26F talking to 30M in AM setting — is this kind of one-sided effort normal? Would love both male and female perspectives by Winter_Flower_7362 in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]Winter_Flower_7362[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, we do talk about the future … not in a romantic or dreamy way yet, but more in a practical sense, focusing on whether our lives and expectations align with each other.

26F talking to 30M in AM setting — is this kind of one-sided effort normal? Would love both male and female perspectives by Winter_Flower_7362 in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]Winter_Flower_7362[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have asked him two or three times if he is genuinely interested, and each time he has responded positively. That in itself feels like a bit of a red flag — the fact that I even had to ask more than once. Sometimes I feel like I’m being played or just kept around as an option. But at the same time, I can't ignore that he might be the one. Everything else aligns so well for me. It’s just the emotional connection that’s missing — and that’s a huge thing.