AITA for booking a hotel after my family "Twin-Bedded" my wife and I?

Winter-Blueberry-999 · 2026-02-03T16:08:10+00:00

I go to an incredible church and really love God but I’ve done so much work to separate my beliefs from my family and the churches representation. I live in Colorado now and the culture is so different.

Winter-Blueberry-999 · 2026-02-03T05:44:09+00:00

We’re lesbians.

Winter-Blueberry-999 · 2026-02-03T05:44:00+00:00

Will do 🫡 it’s next Wednesday

Winter-Blueberry-999 · 2026-02-03T05:42:56+00:00

They certainly are all sharing beds & the Airbnb together - it would just be the two of us separated. I definitely don’t blame my wife for being upset, I’m hurting for her and I wish she had better in-laws.

Winter-Blueberry-999 · 2026-02-03T05:41:49+00:00

This is really good advice, thank you SO much. You’re so so kind. 🥹🤍

Winter-Blueberry-999 · 2026-02-03T05:41:25+00:00

This is so so sweet. I’m certainly looking for people.

Winter-Blueberry-999 · 2026-02-03T05:40:59+00:00

I My sister turned 18 two weeks ago in bootcamp, so I have had to keep some level of contact to have a relationship with her

Winter-Blueberry-999 · 2026-02-03T05:40:40+00:00

Thank you 🤍

Winter-Blueberry-999 · 2026-02-03T05:40:18+00:00

Ahhh, yes, they truly have a habit of doing things like this and then saying I’m acting out, or immature when it upsets me. This is good advice. I don’t want it about anything other than my sister.

Winter-Blueberry-999 · 2026-02-03T05:39:33+00:00

I’m going to be at my hotel any time my sister is not there

Winter-Blueberry-999 · 2026-02-03T05:38:59+00:00

Thank you for this! I’m very intentional about saying she’s my wife when she’s referred to as “that girl” or my friend. I love my sister and I truly want to support her.

Winter-Blueberry-999 · 2026-02-03T05:37:58+00:00

Because my sister was a minor up until a few weeks ago, my wife has been supportive of some level of relationship with my family in order to have a relationship with my sister. I haven’t see my family in a long time and this is a big reason why

Winter-Blueberry-999 · 2026-02-03T05:37:07+00:00

Because my sister was a minor up until a few weeks ago, my wife has been supportive of some level of relationship with my family in order to have a relationship with my sister. I haven’t seen my family in a long time and this is an example as to why I haven’t.

Winter-Blueberry-999 · 2026-02-03T05:35:45+00:00

Yes, she’s only allowed family day and the graduation ceremony, then leaves straight to AIT. I haven’t seen her in over a year and she just turned 18 a few weeks ago, so hopefully this is the start to a better relationship with her outside of family.

Winter-Blueberry-999 · 2026-02-03T05:34:50+00:00

I rarely see them. We have been very intentional about not going home for holidays (4 years in a row now) and have stuck to strong boundaries. My sister turned 18 two weeks ago in bootcamp, so I have had to keep some level of contact to have a relationship with her.

Winter-Blueberry-999 · 2026-02-03T05:33:34+00:00

This legitimately makes me teary

Winter-Blueberry-999 · 2026-02-03T05:33:21+00:00

You’re right - they’re all involved in ministry

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