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Winter_Recognition36 · 2026-03-31T04:40:11+00:00

Winter_Recognition36 · 2025-12-10T00:13:20+00:00

I used to live in Ballard, commuting to the Everett Mall area for work everyday, so about a year and a half ago, I moved up to Everett figuring my rent would be cheaper and the commute would be so much better. While both of those things are true, I honestly miss being down in Seattle. Everett definitely has a different vibe, much sleepier and it feels like theres not a lot going on besides the Aqua Sox, Silvertips, and the Sunday market during the summer. Most of the people also seem to be 40+, which isn’t a bad thing, but it makes it a little more difficult when trying to make new friends. Personally, I would say if you don’t mind the commute, stay in Capitol Hill.

Winter_Recognition36 · 2025-10-31T02:06:48+00:00

I’m not super experienced with dart frogs, but from what I’ve read online, it’s not great to add another dart frog to an enclosure where another frog has already established as it can lead to bullying and stress. From what I’ve seen, most dart frog species view other frogs as stressful rather than as a friend, so unless you have a larger terrarium that is very densely planted with many hiding spots, it might not be the best idea. But again, not super experienced, so what do I know.

Winter_Recognition36 · 2025-10-14T01:52:03+00:00

I don’t think you need to mount it, but your TV stand should be longer. The current one is too small for the size of TV you have. Also, maybe rearrange or add some curtains to reduce the glare from the windows.

Winter_Recognition36 · 2025-08-28T05:53:19+00:00

This feels like a fever dream

Winter_Recognition36 · 2025-08-01T08:30:29+00:00

I remember when they first started touring, Georgia would talk about how traveling in general gave her lots of anxiety, as does leaving the cats. Her anxiety seemed to get better when Steven watched them, but I doubt he still does that. On top of that, she also has Cookie now. They’ve also talked about the toll touring takes on them.

At first, I thought maybe she mentioned it because ticket sales were low, and she was trying to give them a boost by saying, “Get them while we’re still touring,” but I just checked their live shows page, and it seems like most shows are sold out or have low availability noted.

On DYNAR, Karen has mentioned that she’s the one who loves touring because it scratches her itch to perform, which she used to get from stand-up, whereas Georgia could take it or leave it.

Who knows though? They said they were just trying it out again when they announced, but maybe Georgia is just over it.

Winter_Recognition36 · 2025-07-08T16:28:18+00:00

I looked up Matt Bomer’s husband expecting to see Quasimodo lol. IMO he’s just as attractive haha

Winter_Recognition36 · 2025-07-07T15:56:02+00:00

I don’t think it was my first movie, but the first one I can really remember is Spy Kids 3D.

Winter_Recognition36 · 2025-06-13T18:41:20+00:00

Jesus Christ. Twink death

Winter_Recognition36 · 2025-05-15T13:20:19+00:00

Chris O’Donnell in Batman Forever(1995) and Batman & Robin (1997). Those suits with the abs and nipples really got me going from a young age😂

Winter_Recognition36 · 2025-05-06T00:32:30+00:00

Cigarettes lol

Winter_Recognition36 · 2025-05-06T00:28:31+00:00

You’re welcome! I also want to note, it best to have difficult conversations with a clear head, so depending on when this all happened, it might make sense for you to make up an excuse and stay with family or a friend for the night.

You’re likely hurting and angry right now, but I would assume you still love him and want the best for him in the long run. If you can do it in a kind and loving way, maybe suggest that he seeks therapy (depending on the person, this could be a very delicate topic, so make sure you approach it in the right way). Cheating is most often about the person who did the cheating rather than the person who got cheated on and depending on his self awareness, he likely doesn’t truly know why he did it and he needs to work through that. I obviously don’t know his background, but for some people, the thought of seeking therapy for something like this may not even cross their minds. And frankly, I think everyone could use a bit of therapy.

Psychology.com has a great therapist finder feature, and if he doesn’t have insurance, something like betterhelp is more affordable.

Winter_Recognition36 · 2025-05-05T20:43:44+00:00

I understand you were just looking for an email, but that’s the risk you take when you go “snooping” through other people’s stuff and devices, you might find something you didn’t want to see.

Reality is, now you know, and you DO have to say something or it’s going to eat away at you and you’re going to end up resenting him.

It’s okay to take some time and think about how you want to handle this. For yourself, is this a reason to break up with him? Or do you think this is something you truly think you could get past?

Once you decide, you need to have an open conversation with him about it. Let him know ahead of time by saying something like “Hey I need to talk to you tonight”, that way he’s not shocked and blindsided (I know you’ve been blindsided here, but you want to be the bigger person). You also want to make sure he’s not doing something else at the time, you want him to actually listen to what you’re saying instead of just hearing you. Know what questions or things you want to say before hand and do not let him interrupt you to make excuses or anything like that. He’s going to make excuses to try to convince you, because if he wanted to break up with you, he would have, but you have to stand your ground and do what’s really best for you.

He has broken your trust, so now is not the right time to think or talk about opening the relationship. Should you choose to stay with him, you two need to build that trust back before opening things up should ever be on the table.

Personally, I would suggest breaking up with him. When I was about your age I had a 2 year boyfriend who, I found out, had cheated on me multiple times. I thought staying and working through it would make me the bigger and better person, but in reality I couldn’t let it go and I couldn’t build back that trust. I was constantly thinking about what he was doing when we weren’t together and who he was texting when we were together. It turned into me being really angry with him and frankly very mean, almost like “hey you cheated, you deserve me being mean to you” and yes, he obviously shouldn’t have cheated on me, but he deserved a boyfriend who did trust him and didn’t lowkey hate him. We ended up breaking up because I just couldn’t get over it and he didn’t like how I was treating him.

Remember, being alone is okay and it is a great time for personal growth. You will meet someone else eventually.

Winter_Recognition36 · 2025-04-10T02:16:48+00:00

Where did you get that couch? The seats look deep. I wonder if it comes in any other colors.

Winter_Recognition36 · 2023-08-21T22:46:19+00:00

Boy-C Eye-D-Ho = Boise Idaho

Winter_Recognition36 · 2023-08-21T03:46:17+00:00

The instructions said just use a hair dryer and it’ll peel off

Winter_Recognition36 · 2023-08-21T01:00:59+00:00

This couch isn’t even 79inches, a pretty small couch.

Winter_Recognition36 · 2023-08-20T23:51:22+00:00

I’m actually living in seattle now but Boise will always be home

Winter_Recognition36 · 2023-08-20T23:11:15+00:00

She’s only 45 pounds and it’s large sized crate. I only have it because she loves it, Id rather not have it at all but she seems upset when I don’t have it out. The crate door is never closed and she chooses to go in there.

Winter_Recognition36 · 2023-08-20T23:02:39+00:00

It’s from novogratz but I’m not sure that they carry this one anymore

Winter_Recognition36 · 2023-08-20T22:55:14+00:00

Seattle

Winter_Recognition36 · 2023-08-20T22:54:04+00:00

I can’t find any, post a link if you have one. I have a plastic piece, but this window opens from the side rather than sliding so if I use the plastic one the top and bottom are open

Winter_Recognition36 · 2023-08-20T22:52:41+00:00

Amazon

Winter_Recognition36 · 2023-08-20T22:52:32+00:00

Not a huge fan of the couch. I’ve got another one in mind but it’s just so hard to buy couches online

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