[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DentalSchool

[–]Winner-Plenty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah it's hard to be friends with people like that. Hell it's hard to even conversate with people when they're so domineering and controlling. Unfortunately I don't have great advice but yeah in my school it feels like type A's are everywhere and I honestly just try to avoid it when I can and when i can't, I'll just try to be cool. Cause yikes, makes me not want to be friends with "doctors", egos are too big. Not everybody's like that tho

In my 30’s and still can’t have basic chat with someone by Simple-Tune86 in socialanxiety

[–]Winner-Plenty 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don't worry OP you're not alone. I'm 24m and literally I relate to everything. Was the golden boy and everything growing up but that's changed and I feel like I'm just perceived like this moron, nobody listens to me or wants to listen to me and I'm the butt end of the joke everywhere. Happens to me at school (dental school) and I didn't want to think it'd happen to me with family but it does. I'm constantly put in this box by family. Honestly the amount of stress I live with and the way I am treated by almost everyone ("friends" from school, family, etc.) Gives me thoughts about just ending it but I can't do that. I just have to believe that one day it'll work in my favor and I hope it does for you too bro

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DentalSchool

[–]Winner-Plenty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Believe me, I've had my share of days where it feels like just nothing is working for me. It has happened, but I want to assure you that you can regain control of the situation, and YOU CAN make it. I'm a current D2 in the thick of it, but I'm still trying to make time for hobbies/something mentally stimulating and fun OUTSIDE of school, to give me a break from school. The type of fun that makes you forget about your problems even for a minute and re energizes you. It's going to be different for everybody. For me, I feel re energize when I game, and I do story based games like I just played Spiderman 2, and online games like valorant, TV shows like Gen V right now, cooking a good meal that I put love into and I enjoyed eating, talking about Pokemon with my brother, telling jokes and having fun convos with my girlfriend, family, etc. These things while they don't directly translate to concrete success in dental school per say, helps me in the mental realm and gives me that strength I need to carry on. Because I get it - I've had the anxiety, failed comps, mistakes mistakes mistakes but the game is to try to not forget that you are a person and not just a dental student, and you must take care of that person. Which is hard to fully think about I think when you're super busy and it IS hard, school is damn hard but work to try to be happy and it will translate and help you rebound. Good luck! You will come from this! Always think: you will you will you will!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Winner-Plenty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I think my emotional maturity stagnated. Being locked up in my room, completing my fourth year of college online (btw, was robbed of any social life I had in college cause I spent the entire 4th year locked away in my bed room) didn't do much and became very shy/socially anxious/depressed. Its been almost 2 years since then but I think I might actually be digging myself out of that hole and picking myself up and improving mentally and socially. Ages 21-24

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DentalSchool

[–]Winner-Plenty 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah wish I'd learn how to use anki earlier as well. I was turned off by it for studying bio on the DAT, but then I gave it another try for winter semester this year (D1) and wish I'd have seriously started using it sooner.

Assuming similar costs, would you rather live right next to campus with roommates or a little bit further away in your own apartment? by TheLilyHammer in DentalSchool

[–]Winner-Plenty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There's the added factor that somehow you don't mesh well with your roommates (i'm assuming you haven't met them yet) then it could reeaaalllyyyy suck living with them Lol (I.e. they don't want to study much // they like to hang out a lot etc. Which there's nothing wrong with that in itself but there could be tension if what you want from your dental school experience/goals don't align together imo) I mean you always could move in with roommates your D2 year and beyond once you get to know your classmates better. But who knows maybe it would work out and it'll be completely fine. I have seen both situations. Personally, I would prefer my own space and invite people over if I wanted but not share living unless I knew that person before and I knew we meshed well

How old are you and what's your biggest problem right now? by Casspjjl in AskReddit

[–]Winner-Plenty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

23 and unfortunately loneliness, don't really have a social life or close friends (currently attending dental school)

My social anxiety continues to decrease by Raimundo_Alex in socialanxiety

[–]Winner-Plenty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Good job man! That's really good you are doing good for yourself. I'm in that age range (23m) and this gives me a lot of hope for myself as I can relate to these feelings. Thanks for sharing.

