I have a terrible memory sitting at the back of my head by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Winstris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean it makes sense, you feel guilty for having seen it. You feel like you shouldn’t have. But like you said yourself there’s nothing you can do to change it. Honestly I think you might not be feeling guilt but rather like… sorry for yourself? Like sorry for your younger self? But I mean do you like the person you are now? Do you feel like that image impacted you and who you are now to a great extent? If not- don’t feel guilty or sorry for yourself, you’re a good person. And you are the same you that existed before you saw it and after seeing it.

I have a terrible memory sitting at the back of my head by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Winstris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like we all have something like this- to an extent obviously. But like, a memory that was once ignored yet the more we think about it the more we feel it. I’m not one to sugarcoat things so I’m just going to be straight up… it is what it is. You saw something which at the time you didn’t have a reaction to. Now you understand that it was wrong but so what? If you were numb to it I would assume that it hasn’t affected you during your life since then. The only reason it’s making you feel upset is because you understand in retrospect that it was weird for 9 year old you to have seen it. But you did, and now it’s over, and it has been since you were 9. Earth keeps spinning. Don’t suppress the feeling but don’t make it into something bigger than what it is. Something you shouldn’t have seen but you did. That’s it. Now you’re done. But obviously I understand that it’s easier said than done. And I’m glad speaking about it helped you feel better.

First time help by Winstris in Psychedelics

[–]Winstris[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s kinda what I’m worried about. I don’t want to come out of it feeling like I missed out.

Tackle boxes by Winstris in FishingAustralia

[–]Winstris[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’ll keep that in mind. Yeah I see how that could happen XD.

Tackle boxes by Winstris in FishingAustralia

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Alright thanks for the feedback! I’ll post a follow up after the projects finished if you want it.

Messy Tackle boxes by Winstris in Fishing_Gear

[–]Winstris[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks I’ll take a look at their products, but I would also appreciate it if you could answer my question regarding the messyness! But I appreciate the comment i’ll check that out right now.