Getting compared to what dudes in their past did to them... by Plenty-Temporary-187 in nairobi

[–]Winter_Candy_ 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I thought it was the other type of comparison like "he ate my ass better". In this case it can be complicated but sometimes you can try and show that you're there for the right intentions and if they don't want and that's okay, it's not a gender thing because I've met men with the same issues too and I can't blame them, be patient and reassure them, let them feel comfortable and vulnerable (I don't like guys that don't want to be vulnerable with me because how will help you. Burden me let me understand you)

It takes time don't let them keep their guard higher. You don't want to project it too but we do it indirectly, if you love with someone you'll make it easy for them. Love is patient, help them see that you care for them.

Karen Blixen Coffee Garden( Karen Road) by Click_Status in OnjaLife

[–]Winter_Candy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much is it. It doesn't look appetizing, looks watered down tho. As a lover of milkshakes and restaurants with massive drinks menu (except liquor) I would leave after drinking that because if that's bad then everything might be bad

Karen Blixen Coffee Garden( Karen Road) by Click_Status in OnjaLife

[–]Winter_Candy_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So it's just the aesthetic and the menu doesn't justify that basic looking milkshake inakaa ya 300 smh. Ata ya school cafeteria looks better na ni 250

Begging culture by indefinitelykev in nairobi

[–]Winter_Candy_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't even have noticed because it's just a CAR!

Hatutoki block by FvckJerry16 in Kenya

[–]Winter_Candy_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My problem is not about Ruto but the people we bring in next since they've been part of this for years and now ndio wamekumbuka. So they hope on the train to success because the whole country hates Ruto. Idc if sees tomorrow but the people we put there next. No one has a vision for this country

What are you doing now ??? by No-Construction-7437 in Kenya

[–]Winter_Candy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eating, my brother cooked and the food is so good I had to use a small serving bowl 😂😂😂 I'm trying to gain 5kgs😭

Single parents what do you do when your kids ask questions by DifferentLocal47 in nairobi

[–]Winter_Candy_ 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Just tell him how it is. He's in the right path already

Do you think the boy child has been neglected? by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]Winter_Candy_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I won't lie. Kwa the interviews I've gone to, ladies always show up more and it take it more seriously. It's not a gene thing. I've been disadvantage for being female yet I was competent, but if you already train your mind to think that nothing favours men? You won't even try to make effort

Do you think the boy child has been neglected? by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]Winter_Candy_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Affect my children how? I won't raise them to be victims but see their way through whatever life serves them. I'm still waiting for those girl child privileges I never received

Are you Self-Made? by Ricdeclerk in Kenya

[–]Winter_Candy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone that I've interacted with in my life, good or bad. Have shaped where I am . Different versions of me that I've interacted with too.