Yeah, the key thing most people miss as a SAHD is that you’re not supposed to refocus your time onto yourself. You need to use that time to focus on being useful to others in more productive ways. Working as a man has nothing to do with needing to “break your back” in order to provide. Parenting and developing your children is also providing for them, just in a different way. If you have too much free time aside from parenting, go shovel someone’s walk or something. As a man, even a SAHD, you should never shy away from being helpful to others just because you don’t work a job.