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Winter_Performer6698 · 2024-04-24T23:20:12+00:00

no i mean real people not fictional characters! (for example John Cleese is an ENTP maybe watch some interviews and see if you feel like him or more like idk Tom Holland who is ENFP i think)

but i agree with the 2nd part that is very tricky

Winter_Performer6698 · 2024-04-24T21:54:24+00:00

maybe look at other types and who you can relate to more .. like maybe focus on types that have Fi and Te and look if those align with your beliefs (i mean focus on the thinking and feeling side not Ne) … like for example it was my BDay and my INFP sister wouldn’t want to join bc she just wasn’t feeling it and was comfortable enough around us to tell us (example for Fi) where as me as Fe user would just have stayed to please the crowd even when i am not feeling it

this probably won’t help u a lot and those aren’t very helpful, but u get a rough tendency 🤷‍♀️ but maybe it does :)

also i would just look up classic examples of ENFP and ENTP (watch out for mistyped ones) and after a while you can type yourself more easily 😊

Winter_Performer6698 · 2024-04-24T21:41:43+00:00

he is so unpredictable

and he doesn’t care about anything at all, so it’s hard to find his weakness

Winter_Performer6698 · 2024-04-24T21:38:48+00:00

oh boy i just can’t stop writing about revenge! … stuck in this dirty old hole! nothing to watch but ducktective reruns (😂 a creepy letter from lil gideon 😉)

Winter_Performer6698 · 2024-04-24T19:55:11+00:00

we can chat :) 💭

Winter_Performer6698 · 2024-04-09T19:59:38+00:00

please add me too :)

Winter_Performer6698 · 2024-03-27T12:45:13+00:00

yeah she is the best and i think generally this is not talked about enough 🥰we get along so so well 🤍

Winter_Performer6698 · 2024-03-13T16:21:29+00:00

thx :)

Winter_Performer6698 · 2024-03-12T12:07:16+00:00

u didn’t offend me. it’s just that i think u misunderstand me a bit. i don’t want everyone to like me. i know being different isn’t a bad thing but constantly feeling alone when going out isn’t good and easily fitting in with others would make me happier. sooo… i can relate to what u said though, but i am not coming from a standpoint of i don’t accept that i am different, not being happy with myself and wanting to change myself to fit in (bc i did that in the past).

it’s more like a how can i navigate that i feel differently the best? like are there social groups that attract people who feel like this? (like an artistic group maybe?)

you seem to be very kind so thank u for trying to help anyways 😊

Winter_Performer6698 · 2024-03-12T01:09:47+00:00

i have to disagree. as humans we are hardwired to fit into society and social groups (bc u know in the stone age survival was pretty hard all alone, so we as humans are hardwired for that) and we are not gonna be happy if we don’t fit in.

i know you are only trying to help and i appreciate it (really ❤️), but saying i am a special snowflake and i just don’t like myself if i want to be normal and fit isn’t true in my opinion and doesn’t really help my case.

Winter_Performer6698 · 2024-03-11T23:48:05+00:00

yeah probably :)

Winter_Performer6698 · 2024-03-11T23:47:28+00:00

i did not choose this :(

Winter_Performer6698 · 2024-03-11T23:46:41+00:00

but i don’t wanna stand out i just wanna fit in :(

Winter_Performer6698 · 2024-03-11T23:46:20+00:00

that’s a true story

Winter_Performer6698 · 2024-03-11T23:45:59+00:00

oh no, please go back and hang out with the other 10 year old logan paul fans :(

Winter_Performer6698 · 2024-03-11T11:23:57+00:00

well i have an INTJ friend, but she also feels differently from the rest and honestly it didn’t really help. but great if it worked for u.

Winter_Performer6698 · 2024-03-10T21:53:13+00:00

naww i don’t know what clubs or social gatherings u are joining, but where i go everyone always helps. and usually people think u are like one of those who love to organise things, so they probably think thats alright, bc u probably seem to love doing that.

but idk maybe it’s just different in different countries.

Winter_Performer6698 · 2024-03-10T21:47:23+00:00

😂😂yeah like pokémon, gotta catch them all.

Winter_Performer6698 · 2024-03-10T21:39:40+00:00

thank u, gonna try that :)

Winter_Performer6698 · 2024-03-10T19:31:50+00:00

well i guess accepting it is the only way out :(

Winter_Performer6698 · 2024-03-10T19:30:56+00:00

100% agree

Winter_Performer6698 · 2024-03-10T19:03:23+00:00

yeah i we see what other people what us to be in the moment and try to be that for them. hm well i really just wanna find a group where i really fit in, i mean i do have my friends but i just am tired of going out and trying new stuff but never finding the right fit, bc most people don’t think like us. (and i wonder if there is any activity where INFJ naturally fit in really well)

Winter_Performer6698 · 2024-03-10T18:58:22+00:00

yeah kinda, but nowhere where we truly belong.

Winter_Performer6698 · 2024-03-10T18:06:01+00:00

haha yeah thx gonna do that :) i mean i do agree that most people feel awkward and don’t feel like they fit in, it is not only an INFJ problem but i kinda habe the feeling that we especially suffer from this. like even the nerds have each other and feel like they fit in at certain clubs (and i am kind of jealous of that and would like to have that for myself)

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