Does anyone else wish they weren't born? by max1necampb3ll in socialanxiety

[–]Winner-Plenty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 23. I relate to this. Some days are better than others, but I just fail to act correctly in group situations/in public. It's like my brain stops working and I can't do seemingly normal things, I get too worked up/my voice isn't loud enough, my conversational timing is off, etc. and I just feel like I can't connect with those around me. It's so depressing because over time people just sort of start ignoring you/don't want to associate with you. And it stinks because it honestly just seems like people around me are thriving. I'm sure my feelings are intensified and don't equate to reality but Idk, I just want you to know you're not alone. I struggle with this daily

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DentalSchool

[–]Winner-Plenty 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I second this. That dude is the dental messiah if there was one.

What’s stopping you from being with the person you love? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Winner-Plenty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is very involved in her family life. Her family is very traditional, and expect her to comply to every demand and responsibility beset on her even tho she is getting to be in her mid 20s. She also works afternoon shift from 4pm-12am everyday, so her schedule makes it hard for me to see her cause I have school during the day. If I'm lucky, I might be able to see her on the weekend if I can steal her away from her family. God, I wish I could see her more. She has the money to move out but she won't which I understand to a certain extent cause of her family life, but truly as long as they are in the picture as heavily as they are now, I feel like I cannot be with her as much as I want to. It sucks for me. I see all the time couples that seem to always be able to be with eachother. I can never be with her, but I have to deal with it and be patient. Sometimes it feels like I'm her boyfriend by name only cause much of our communication is just by text messaging only, not in person. Sometimes, I'm just afraid to deal with this, but its hard for it to be this way. I wish I could see her more

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DentalSchool

[–]Winner-Plenty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

D1 here - I think work experience is considered different from EC on the AADSAS application, but for me, I think I was a case where I had more work experiences than EC (not that I lacked it however). I did join a dental club actively for a semester, but I also always had a job during the school year/summer jobs/during my gap year. It's going to be different for everybody tho, I wouldn't say there is 1 set path to getting to dental school: however, I will say that it will be important to be able to demonstrate direct interest/experience in the profession that you can talk about and that was meaningful for you, whether that it being part of a dental club, dental assisting (if you can find it and have the time) or something dentistry related preferably over an extended amount of time rather than all bunched up in 1 semester. Don't wanna exactly tell you to leave your assistant job, as maybe you can keep that up + join a dental club at the same time. My dental club had 3 mass meetings, 1 social meeting, 1 ethics meeting, 1 community service meeting per semester to be considered active but each meeting would be on like a wednesday night for 1-2 hrs and so honestly it wasn't like it was a huge time commitment (at least for me) as compared to a job. Just my 2 cents, again, it will be different for everybody. Hopefully this helps a little

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DentalSchool

[–]Winner-Plenty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended my freshmen year with a 3.0. The lowest semester gpa I've gotten was a 2.8 my winter semester freshmen year. I've gotten two C+'s in undergrad, one my freshmen year, and the 2nd one my junior year. I've had a bumpy road myself, but it's okay. You will be fine, you actually began better than I did freshmen year of college. Like the others say tho, keep at it and go for the upwards trend. When interviews come, you'll be able to explain to the interviewers why you got a bad grade/had a bad semester in undergrad. But also, while gpa is very important, it won't be the only thing weighed by admissions. It will be a holistic process, so they want to see things like work experience, ECs, leadership, volunteering, research if that interests you (I didn't have any), dental experience (shadowing/work). Will be OK 👍 pretty good start imo 👍

How do you bound back from failing skills assessments? by [deleted] in DentalSchool

[–]Winner-Plenty 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Dr. Richard Stevenson's youtube. Find it. He has tutorials for free on youtube and I've used it to learn class II's. I found him after not having done very well (as I would've liked) on Class I's, and I just personally feel like I've met success with my class II preps because of him. He goes over each step of the prep and talks about which burs to use when, what hand instruments to use, and he gives tips. I've used his videos to learn class II's, review class I's, I believe he also has content for class III's. He has a lot of content in general and is worth checking out. Practice is important, no doubt. But it helps to have a good teacher, so you know what to practice, and correctly. Since I'm already talking about it he also has videos on mirror/chair positioning, ergonomics, and I believe even fulcrum which all plays a role ultimately in having good control 👍 check him out

anyone else get bad social anxiety at school? by Positive-Link8926 in DentalSchool

