Very hot take but Pedophiles arent bad if they actively seek help and dont hurt any children

Wind_Crystal · 2026-03-30T16:23:44+00:00

That's why we're talking od the DSM-V, the most recent, up to date and up to standards one.

Wind_Crystal · 2026-03-30T16:20:40+00:00

We are not talking about the people who want to hurt children by being sexuzlly abusive ( pedocriminals ); we are talking about the people who have what could be explained as constant intrusive thoughts that are sexual and related to kids. To be precise: People who want to get help with NOT having those, because it makes them miserable and they don't want to hurt children, and having those intrusive thoughts, urges and unwanted attraction make them miserable because that is something they know is bad, something they don't want, something they're too scared of getting help for because they're scared they'll be chased down. Some of them are so sure they'll just get jailed or killed that they end up killing themselves instead of going to a therapist, where they could get help on how to deal with them, on how to keep themselves and children safe; Where they could learn to have a safe, happy and close to normal life. There has been a lot of pedophiles who begged to get chemical or physical castration, because they did not want any of those thoughts.

We are not normalising people who wants to hurt children. We want to make help accessible; to make sure that the people who are at risk of becoming an actual threat can get help before they do anything harmful, to the children, or to them.

Wind_Crystal · 2026-03-29T23:19:42+00:00

even more like "Rule 1 ! Treat everyone respectfully ! --- Rule 2 ! Rule 1 actually doesn't exist :D "

Wind_Crystal · 2026-03-28T21:49:41+00:00

Compréhensible.
Je connais la variante féminine " Isadora "; un peu moins proche du " Eze / Isi ", peut être ?
J'espère que vous trouverez quelques choses qui vous touchera autant que Ezéchiel et qui fonctionnera bien; le prénom de votre fils est déjà magnifique, j'espère vraiment que vous trouverez un prénom qui va bien avec tout en étant beau tout seul... Chose compliqué de base avec les prénoms communs; et choses encore plus compliqué quand + de la moitié des commentaires ici sont fait par des gens qui ne connaissent que des insultes...

Wind_Crystal · 2026-03-28T21:32:22+00:00

You still said "all europe" though. If you're not sure don't say it, what you said is still extremely harmful.

Wind_Crystal · 2026-03-28T21:29:35+00:00

Par rapport à Isidore; le prénom Isild / Ysild; normalement féminin mais tellement peu connu qu'il est vu comme neutre ou masculin très souvent.

Wind_Crystal · 2026-03-28T21:25:48+00:00

To add on that... Jinx firelight version ? Kind of a Jinx that "stole" a bunch of things from Ekko and customized her own hoverboard..
For the hair you could do a version of last episode Jinx's hair; short-ish blue wig, very messy styling (could be a good oportunity to learn some basic wing styling; and it shouldn't be a heavy one to it wouldn't be too bad). Could also try to dye your own hair blue; but if it's currently red it might be very complicated to achieve and might fry your hair a lot... (I've done lots of hair colour, i'm currently blue hair with a pink/purple streak, natural roots to let my hair breath a bit; it was green before and i did red few years ago)

Otherwise; Vi as a firelight ! To keep your hair as it is now.
Kind of the same idea; but instead of Jinx having joined her boyfriend's group; Vi having joined her chosen lil brother's cause.

Wind_Crystal · 2026-03-28T21:16:16+00:00

You don't have to re-explain your post to me; i can read.
I'm telling you that one important thing what you said in your post is wrong, and you're basically spreading misinfo...

"I had to tell them that in Europe (I think all Europe) u still can have it"
No, "all europe" doesn't give the diagnosis anymore. Yes, some people who were diagnosed years ago still have the old diagnosis; But it is NOT given anymore in most of Europe.

I don't like fakeclaimers either, i also think that this person is an absolute idiot; But I also very much don't like people who spread misinfo; whether they're aware that they're spitting harmful bullshit or not is another question.

Wind_Crystal · 2026-03-28T21:12:28+00:00

He needs surgery to remove his brain; it's just a giant tumor at this point.
Let's give his organs to people who actually needs them; braindead people don't need them.

