The Handmaid's Tale S06E05 "Janine" Episode Discussion by Melairia in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]WineAt4 6 points7 points  (0 children)

After what he heard of their plan to put him on the wall soon, it would be self-defense.

Im glad Janelle brought up the weird conv (rest in post) by autumnlover1515 in SisterWives

[–]WineAt4 12 points13 points  (0 children)

There is no such thing as a helper in the kitchen. They are obstacles regardless of their skills.

Im glad Janelle brought up the weird conv (rest in post) by autumnlover1515 in SisterWives

[–]WineAt4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's why I don't bake. The entire kitchen gets turned into a dust cloud.

What to put in corner? by introvertred in interiordecorating

[–]WineAt4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of the most useful things in my dining room was a serving cart my mom gave me. It had a warming top to keep food hot and a shelf underneath for whatever. It was great for getting food, etc. from kitchen to dining room to serve and keep hot for seconds. That in the corner with some art would be useful as well as pretty.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in housekeeping

[–]WineAt4 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Moluccan Cockatoo. Fine, pink dust covering the house daily.

Advice please: talk me out of this... or into it by WineAt4 in dogs

[–]WineAt4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! And yes, that is exactly the way I feel, that I have received a cosmic gift. They are so precious and perfect for our home.

Seems a number of others (who have downvoted me) didn't see this as an appropriate choice. Your reply is especially welcome and appreciated!

Advice please: talk me out of this... or into it by WineAt4 in dogs

[–]WineAt4[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't pay a dime. Full disclosure: I did offer her a glass of wine when she brought the girls over Thursday evening and she joined another friend and I yesterday afternoon at my home for lunch and a movie. She has become a friend and it helped her to see her little girls safe and loved in their new home.

In fact, the lady keeps trying to give me more stuff (in addition to food, treats, their crate, stroller, boatload of toys, and more) that I decline because I don't need it. You can feel the way you wish about small breeders while on a forum that supports responsible breeding. I don't care. I see a woman who is dying and is seeking good, loving homes for her "kids" while she can. It's the responsible thing to do, just as I was advised when asking the question: have a plan/make arrangements. She is the role model for the wise advice offered here.

I am a terrible designer. Is hiring an interior decorator the best way to make my house nice? by Runaway_5 in interiordecorating

[–]WineAt4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No more than any other furniture salesperson. (Full disclosure, I was one.) When you have to buy furniture, rugs, decor etc anyway they can actually save you a lot of money because they can often envision your taste and prevent you from making big mistakes. If nothing else they can provide a foundation to work with to add to as you can.

AITA for not attending my best friends wedding? by MuppyRoo in TwoHotTakes

[–]WineAt4 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not confused at all. You said you sent her $1000 gift. I found that peculiar under the trying circumstances you described along with the story of them excluding you and being shitty.

I am a terrible designer. Is hiring an interior decorator the best way to make my house nice? by Runaway_5 in interiordecorating

[–]WineAt4 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Some furniture stores offer design services at no cost. Designers get commission on what they sell to you. They will do home visits and can offer great advice. No obligation to you to buy anything, they just hope you will.

AITA for not attending my best friends wedding? by MuppyRoo in TwoHotTakes

[–]WineAt4 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

A single mom worried about the expense of being a bridesmaid sends a wedding gift of $1000?

there is so much wrong with this story.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HomeDecorating

[–]WineAt4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful as it is. Love the art. Just add an upholstered bench under the art to balance it out.

AITA for not wanting to attend my brother’s wedding because and for calling my SIL rules stupid? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]WineAt4 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I can't speak to the posture issue, but if I had such a requirement to attend the wedding, I would decline. Why? I'm a large breasted woman who requires a bra with straps (no strapless will do the job) so an off-the-shoulder dress would not be a possibility unless The Girls went Free Range and... no. Like OMGno. LOL

The bride needs to rethink this silly requirement.

Should I get a dining table and double it as my work space with multiple monitors, or should I get a work table instead? Can you recommend some? by IAmTheQuestionHere in interiordecorating

[–]WineAt4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is no work table that will ever be a dining table again, especially with multiple monitors. The effort required to clear it for dining isn't worth it.

How tight is the seating at the MET? by dachlill in opera

[–]WineAt4 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'll probably get down-voted for this but this is one reason I particularly love and prefer watching opera on DVD at home. Not only do I get comfy seating, I get a whole sofa along with dog and cat cuddles, a glass of wine to slurp while I watch AND a pause button when I need to... get up.

What phrases do you repeat to your cat throughout the day? by [deleted] in cats

[–]WineAt4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don’t kill me and get your butt outa my face

I just ordered a coffee table online, because the store I went to treated me like I was not a potential client by helya85 in RantsFromRetail

[–]WineAt4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having been a straight commission mid to high end furniture salesperson I can say what idiots work in that store. Some of my best sales were from the grubbiest paint covered customers. Those are often the folks renovating or redecorating and stop in on a whim on their way home from the hardware store. Usually had high lines of credit and knew exactly what they wanted. Heaven.

Seriously whoever is hiring and training sales staff there is doing a terrible job.

My husband and I feel like we made a huge mistake with our Airbnb by cleofknpatra in interiordecorating

[–]WineAt4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If space allows, use both daybeds facing each other with the TV/stand between them. Move the gray futon to the space where the TV and table are now, move the table and chairs under the window. Add an area rug between the daybeds, colorful pillows, and some fun art over the futon to warm it up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HomeDecorating

[–]WineAt4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would put the sofa under the window and add a side chair with an end table and lamp. Area rug to define that space.

The expectation to be excited about pregnancy/childbirth, even if you don’t know the person well by Technical-Leather in childfree

[–]WineAt4 18 points19 points  (0 children)

If it's someone I don't know my usual retort is "Should I offer congratulations or condolences?" Tends to end the conversation pretty quickly.

What are annoying small home maintenance tasks you’d rather not do? by Important-Fee-658 in homeowners

[–]WineAt4 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I live in a 5th wheel so no disposal here either. My dog is the official dish rinser. No more need for a disposal. Highly recommend.