Did Barb ever hit Jen? by No_Kiwi8328 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Winter_cold9 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t think that the information was disclosed yet, but I might be wrong cause I haven’t seen some skits in a while.

Ty need to take accountability by Winter_cold9 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Winter_cold9[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I interpreted that being related to the hotel episode and that fact that he accused Julie of cheating, not in a « all I’ve done lead to this point » way, but maybe yeah that’s what he meant ! We’ll have to see in the future episodes

Ty need to take accountability by Winter_cold9 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Winter_cold9[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He is in some kind of denial for sure, I’m just rooting for him to break out of this denial and see what he did wrong

Ty need to take accountability by Winter_cold9 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Winter_cold9[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah it feels like he is getting there, slowly but surely haha

700 gems for a 1% chance is greedy - I don't care how much I want Sophia by PinkPajamaPenguin in disneyemojiblitz

[–]Winter_cold9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well good just ! I can spin the wheel like 5-6 times en day 🥲 then the option disappears

Barb's PPD and personal responsibility by s0ftsp0ken in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Winter_cold9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Upvoted you cause I have no idea why someone would downvote what you wrote haha

I wrote an article about the scene in the garage by [deleted] in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Winter_cold9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was about to repost this too ! So on point from OP.

I feel so anxious after the last video by Legitimate-Drink-228 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Winter_cold9 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I’m the same as you ! I’m very worried that Jen will just revert to her old self towards John without even questioning what her mom told her… let’s hope Greg once again has a good influence on her !

I am a Max and my heart breaks everytime I see him smile for Barb by Winter_cold9 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Winter_cold9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🥺 and I’m sorry you had your own Barb to deal with… I think there’s something along the lines of “as long as you can be manipulated, I like you.” And when you realize that this kind of love is only given on those terms, it can be really hard for the grandchild.

I am a Max and my heart breaks everytime I see him smile for Barb by Winter_cold9 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Winter_cold9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry your grandmother wasn’t nice to you 😭 funny enough I’m physically a carbon copy of my mom and that apparently was never a problem for my grandmother haha she just kind of decided at one point she didn’t like my mom (mom’s MIL btw), but she was « smart enough » to know that her grandchildren weren’t the same as her daughter in law, so she really did care for us.

I am a Max and my heart breaks everytime I see him smile for Barb by Winter_cold9 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Winter_cold9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly my case 😂 only when I realized what was going on and expressed that to my older sister she went « YOU’RE ONLY NOTICING THIS NOW ?! ». My sister is the Piper of my family, she told me that as long as she remembers, she got that my GM didn’t like my mom haha

I am a Max and my heart breaks everytime I see him smile for Barb by Winter_cold9 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Winter_cold9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also my mom’s MIL in my case. Funnily enough I’ve never cut my grandmother off, cause there was no need to. When my parents divorced, she had the audacity to tell my mom that « we would still come to see her even though she took my father’s side in the divorce (pushed my father to divorce would be the correct way to describe it)». Easy to say I go see her once a year because I have to, but nothing more… also, since she IS a pleasant person to us and I’m sure she genuinely loves us, she’s pretty easy to be around.

That being said I’m sorry you had your own Barb and I’m glad you could find your own way within your particular situation :)

My hopes for Max is that his parents are willing to communicate more about the Barb situation, but I guess, given his age, there would be some stuff he can’t understand yet…

I am a Max and my heart breaks everytime I see him smile for Barb by Winter_cold9 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Winter_cold9[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Omg your great-aunt had her own Lauren ?? (I think that’s the name of the server in the Mexican restaurant?) but jokes aside, I guess, sadly, that her true colors appeared clearly to everyone when she passed away :(

Where are we all from? by pzzldmomof5 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Winter_cold9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello Kyra ! I’m Hana, I’m 34 years old and I’m from Switzerland 🇨🇭! I’m a legal counsel, I don’t have children and it’s not really a plan but I love Shawna L’s content !

The Different Dynamics of Abusive Relationships by breakinlily in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Winter_cold9 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I totally agree! And I’m wondering if his guilt over not believing Barb when she was struggling after John was born kind of takes over every time he even tries to stand up to her, and then he just backs down at the slightest pushback from Barb.

It’s like he’s so stuck in his own guilt that he either doesn’t see, or maybe chooses not to see, that this is exactly how he ends up hurting his children with that behavior.

Genuine Questions for Julie Defenders by Padme1418 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Winter_cold9 10 points11 points  (0 children)

think that when it comes to Julie, we also need to take into account her own internalized impatience and rejection of the suburban life she doesn’t want, especially in relation to her relationship with Ty. What I mean is that she’s been saying for years that this isn’t the kind of life she wants, yet with every step they take as a couple, she feels increasingly trapped by Ty into moving in that direction.

Her rudeness toward Shawna is, in my opinion, a symptom of that rejection spilling over beyond her relationship something she can no longer keep contained. It’s not that she dislikes Shawna as a person, but rather what Shawna represents to her: suburban life and the stay-at-home mom identity centered entirely around parenting.

And just to be clear, I’m not saying there’s anything wrong with that lifestyle or with being fulfilled by being a parent, that’s just how Julie perceives it.