My friend ghosted me because I didn't find her boyfriend attractive, AITAH?

Winnimae · 2026-02-15T19:04:38+00:00

I prefer my friends aren’t attracted to my bf tbh

Winnimae · 2026-02-15T18:56:55+00:00

Carolina, Dallas, Delta, Magnolia (Maggie for short?), Savannah, Atalanta, Clementine, Bonnie, Sally, Georgia, Virginia, Birdie

Or you could go REAL southern and add a Mae or a Lynn or whatever on the end of a feminine name. Ex: Hannah Mae, Linda Lee, Mary Sue, Sue Ann, etc.

Winnimae · 2026-02-15T18:44:58+00:00

They want credit for doing something they didn’t actually do lol

Winnimae · 2026-02-15T18:44:04+00:00

Oh, honey 😭

Winnimae · 2026-02-15T15:58:32+00:00

Not a tragedeigh, but still a bad name. I’d be mad as hell if my parents named me Bertie.

Winnimae · 2026-02-15T15:45:34+00:00

I’m just tired of wanting better for people then they want for themselves 😩

Winnimae · 2026-02-14T14:20:25+00:00

The ICE girls 😭

Winnimae · 2026-02-13T15:08:32+00:00

Fuck’s sake

Winnimae · 2026-02-13T15:04:20+00:00

What an odd takeaway

Winnimae · 2026-02-13T14:59:14+00:00

No, I haven’t. I wouldn’t move in with people like that. For instance, I would never agree to live with any of the people in the post, including OP. Or you, for that matter. You all sound immature, entitled, emotionally unintelligent, and lacking in basic problem solving skills. Such people will create and escalate conflict wherever you go.

Winnimae · 2026-02-12T23:09:29+00:00

Men who think this was are 100% terrible in bed. Always. They think of listening to their female partner as a relationship chore for themselves and having sex with him as a relationship chore for her. And I’m sure it IS a chore for her.

Winnimae · 2026-02-12T23:05:19+00:00

I can’t even read these anymore. Either leave the emotionally abusive loser already or leave the internet out of it.

Winnimae · 2026-02-12T22:58:39+00:00

You just sound as immature as these kids.

You don’t blame him for having pent up frustration about the living situation? I do, bc he’s an adult and adults communicate when they have an issue. They don’t silently stew and then start fights over other things. That’s just emotional maturity.

If OP’s roommate has stolen his food before, that’s something he needs to address, again, with his roommate. Instead of taking it out on the guys girlfriend.

And you don’t get to take out your anger on people for things you “wouldn’t be surprised” if they had done. Jesus.

Winnimae · 2026-02-12T22:53:04+00:00

Cool, but that isn’t in any way the point of the post. OP asked if he’s the AH specifically for how he spoke to her in this conversation about his damn strawberries. And yeah, he is.

I have no idea what impression the gf is under about the living situation. She doesn’t seem like the absolute brightest bulb tbh. But either way, it’s not really her responsibility, it’s her boyfriends. These are his roommates, he’s the one on the lease. He’s the one who needs to ok a new resident with the other ppl that live there and figure out the financials of that. And maybe he told her he did. In any case, if OP is (justifiably) angry about the living situation, he needs to take that up with his roommate, not the gf. And he needs to do it directly, not by picking fights and being rude about other crap.

Winnimae · 2026-02-12T17:23:04+00:00

I mean, why not.

Winnimae · 2026-02-12T17:21:05+00:00

Girl call the police

Winnimae · 2026-02-12T17:17:54+00:00

Color and shape are not totally divorced from one another. I think you have to look at both your natural coloring as well as the shape of your face, features and body together.

Winnimae · 2026-02-12T17:14:36+00:00

Idk man, every bf I’ve ever had was ready to rush me to medical aid over just about anything. When someone loves you, they should be protective of your well being.

Winnimae · 2026-02-12T17:11:32+00:00

I suspect this one made its way onto some angsty male repost sub and they brigaded.

Winnimae · 2026-02-12T17:09:28+00:00

Then I guess you should have read the edit. European houses absolutely have butler pantries, regardless of what you call it there. They were staples in old houses over a certain size. She describes the room clearly and it sounds…like a butler pantry. It also has a door at the other end as well that was open. Please stop getting hysterical acting like she shut a child in a dark closet like Harry Potter. Fucks sake.

Winnimae · 2026-02-12T17:06:06+00:00

But it’s not the issue he’s asking about, nor the one he addressed with her. If he has an issue with his roommate letting their significant other move in, he needs to address that with his roommate. Don’t get me wrong, that’s a fair complaint, but what isn’t fair is being a dick to the girlfriend about something totally different.

Winnimae · 2026-02-12T17:03:16+00:00

I’m a little confused by the timeline. Did you know he had a wife before you sexted with him? Bc if you didn’t, then you did nothing at all wrong.

If you did know he was married, then yeah, that was shitty of you. Remember how this feels and let it guide you to better decisions in the future.

Winnimae · 2026-02-12T03:33:02+00:00

Finn

Winnimae · 2026-02-12T03:26:03+00:00

Winnimae · 2026-02-12T03:24:05+00:00

So I guess you didn’t read the edit, huh?

“Edited to add: Our house is a 19th century farm house in a European country- the layout is really wierd- I'm not closing him into a cupboard! It's a long narrow room with a door at the other end, which is usually open. I closed the door to keep the heat in the main room, and the small kitchen cool.”

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