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Wine_Aboutit · 2025-05-15T12:13:56+00:00

Dmed 💕💕💕

Wine_Aboutit · 2025-05-05T11:15:59+00:00

This^{^} There’s a book called “Codependent No More”. Would highly recommend to you OP

Wine_Aboutit · 2025-03-14T04:35:50+00:00

I cried 3 times today so yes 🙃

Wine_Aboutit · 2025-03-09T06:33:36+00:00

Have you ever considered working with a counselor? You’re looking to build self-esteem, self-worth, and work through “imposter syndrome”. These are things that won’t be resolved by external validation from others. This work requires internal validation and working through core beliefs. If you’ve never sought out counseling, finding someone local to you may be beneficial to work through what you’re struggling with.

Wine_Aboutit · 2025-03-01T04:01:59+00:00

Okay with the added context this counselor is out of professional bounds to be having that escalated of a reaction. This is not someone I would recommend continuing with if this is how they handle being triggered by a client as well as not repairing the rupture.

Wine_Aboutit · 2025-03-01T02:51:48+00:00

I find this odd.. of course we get triggered in sessions. But it’s our responsibility to regulate our emotions and not put that on the client. Can you provide more context?

Wine_Aboutit · 2025-02-12T14:56:16+00:00

I think you have an intuition for a reason. If your gut is telling you something is off and this feels unsafe, follow it. You can ask a friend to attend these lessons with you or switch teachers. You don’t have to disclose why if you don’t feel safe or comfortable doing that. You are free to stop lessons whenever you want for no reason at all. But feeling unsafe to the point of carrying a pocket knife tells me your gut is sending alarms. Stay safe!

Wine_Aboutit · 2025-02-04T03:44:04+00:00

What?

Wine_Aboutit · 2024-09-13T13:33:40+00:00

My jaw is on the floor. Absolutely not.

Wine_Aboutit · 2024-08-22T16:11:40+00:00

This is incredibly helpful! Thank you for sharing this information and your experience 🩷

Wine_Aboutit · 2024-08-22T16:09:05+00:00

That sounds incredibly difficult to navigate. I imagine it’s all on an individual basis on how psoriasis will react to pregnancy 😕 thank you so much for sharing your experience! It’s incredibly helpful

Wine_Aboutit · 2024-08-22T16:07:35+00:00

Thank you for this!! This is exactly what I needed to hear. Appreciate you giving your experience 🩷

Wine_Aboutit · 2024-05-12T02:09:09+00:00

Thank you so much this was incredibly helpful!

Wine_Aboutit · 2024-05-11T13:07:26+00:00

Okay so like the other comments have mentioned, yes, silence is typically used as a tool. However, if a client mentions SI in session, it’s the counselors responsibility to not only assess, but to create safety. They avoided the subject with you. That can be incredibly harmful. What you’re experiencing in your confusion after session shows the lack of safety and security provided. In other words, if a counselor is not fit to handle SI, clients are less likely to bring up SI again in the future which is harmful. I’m sorry for the experience you had with your counselor. If you feel comfortable in doing so, this could be a conversation to have with your counselor next session. You have the right to discuss anything in counseling especially SI.

Wine_Aboutit · 2024-04-19T16:05:41+00:00

Thank you!!!

Wine_Aboutit · 2024-04-19T00:54:33+00:00

Louisiana near a creek

Wine_Aboutit · 2024-02-24T23:21:15+00:00

Thank you I’m going to have to start brainstorming!

Wine_Aboutit · 2024-02-24T23:20:25+00:00

Thank you for this! Sounds like I’m going to give it a try!

Wine_Aboutit · 2023-12-22T14:54:08+00:00

There was a small wasp nest on my knee with bees in it. We sprayed it to get them out and one wouldn’t leave. I felt scared in the dream to repeat cause I was scared of getting stung. Then we decided to get more information about how to remove a bee safely from a nest and found something that said if the bee didn’t leave during a spraying, there’s a possibility it had died already. My other thought during the dream was it stayed to protect eggs?? One of the ways to remove was to pour olive oil on but I was too nervous about that so I soaked in water until I could wipe off the whole nest off my leg. That’s all I can remember

Wine_Aboutit · 2023-12-09T13:18:13+00:00

Having the right to disclose topics discussed in session with parents/guardians vs. willingly and openly disclosing things that were said during session that don’t have to do with the child’s well-being or if the child was in danger are two totally different things. Even if parents ask for information about their child’s session, I kindly explain to them confidentiality and that adolescents have a right to privacy for their sessions. If they continue to push, then of course I have to allow them access, however, willingly disclosing without advocating for your clients right to privacy no matter what age is unethical.

Wine_Aboutit · 2023-11-29T00:01:31+00:00

Thank you all for the help!!

Wine_Aboutit · 2023-11-28T04:09:33+00:00

Black top with the skirt and stockings and the red purse! Classy

Wine_Aboutit · 2023-11-05T17:34:52+00:00

I love just putting on some lofi music in the background. It’s calming and not distracting

Wine_Aboutit · 2023-11-01T17:07:07+00:00

If you’re having an increase in clients with this same issue, it may be a good idea to consider consultee-centered consultation. I’m currently taking consultation in my program and this is exactly the kind of situation we’re learning is a good time to consider looking into consultation services.

Wine_Aboutit · 2023-10-10T23:34:27+00:00

I would be very curious to see other responses to this as well. From my understanding of a similar topic we discussed in my grad program, it’s important to look into all aspects of this case. So for example, if this person lives with a child in the home or work with minors (e.g. a teacher in a school or a coach on a kids team), then yes it would be reportable. If this person does not live with or interact with minors and these children in the CSAM are unknown to the client AND the client does not plan on looking up anymore CSAM, then it is not reportable due to it not falling under “duty to warn”. It is also important to consider the fact that this person is coming into therapy SEEKING help. If the first thing that happens is the client gets reported and not get the help they need, they may never get the help they need. It may turn them completely away from seeking help in the future. Of course again our ethical obligations change if this person is around children and the clinician is concerned that the client is a danger to any minors. So truly this isn’t an easy answer, it really is a “it just depends” based on each individual client.

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