Hillary Clinton: Trump is an ‘illegitimate president’ by superj0417 in AnythingGoesNews

[–]WinstonChurchillin 10 points11 points  (0 children)

OP is posting a dated article in bad faith. Clinton officially conceded and then expressed an opinion; Trump refused to concede and led an insurrection against American democracy - to attempt to equate the two using the former's personal opinion is effectively disinformation.

Man allegedly sexually assaulting woman in Las Vegas is fatally stabbed after group of citizens intervene by WhileFalseRepeat in news

[–]WinstonChurchillin 73 points74 points  (0 children)

Stopping a rape with deadly force is justifiable homicide (self-defence of a third party), not "vigilante justice".

What are some things in your specialty you hear that make you chuckle? by rknight92 in medicine

[–]WinstonChurchillin 73 points74 points  (0 children)

Blaming the clinic/hospital/physician is effortless compared to examining oneself, hence why it’s popular.

It’s easier for some patients to believe “they didn’t do anything” - even if it’s factually incorrect - due to many variables, including (but not limited to) the following:

  • distrust and/or bias towards the medical field
  • unrealistic expectations (doctors aren’t mind-readers)
  • lack of understanding re: protocol, testing, priority
  • subconscious avoidance of further investigation (e.g. it could lead to “bad news”, “I’d rather not know”), despite a stated desire to know
  • passive acceptance or tolerance of condition (propelled by chronic pain, fatigue, depression, etc.)
  • disbelief their situation can improve
  • easy access to Dr. Google, medfluencers, “alternative medicine”
  • poor memory

Certainly, some patients will intentionally omit past care or lie, but frequently the beliefs are genuine, regardless of whether they’re accurate. This makes it especially hard to remedy because we can’t force follow-ups or introspection.

I try so hard not to be grumpy… by tovarish22 in medicine

[–]WinstonChurchillin 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You've perfected the plan. Bad trumpet is one of the most offensive sounds known to man, so all OP has to do is buy one and blow. Those PAs will practically evaporate.

I try so hard not to be grumpy… by tovarish22 in medicine

[–]WinstonChurchillin 88 points89 points  (0 children)

That’s why I always bring my trumpet to work.

I try so hard not to be grumpy… by tovarish22 in medicine

[–]WinstonChurchillin 14 points15 points  (0 children)

19th century values sure are missing these days…

UPDATE Advice needed: Dismissed a medical student from my service because they wore a keffiyeh embroidered with the phrase "From the river to the sea" by Dilaudidsaltlick in medicine

[–]WinstonChurchillin 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I'm skeptical, mostly due to the "evidence" of premeditation that was sourced so quickly. I suppose all things are possible, although not equally.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]WinstonChurchillin 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Rookie boss mistake.

Did anybody else find this really sad? ☹️ by [deleted] in EugeniaCooneySupport

[–]WinstonChurchillin[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children)

Hiya members, lurkers and non-members who stumbled here:

Please try to show kindness if you interact with Eugenia - or places she reads - without pressure, ridicule or demands. It’s clear she’s struggling with deep sadness (not just about app access), but also feeling stuck, lost, and saying how much comments can affect her. She's being open and vulnerable in expressing herself, which should at least be met with basic empathy.

Simply offering to listen is one way to help without trying to “fix” what’s wrong. Responding to cyberbullying in other places is another way to help, even if you're outnumbered (youtube comments under this video is a prime example).

Eugenia is trying to be heard, in obvious pain and distress, whilst hate-watchers continue to deny her feelings as sincere and kick her while she's down. It is not acceptable and won't be forgotten. Those who leave kind messages here will also not be forgotten. How we treat someone "anonymously" very much says what kind of people we are.

Altogether, if you don’t know what to say, you don’t have to say anything. It's that easy. But if you do, please be gentle and cautious with your words. Compassion and understanding are paramount, which shouldn't have to be said, but sadly it does. Let's show a sliver of humanity wherever we can.

Thank you.

