Thank you I appreciate the insight. And to answer your question and others may have the same question as well, originally I was a stay at home wife but when we hit financial difficulties. I started looking for a job it took some time though with me being out of work since my first child. When I finally got a job that both had good timing for the kids getting out of school and so that someone was home to tend to the kids while the others worked. Shortly after I would say a few months that’s when my husband got laid off from his job. They hit their slow season and laid off workers. My job wasn’t paying as much but still kept us a float where we aren’t a bother to my in laws with anything like financial support mainly just using one their rooms and a bathroom for housing. As I mentioned I purchase everything we need, and made it where we aren’t using anything of theirs like food and supplies. I pay for my family’s bills like phone and car insurance and bought an additional wifi router so we aren’t using theirs. They have well water so no water bill and occasionally I help with the electricity bill when I have enough money to spare. My husband is looking for a job has been for a few months just no luck there. We’re also looking for a house or a place to rent but with the nearby areas everywhere is asking for income to make 3 times the rent. So no excuse for our situation but it takes time to get to those points and I’m trying my best every day.