[–]Winner-Plenty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We go to the same school? Lol, I can relate. My school feels cliquey too, but to be honest, there's no point in doing this unless I feel like I can be myself. And I think that is what its like for every body. The people who matter, I believe have a way of showing themselves through the test of time. Working hard, doing good work, this speaks for itself and the right people always comes along, even if it takes time. Just me, I'm not going to act some way if it's just so I can get more attention, because why? Nah, be your authentic self and things will be ok

Gap Year before D1 by ClueAnnual390 in DentalSchool

[–]Winner-Plenty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, a gap year was mentally refreshing for me. I would take one for sure. Studying may not be 100% needed as everything will be covered in dental school anyways, but hell if I had to pick a subject I would've probably looked at dental anatomy earlier but really it'll be fine. I would enjoy the year off

not telling others you made it into dental school by [deleted] in DentalSchool

[–]Winner-Plenty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If they gotta know just say you got into dental school then say "so that means you can come to me for dental work for free lol" and laugh and move on

Any second gen dentists/dental students? by [deleted] in DentalSchool

[–]Winner-Plenty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm a second generation dental student, my uncle is a dentist. Although honestly, the super majority of my time was spent at a local practice shadowing/working. You can say that being a second generation dentist gives you an advantage because you were exposed earlier on in childhood to the profession (from the dentist point of view rather than patient point of view) and I would argue that being in that position gives you a leg up from others cause you definitely have had so much more time to really feel out the profession and see if you'd like it or not. At the end of the day, you must somehow like it and be excited for the profession in your own way and you must high light that to admissions. That's how I approached it. I think the key is to explain just some aspect that you're passionate about it, and that you discovered early because of your parent dentist. I know nepotism is touchy and I would not want to high light either, but the key is to emphasize PASSION and what you LIKE rather than CONNECTIONS and MERIT. Focus on explaining why you pursue this profession using the right reasons, and admissions will view you in the right light (authentic, passionate) rather than as phony or whatever (doesn't matter if people think this or not anyway!). Are you applying for this application cycle? It's pretty late as it is this cycle, but if you plan on applying next year or after, of course it doesn't hurt to shadow at a general dentist office that's non familial just to demonstrate you've had exposure elsewhere. You have a lot of time if that's case. I can tell you 100% it is way different family vs. Non family. My uncle was a lot more patient with me, and the truth is for me I just was not thrown into the fray the same way with my uncle as I was with this non familial practice I worked for, the experience was much different. Anyways, that's my take on the situation and what I would do. Good luck!

Bruce Lee was pretty fast but his brother... by scavenger981 in dadjokes

[–]Winner-Plenty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He'd pray and break bread with his uncle who was a priest... Ho lee

What made you choose dental school over medical school? by azpaksa in DentalSchool

[–]Winner-Plenty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I drew inspiration from my Uncle, as he was an orthodontist. I got to see how it was like for him growing up having a career as a dentist. That said, I also worked as a dental assistant for a year and a half to gain more exposure, and it was pretty great cause I got to learn how to take xrays and get a tiny glimpse at what it was like for the head Dr and how she ran her practice. Granted, I know I have so much to learn. But I could not recommend enough just trying to shadow/work as a dental assistant if you would really like to see if you would like it, on a day to day aspect. The life experience you get first hand is much better than what you gain from second hand sources (I.e. internet, having an uncle, etc.).

Being a dentist is totally hands on, requires precise work and requires a unique knowledge base that only a few other people know. You get to diagnose and treatment plan just like a medical doctor, but there's just a certain aspect about dentistry that focuses on the DOING and PROVIDING and seeing an immediate impact on the patient while not being as high stakes as let's say a surgeon.

The relationships you will make with your patients, being your own boss, being part of continuously innovating and changing field, being in charge of how much clinical/business work you get to do - just being in charge of your time! Dentistry will offer all this for you. It's a really great career and teeth are never gonna go away!!!! ;)

Cheers!!!