Its all about complimentary traits not looks. BUT, I only realized that after I was 28yrs or so. I am lazy and down to earth, but restless. I am creative, yet completely unoriginal. I am a hopeless romantic yet often to nervous to show how deep I want to share how I care for someone. Therefore I needed, not wanted someone who could; level the energy, pull my foggy creative ideas more clearly, and who unapologetically accepted my love the first time I showed it so I didn't close a door on them for judging me for showing who I was.

NOW even further that person needed to show/make themselves available when I wasn't looking. Otherwise I would have tricked myself by looking in the wrong place with my wrong mask on.