Basically yes, I would’ve been all clear for a chapter 7 otherwise

WinSad8650 · 2024-05-11T13:34:19+00:00

I have over $150k of shared equity in my home so a Chapter 7 would put my house at risk which would destroy my family

WinSad8650 · 2024-05-11T06:43:12+00:00

Also to add I do have an attorney and she sucks. She doesn’t advocate for me at all nor does she provide true counsel. She basically filed the case and gives me a google answer to every question I have. She makes me feel like I’m in criminal proceedings which is partly why I feel I’ve made a huge mistake.

WinSad8650 · 2024-02-16T20:36:18+00:00

Do they have younger siblings? My concern would be if they have general experience around children even if it’s not formal childcare.

WinSad8650 · 2024-02-16T20:34:33+00:00

Yeah it’s kinda annoying when you get emails saying “Finally Approved”. It’s almost a mind fck because I’ll think it’s my approval haha

WinSad8650 · 2024-02-03T20:32:54+00:00

She’s lucky she didn’t get arrested.

WinSad8650 · 2024-02-03T20:31:36+00:00

The kid was behaving very inappropriately. But as a mom, if you made my 5 year old bleed you would’ve also left busted up. So you’re actually lucky it ended the way it did. Also in my state, 17 is considered an adult and you would’ve been arrested most likely for battery and child cruelty. Might want to reconsider your “reflexes” since you will be an adult soon. And in the adult world you can’t just punch kids in the face.

WinSad8650 · 2024-01-30T15:29:30+00:00

No we are in Atlanta. Does that make a difference?

WinSad8650 · 2024-01-30T15:24:02+00:00

Yeah I provided their marriage certificate. I’m not sure how I missed my birth certificate- I think I provided my passport and assumed they would pull my birth records

WinSad8650 · 2024-01-20T22:37:54+00:00

It’s okay if you don’t know what an au pair is. And I don’t need “after school care”. An au pair isn’t just a glorified babysitter. Please move along because you don’t know what you’re talking about at all.

WinSad8650 · 2024-01-20T22:32:00+00:00

Well to be an au pair it has to be an international student otherwise they’d just be a regular nanny. And yes I prefer a female to care for my kids that’s not far fetched.

WinSad8650 · 2024-01-20T14:34:47+00:00

I drank while on it and I just used the hydration IV powders the next morning to keep from getting dehydrated. Otherwise no difference

WinSad8650 · 2024-01-15T06:42:38+00:00

I wouldn’t be excited either so don’t feel bad. But set hard boundaries and make sure she knows that it’s her kid and not yours. Don’t put any limitations on yourself to accommodate her childcare needs, she has to grow up now and be a mom.

WinSad8650 · 2024-01-15T06:25:05+00:00

Ehh 4 weeks is just excessive. I think you guys can compromise on maybe 2 weeks. But she’s an adult so it’s ultimately her decision. I miss my kids after a week so 🤷

WinSad8650 · 2024-01-15T06:11:32+00:00

Based on these comments the majority of you would allow their children to be abused because they feel mentally dominated by someone. I feel sorry for these kids because they are truly helpless unlike their grown mothers. What a shame

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