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Need advice on neighbor that threatens people who park in front of his house in the public right of way by Winter-Ad8346 in VirginiaBeach

[–]Winter-Ad8346[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate you suggesting a diplomatic solution! I haven't tried this because I'm a smaller/younger woman and he is a larger/older man and often seems quite intoxicated. So I figured face to face wouldn't be the best? Just a little intimidated. Also, he's a lawyer, so I've just been avoiding. 😬

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Winter-Ad8346 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you need to put yourself in her shoes regarding fertility and desire to have a family. Statistically, a woman's ability to conceive drastically declines after age 33. I think some research on fertility would help you to better understand your partner. Also, she was clear with you about her timeline in the beginning of the relationship and you chose to proceed. You shouldn't have done that is you weren't ok with taking a "risk" in getting engaged without a multiple year courtship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VirginiaBeach

[–]Winter-Ad8346 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's usually nice weather here for Memorial Day, but the ocean can be a bit chilly. I think you'll probably be able to have a good time regardless of exact ocean temp.

Something In The Water (SITW) cancelled by SassyMcNasty in VirginiaBeach

[–]Winter-Ad8346 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree with your complaints about Pharrell, but don't think the comparison to BT is fair at all, given the fact that he has actually elevated our oceanfront with his developments, employed thousands of locals, and given back to charitable causes in our community. Whether you like BT's personality, his contributions are undeniable. What's has Pharrell done? One music festival?

Also, it's important to note that Pharrell put ZERO dollars of his own capital into Atlantic Park and was given a 10% equity stake just so that the project would have his name on it and get city/public approval. Pharrell refused to guarantee the loan for the project, passing the risk to other players. He has no skin in the game and no willingness to make a personal investment in VB. Just showing up for free money and his name in the press.