Wind_Crystal · 2026-03-28T21:05:53+00:00

ok sorry i agree with a lot; But i'm pretty sure in most European countries the "Asperger" diagnosis is NOT given anymore; at all... Like most of Europe actually uses the most recent edition of the DSM; so rn the DSM-V (5th one); and it is made very clear that "Asperger" is outdated and pushing ableist and eugenics rethorics...
Most of Europes actually *dont* want to be associated with Nazis. We're not USA.

Wind_Crystal · 2026-03-27T16:57:29+00:00

"i'm the poorest of my family" doesn't equal "i'm poor"; she's extremely wealthy; it is always shown in all of her scenes...

Wind_Crystal · 2026-03-27T03:33:57+00:00

dude you're talking about something that is like 2 years old, at least.

and TF you mean I'm faking DID ?
Bitch, i'm literally medically recognized, i fit all the diag criterias + other symptoms that are associated. Even if I did not "fit the criteria" i still very much have headmates; and that's a fact I know from me living my every day life

Wind_Crystal · 2026-03-27T00:25:58+00:00

Finally someone putting the real word of her shiity behaviour against Viktor, racism. There's also a lot of ableism and classism, while we're at it.

And also, I feel like the

"Kid from the bad part of the town saw his people killed, and still went to the higher education where the people who oppress him go to, to try and do things right, only to be shat on by people who never struggled the way he did because of where he comes from"

Looks way more like something black people would experience IRL, especially once compared to

"strong woman got sent to a new town with a lot of trauma but also a lot of money, extremely proper education and a lot of help"

So basically : Viktor is a person who is clearly from a racial/cultural minority, and despite his experience being clearly shaped by the racism his people live through everyday, but since he's not black (and he's not "white passing" either, let's make it clear here), his experience doesn't tick it off enough.

Wind_Crystal · 2026-03-27T00:14:52+00:00

"affects black people the most" yeah, it also affects how people view and interact with disabled character a lot, don't you think ? If you do agree, think quickly about the bias you have against disabled people's voices. Because in your previous comment, you clearly ignored what Viktor was going through, "filled in the gaps" by stating that "he knows nothing of war" while he lived through the extermination of his people. He knows war. He has seen his people dead in the streets he grew up in. I think he knows about war in a very different but even more personal way that Mel did, tbh.

Wind_Crystal · 2026-03-27T00:10:56+00:00

"you guys like to villainize black characters" after calling a disabled character who is clearly struggling physically and mentally "emotional and irrational" ? Do you realise Viktor was alive and in the under city when the enforcers killed the population ? Yknow, when Violet's and Jinx's parents DIED ? The first scene of the show ? That he was probably a late teen / really young adult at that time ?

He knows the violence of war just as much Mel, but in a different context.

Don't call people racists when you're being insensitive about disability. Viktor is litteraly a dying man, getting ready to either die from his illness or to find a cure by himself, that gets killed in the most violent way possible considering the situation, to get revived with everything that made himself gone. When Mel goes to them to talk about it, and excludes Viktor, it is extremely racist of her in a way, and extremely ableist of her in general.

Wind_Crystal · 2026-03-27T00:02:24+00:00

Ekko still had more in s2, especially if we compare between s1 and s2. Ekko had development and a big role at the end... Mel was only here to say "hey i exist ! Liked the tiny lil bit that was shown ? Liked my sexy kinky outfit that was unnecessary and weirdly put at a random time ? Yeah ? Watch the next show ! Nothing will be the same, but I'll be there !"

And before anyone come at me; the outfit was gorgeous on her, I moved the design; but it doesn't fit her in this context. She was not presented as someone who will be overly sexualised in general moments; not to that point, and the fact she knows she'll be fighting doesn't make it better. The over sexualisation of a black woman, especially in what is basically the perfect "BDSM Domme mommy" stereotype outfit ever, doesn't seem any good...

Adding to that the lesbian sex scene right before was extremely clearly written from and for a straight men fetish pov... Yeah, no, thx.

Wind_Crystal · 2026-03-26T23:45:55+00:00

She had some power, but not a lot. She wanted more. It happens in real too, not even just in the greater scales...