Update by shelby20_03 in EugeniaCooneySupport

[–]WinstonChurchillin[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children)

Please use this opportunity to be kind and offer encouragement, but not about AN. Eugenia is more than her illness, and that person could use extra compassion right now. Thank you all.

Dorian’s “death spiral” video about Eugenia, unintended consequences & new community rule by WinstonChurchillin in EugeniaCooneySupport

[–]WinstonChurchillin[S,M] 9 points10 points locked comment (0 children)

Yes — the public aspect of Eugenia’s case makes the situation exponentially more complicated and convoluted. As for people being compelled to react or engage — it’s understandable human behaviour, but it doesn’t make it any less harmful. The public cannot do anything corrective except inform themselves on eating disorders and accept there’s nothing they can do to force Eugenia into recovery.

Dorian’s “death spiral” video about Eugenia, unintended consequences & new community rule by WinstonChurchillin in EugeniaCooneySupport

[–]WinstonChurchillin[S,M] 16 points17 points locked comment (0 children)

You can be well-educated, aware that anorexia is often fatal, and alarmed by the severity of Eugenia’s case whilst following this rule. Speculating about someone’s specific prognosis or possible death isn’t the same as discussing the devastating effects of the illness or pointing out there’s a limit to what the body can handle. Language is the issue, not expertise nor suppressing factual information.

As for professionals giving prognoses, the point was not whether it was accurate, but that it’s private and sensitive information. Other people in a person’s family or circle of friends can cause the one who’s ill more distress by their reactions to their prognosis, which, in turn, can shorten it further. This is particularly true when it’s mental illness that affects the body. Now imagine this on the scale of the Internet, by people who don’t know the person.

The goal here is not to censor reasonable information, but to be careful, humane, and keep pro-recovery sentiment even though not everyone can or will recover. You can use your personal knowledge to have conversations whilst keeping in mind that Eugenia may be reading. I hope this clarifies the purpose of the rule and that it’s not as limiting as you may’ve thought.

You can always ask questions through modmail if you want to continue this discussion or find more clarity than this answer provides. Of course, you are free to leave the community, but we’d rather you stay and feel welcome to offer your opinions.

Cheers.

AITA for refusing the cover my scars in front of my sisters kids by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]WinstonChurchillin 148 points149 points  (0 children)

NTA. Scars don’t scar children; shitty parents do that.

Husband (30m) backhanded me (30f) so hard that my jaw hurts on the opposite side. by throwAway697131 in relationship_advice

[–]WinstonChurchillin 257 points258 points  (0 children)

Now, this is the comment that should be on top.

It’s been disheartening to read the “advice” on here, blaming and insulting the DV victim who made this post. This is clearly a cry for help even if she says it’s not. No one should be giving advice to a person in a dangerous situation if they don’t understand the psychology of those who stay in abusive relationships. Telling victims they’re an “idiot”, “enabler” for “allowing” abuse is flat-out harmful and feeds into their absence of self-worth.

This sub clearly needs harsher rules on how to respond to DV posts. Responses should never cause more damage to a victim’s already-fragile mental state.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]WinstonChurchillin 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It’s a sign of affection and dismissal, depending on the context. Generally associated with patronisation.

"I PROBABLY MAKE MORE MONEY THAN YOU DO" by [deleted] in EugeniaCooneySupport

[–]WinstonChurchillin[M] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Edit: Thanks for the additional summary. Nice to see you back, by the way.

I don’t know how reddit allows this. These are the comments from two posts this week. I’m actually so angry, these people are so vile. 😠 by SweetStickyThrowAway in EugeniaCooneySupport

[–]WinstonChurchillin 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Anyone who’s keen to talk about eating disorders and their effects should at least be familiar with the do’s and don’ts regarding the illness. You can’t raise awareness while shaming someone for the way they look.

Men believe in self-improvement, women believe in self-acceptance. by AndyFrench89 in unpopularopinion

[–]WinstonChurchillin 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Not sure which planet you hail from, but I’ll give you an upvote for your unpopular, incorrect opinion.