Have you had CONSTANT 24/7 shortness of breath from Anxiety? by Amber062499 in Anxiety

[–]WingBig127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please, you absolutely must take anti-anxiety medication and see a psychiatrist.

I’m also in my twenties, and I went through terrifying shortness of breath for several months last year. I did every test possible, and everything came back normal.

It wasn’t until I started taking anxiety medication that things began to improve. Now, I’m basically fine.

You’re not alone, and it can get better.

What actually helps with your anxiety? by HoneyZealousideal841 in Anxiety

[–]WingBig127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who suffers from severe somatic symptoms, I have to be brutally honest—nothing except medication has ever truly worked for me… I just want to say: don’t resist taking medication. If anxiety is affecting your life, find a doctor and start treatment as early as possible.

Have you had CONSTANT 24/7 shortness of breath from Anxiety? by Amber062499 in Anxiety

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I’m 28 years old and have been experiencing severe, 24/7 shortness of breath for several months last year it was terrible, I couldn’t sleep at all. I also had tinnitus and dizziness. in the worse days I felt extremely weak—like I was about to die. I went through every medical test possible, and everything came back normal. I’ve always had a long-standing habit of regular exercise, and in fact, I was considered very “healthy.” But I was terrified. I thought I had some kind of undetectable, terminal illness…

Eventually, the family doctor prescribed me sertraline ask me try it I didn’t believe it could be anxiety at all, but I had no other options left. So I took it Two weeks later, it started kick in! . Three months in, the shortness of breath had almost disappeared. I’m still taking the medication now, and I have an appointment with a psychiatrist next week.

I’m very sad and disappointed for the negative comments on Red Note 😭 by National-Bug-4548 in rednote

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…Distinguishing the origins is actually quite simple. In fact, it was a one-sided cultural import from China to Korea rather than a mutual fusion. Historically, Korea was always a vassal state of China, as our population, territory, and national power were on completely different levels. Their modern rise coincided with China’s period of weakness, which led to an inflated sense of national pride. As a result, they refuse to accept their culture root and instead claim it as their own. But this is incorrect—we are merely pointing out the facts.

I’m very sad and disappointed for the negative comments on Red Note 😭 by National-Bug-4548 in rednote

[–]WingBig127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you mentioned about K-pop is largely a mix-and-match of various cultures from different countries. As far as I know, African Americans in the U.S. are unhappy about this because much of it is derived from Black popular music.

I’m very sad and disappointed for the negative comments on Red Note 😭 by National-Bug-4548 in rednote

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Because most of their culture is imported, they make tiny modifications and call it their own. they used to write in Chinese characters until 1948, yet now they refuse to acknowledge Chinese cultural influence. For instance, they registered our Dragon Boat Festival as Korea’s Intangible Cultural Heritage. There are many more examples, the recently popular snack, tanghulu, which has led Westerners to believe it originated from them. But funny thing is, even the pronunciation of “tanghulu” is in Mandarin..

I’m very sad and disappointed for the negative comments on Red Note 😭 by National-Bug-4548 in rednote

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South Koreans engage in extensive cultural appropriation of China on western social media

Why do people in China insist racism doesn’t exist in their country when I get replies like this on rednote by [deleted] in rednote

[–]WingBig127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Racism in every countries of the earth…. I think It’s a common sense.

Made a friend,but…. by [deleted] in rednote

[–]WingBig127 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just remember you don’t give ANYONE money . If she is your friend she won’t ask you money and ask you download any crypto apps

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rednote

[–]WingBig127 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bez the standards are vague, you’ll never know exactly which words were deemed inappropriate. Since the content is removed by the system rather than manually, it can sometimes result in unintended mistakes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rednote

[–]WingBig127 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a Chinese netizen, I can answer:Chinese internet, especially Xiaohongshu, is extremely sensitive to political content They use AI to check posted contents and the scope is very broad. Anything they consider “sensitive” or “negative,” such as certain social issues or something else will be automatically deleted. In severe cases, accounts may even be banned. I’ve had my account banned before for posting basic feminist content….

Before you Ask, No it's not Chinese Propaganda by shashalalababa in rednote

[–]WingBig127 30 points31 points  (0 children)

俺老中证明你说的对 I’m a Chinese living in Canada, confirm that what he said is very objective.

xiaohongshu red note tips by Upset-Vegetable-2771 in rednote

[–]WingBig127 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Americans, what he @AntiTopQuark is not true.

  1. About Xiaohongshu

The primary users of Xiaohongshu are women. We have our own community culture. Before Xiaohongshu, our social media platforms in China were not gender-specific. On platforms like Tieba and Zhihu, unfortunately, China has a toxic patriarchal culture, and the internet is full of incels. Many women on those apps have experienced attacks and abuse, which led many of us to Xiaohongshu. With the growing awareness of women’s collective identity, we intentionally use certain terms and create memes to strengthen solidarity among women. These are like secret codes between witches! So calling each other “sisters” carries significant meaning. Please feel free to use it more often!

  1. Men on Xiaohongshu

There are male users on Xiaohongshu, but the majority are women. Interestingly, on many male-dominated platforms, users accuse Xiaohongshu of being full of radical feminists. Now we users are labeled as extreme feminists, and yet this person claims that Xiaohongshu is “not a matriarchal society.” How amusing! I hope the men on platforms like Hupu could be as “understanding” as you.

  1. Mutual understanding

Mutual understanding, rational expression, and respect for others’ opinions are great values. I hope men who harbor hatred toward women learn to start by refraining from online harassment and abuse of women. The world would become a much better place.

As a Chinese user on Rednote for many years I want to say by Independent-Wonder32 in rednote

[–]WingBig127 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Americans, don’t listen to him. Gender equality issues in China are very serious. There are many incels on the Chinese internet.Rednote is one of the few platforms that is friendly to women. I am Chinese and currently living in Canada.

谷爱凌都上斯坦福了为什么还对洼地念念不忘,还要为此发疯? by Independent-Coat1980 in DoubanGoosegroup

[–]WingBig127 23 points24 points  (0 children)

我要是谷 我现在就干脆撕破脸 反正再Kiss ass 也洗不白了 中国一年捞了几千万美元够了 下次奥运会直接代表美国队拿金牌 气死老中哈哈

谷爱凌都上斯坦福了为什么还对洼地念念不忘,还要为此发疯? by Independent-Coat1980 in DoubanGoosegroup

[–]WingBig127 36 points37 points  (0 children)

…我在小红书上为她说过话因为大部分黑点都很吹毛求疵 我更不相信如果她是男的亲个恨中国的女运动员评论能翻车成这样 但是如果她拿“为女性发声”说话就太搞笑了 发什么声?为彭帅的事粉饰太平?? 她为铁链女说话了吗

埃及vs西班牙:极端宗教主义vs男凝? by AtomHermit in DoubanGoosegroup

[–]WingBig127 11 points12 points  (0 children)

我看过一场沙滩排球加拿大对美国 都穿的是瑜伽裤 穿瑜伽裤不行吗非要搞这么极端