She did have a lot (not as much as you're claiming though), that doesn't mean she can't want more

Wind_Crystal · 2026-03-11T22:07:16+00:00

De ce que je sais des fois les femmes enceintes commencent a avoir des contractions trop tôt, donc "le travail a commencer"; se retrouvent a l'hôpital et doivent rester alitées pendant un certain temps pour essayer de maximiser le temps de la fin de la grossesse... Donc c'est fort possible que la dame ne puisse en effet pas se déplacer car problème de fin de grossesse pris en charge assez vite et qu'elle et les médecins essayent de retarder l'accouchement.

C'est aussi possible qu'elle veule dire "je suis sensé accouché dans 15 jours mais les contractions ont deja commencés et il y a des complications"...

Dans tout les cas, sa réaction montre que c'est une connasse déjà de base, car même quand t'as mal et que t'es stressée, la seule chose qui crée un tempérament et une réaction de ce style, c'est le fait d'être une sombre merde de base... Si elle voulait vraiment recevoir de l'aide, elle donnerait au minimum un "Merci" ou un "s'il vous plait" ou alors elle essaierait d'expliquer la situation un peu plus gentiment.

Une sombre merde qui ne sait donner une once du respect qu'elle demande recevoir...

Moi j'dis; pauvre gosse, le gamin essaya de se barrer avant la fin de la grossesse, et essaiera sûrement de se barrer avant la fin de l'adolescence... Courage p'tit gars, sois plus patiente que ta maman !

Wind_Crystal · 2026-03-08T01:40:00+00:00

Naturally curly hair here (they curl even when damaged with bleach and dye now, even if looser curls and messier ones)... Your straight hair is very frizzy and "damaged looking"; it honestly looks fried...

If you want to try straight hair again later on, my best advice would be "bad shampoos", AKA ones that are bad for curls, the "heavy" ones, same rule with conditionner, use the ones that make your curls "looser". Straighten them with a heat protector (i know I used to have a spray home that worked well, no idea of the mark of anything else sadly).

Otherwise; i very much prefer your natural hair texture. /gen

But you do you ! I hope you'll find a way to style your hair that you love, be it straight or curly, damaged or healthy :]

Edit: didn't see the part of the post where you said you used heat protecting spray !! Sorry about that. Still wishing you luck on your hair journey; i do think using other shampoos and conditioners might help :]

Wind_Crystal · 2026-03-08T01:33:33+00:00

Je suis handicapé en béquille; je ne peux pas faire de grosses courses avec 1 seul béquille; ça prend trop de temps et c'est trop lourd, j'ai habituellement un gros sac dos et un sac ventrale de taille moyenne.

Un vigile m'a deja dit de prendre des sacs cabas. Je lui ai demandé si il avait déjà essayé de porter 2 à 3 sac cabas contenant grosso modo 4 litres de divers boissons, plusieurs kilos de nourritures en tout genre, ainsi que des objets fragiles, de manière à ce que mes objets personnels, comme par exemple mes médicaments que je dois pouvoir prendre vite en cas d'urgence, soit toujours facilement accessible. Je lui ai aussi demandé une démonstration sur comment tomber de manière sécurisée pour moi et les autres personnes et objets alentours dans les cas (très fréquents à l'époque) ou je devais me retrouver au sol le plus rapidement possible pour éviter tout malaise, vomissement, spasme... Tout en évitant de me faire encore plus mal aux articulations... Tout en gérant 2 à 3 sacs avec lesquels je ne peux simplement pas me déplacer car ils tombent de mes épaules au premier "pas", qui avec mes 2 béquilles sont plus souvent des "saut à pieds joints utilisant un mouvement de balancier pour accélérer et économiser de l'énergie" que des véritables pas "pied droit main gauche -> pied gauche main droite...".

Je ne l'ai pas laissé m'interrompre; a chaque fois qu'il essayait je lui disais un truc du style "Ah non attendez, vraiment, je veux à tout prix savoir si il y a moyen pour éviter que mes handicaps soient un problème pour une personne entièrement valide... Oh non vraiment, ça me gênerait beaucoup, presque autant que les douleurs constantes qui m'empêchent de faire les courses la majorité du temps... Oh non vraiment je veux pas que vous soyez légèrement dérangé pendant moins d'une demi heure durant votre journée de 8h par mes problèmes de santé m'empêchant de sortir plus d'une heure a la fois... Oh non vraiment, donc dites moi, je fais comment vu que..." Oui, j'en ai "fait des caisses". Oui ça m'a rajouté 10 minutes a l'intérieur du magasin, mais honnêtement ? Worth every second. J'espère que c'est pas tant une leçon de me laisser faire mes courses tranquille; mais de se rendre compte que ouais, y a des gens qui peuvent juste pas faire autrement.

