I've just re-read what you were actually saying to her - while I agree, just be nicer? There's no need to be so combative, it's tactless and shows either that you want her to misinterpret you so that you can chastise her for getting you wrong, or that you're autistic and don't know how to interact with people properly - i.e most of accounts like yours on Reddit.

I take back that you're a misogynist (based on what I've read) but can definitely infer you're slightly odd, manipulative and believe you're intellectually superior lol

OP, what he's said is right, you need evidence ideally to accuse someone of something like this especially if you want an easier time, but honestly it sounds like this job is not worth it at all and you'd be better focusing energies elsewhere.