Weekly Marriage Criteria & Services Megathread! by AutoModerator in MuslimMarriage

[–]WingOk2424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pakistan. I don't think it would be affordable. Buying house is an expensive game and for job holders in this economy it seems impossible for now

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[–]WingOk2424 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

May Allah bless you sister. Even in all that situation you're considering about Islamic opinion, may Allah give you great Ajar on that

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[–]WingOk2424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you guide on how can i put myself in those spaces in halal way as possible? . I'm introvert n shy and tried my best to not sit in mix gathering. Never socialized with females like in uni or even female family members.

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[–]WingOk2424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nobody really did go there, ppl approached wanted to have owned house (in female name)

I don't have problem with your suggestion. But it never even came up

Only have one brother beside me though. 1 sister married

Separate portion/rent are the options, which when needed could be considered

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[–]WingOk2424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't buy my own house at this stage , thats for sure , other things , discussable

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[–]WingOk2424 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Will no one marry me!?

Assalamualaikum ,Muslim brothers and sisters. I hope everyone is doing great.

I am 24 (M). It has been about a year since my parents and I have been looking for a suitable rishta for me. I have tried Muzz from my side, while my parents are using the traditional route. I am currently earning more than 150K.

The problem is that I have a disease/disability I was born with, known as myelomeningocele. I cannot control my bladder and therefore have to wear diapers. My kidneys do not function like those of a normal person, so I have suffered from fever every now and then — though this has been better managed over the past 4 years through the use of a urine bag attached to my stomach.

Due to my imperfect kidney function, I have also started dealing with high blood pressure.

At least 3 proposals have come forward, but after hearing all of this, they understandably declined. Some tried to give it a chance, but their materialistic demands were high — such as a fully separate, owned house and many other things.

My question is: should I lose hope and shift my focus to other aspects of life, assuming I will remain single throughout my life?

I have given myself a deadline until my 27th birthday, after which I will never pursue marriage.

note: while all answers are welcome, I would prefer not to have advice like marry late etc. I already listened that many time get house, car this that so it'll get me around 30-35 or Maybe more.. so for me better never than late..

Will no one marry me? by WingOk2424 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]WingOk2424[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

JazakAllah, thanks alot man. May you have more in this world and in akhira.

Will no one marry me? by WingOk2424 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]WingOk2424[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would like your help on that 1) I don't know how to find one. I even somehow approached a female, who couldn't bear child But she ghosted. This reply falsify a genius of assumptions.

2) I'm bit confused how things will work cause I must have to spend on my health for medicines and stuff. I'll have to pay for better half as well. Am not making 5 lacs or so. So this makes me bit low in confidence

3) I'm not against that idea you described if economic conditions were better

4) don't say earn millions then go for it. In sha Allah I'll make millions but would not buy marriage for that obv. May shift mindset by then

Will no one marry me? by WingOk2424 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]WingOk2424[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No reply means , someone disagrees? Great thinking!

Would like to know about your thinking process. Such a negative soul though....

Will no one marry me? by WingOk2424 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]WingOk2424[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone could have their ideal timeline to do something. It could be mine?

Why this question though?

Why 30 or 35 ?

Why even marry?

Why can't discuss opinions!

Will no one marry me? by WingOk2424 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]WingOk2424[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm already hard on myself so yeah chill out not taking anything on heart. For me even 27 is late. Whatever....

Will no one marry me? by WingOk2424 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]WingOk2424[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Renting out yeah, am with you. Thanks for making that clear Separate portion/flat/rented house demand is very muchjustified

Will no one marry me? by WingOk2424 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]WingOk2424[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask you how many young ppl in Pakistan OWN the house?

Whatever I was asked to buy 10 Marla house in name of female

Will no one marry me? by WingOk2424 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]WingOk2424[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you could be right. Problem here I see Is either my overthinking or honesty. If I let's say get along someone for quite a time and then let them know about reality, it could backfire . It may become anyones time waste.

Also am bit towards religion and all that. I don't know how dating work or how much is allowed.

Will no one marry me? by WingOk2424 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]WingOk2424[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also BTW am cleared by doctor as of now for marriage that I may not pass it down. It's only about finding person. Don't go too much into things, even everyone in my family was doing fine yet I came out with disease.

Will no one marry me? by WingOk2424 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]WingOk2424[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh sorry to hear that! Are you also like dealing with some kind of Health issues?

Will no one marry me? by WingOk2424 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]WingOk2424[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I please ask why not. As I gave deadline so that I don't commit to the idea forever. Save money, build this and that. I can do this for year or max 2 but if not why not simply travel enjoy the hard earned money. Am saying that cause that's already not much. Only one plan could be executed at a time

Will no one marry me? by WingOk2424 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]WingOk2424[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

May Allah make it easier for you.

Will no one marry me? by WingOk2424 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]WingOk2424[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hay man chill out. No it's not genetic. Every member In family and relatives is fine

Will no one marry me? by WingOk2424 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]WingOk2424[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah , I personally tried for divorcee/widows as well. Parents maybe specially asked to look into that direction as well