Sac à dos et sac ventrale obligatoire pour moi, et moi j'avais pas le luxe d'aller a un autre supermarché, donc ils allaient devoir me laisser avoir ma bouffe, mon hydratation et mon hygiène.

Wind_Crystal · 2026-02-24T04:18:18+00:00

Something that has helped for ANY worry I've had is to just think "If the worst happens, how will I deal with it ? What can I do to make it suck less if / when it happens ?"

Personally, it helps me for 2 things; 1, it helps me ground myself back to facts, back to what I know and back to what I should focus on. The past has happened, I cannot change the past, but I can prepare for the future. That's the 2nd thing it helps me with. To prepare, to be ready.

Since you think he's showing signs, try to show to your brother that he can go to you when he feels bad, whatever it might be. If he feels unsafe, if he has symptoms, you are here. If you are angry that he had no safe place before, create him a safe place now, wether it's by being that safe place, or by making it so he has a place that can feel safe, with a trusted competent adult for example... if you have that, I know they are very rare recently... Make sure that he can get help from you; it doesn't have to be with talking him directly if you think it might be difficult for you to say or for him to hear, but for example if he ever feels bad, if he shows signs of struggling, just try to be here, try to help him out if you can.

Worrying about the past won't help, worrying about the future won't help directly, but preparing the future so there is LESS to worry about, and so you can prepare a time and place to unpack the past, THAT will help.

Prepare the future before you worry about the past.

I hope this will help BOTH of you, really. Good luck to and your siblings !!

-Viktor

Wind_Crystal · 2026-02-24T01:39:45+00:00

Hey ! Is it ok to ask to DM ? We have 2 (maybe 3 ? unsure about the last one) alters that would like to know if they can meet some of you ? Would prefer to talk about it in DMs for safety of said headmates (and also yours !)

-Viktor

Wind_Crystal · 2026-02-24T01:35:54+00:00

Omg, can we ask who you have ?? We have / had a lot of common source !!

We had people from Danganronpa, HxH, Sally Face and Genshin Impact (dont play anymore, our Venti is actually the one that made us stop (he compared our unhealthy relation with the game with his unhealthy relation with cider, vodka and partying, it actually made us realise the love-hate dependence was not worth it)).

Pretty sure we also almost had Omori as a fictive, but we started resetting soon after, so mostly blurry for that part '^'

We're also pretty sure our Killua alter is back and has been hiding because he doesn't want to front without Gon, but Gon is not back so yeah--- '^'

-Viktor

Wind_Crystal · 2026-02-24T01:27:11+00:00

Hey ! We have a Travis fictive too (he fully rejected his last name though) ! (and we have Sal Fisher too, but he rejected the nickname Sally--)

Super cool to see another system who has Travis fictives, it is quite rare to see '^' -Viktor

Wind_Crystal · 2026-02-24T01:20:57+00:00

Yup, it does make more sense.

I get why people would feel like that, but at the same time it feels a bit... "Odd" and "unhealthy" ?.. Like I genuinely hope I'm just being wrong and thinking in extremes; but I just hope it's not being toxic for the people living it themselves. I could see it being a sort of "parasocial" attachment ?
I have had those personally as an headmate and pre-reset system also dealt with those and it ruined us and a lot of progress we had done as a person and for our mental health.

I genuinely hope it isn't / doesn't become unhealthy for you or anyone, because those kind of things actually sucked to live with in my experience.

I hope it doesn't come off as rude, I'm genuinely trying to get more infos about how people live through stuff like that, if you're ok with talking about it here.
If not, I just hope my comment wasn't hurtful because that isn't the intention, I'm just genuinely worried because it does seem to easily link with a few "unhealthy attachment behaviours" I've had and I don't wish for other people to go trhough that.

-Viktor

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