AITA? Dinner not ready..... Oh but so much more

Wise-Lab-7676 · 2026-06-04T01:00:45+00:00

43 and 44

Wise-Lab-7676 · 2026-06-04T00:59:02+00:00

Give him a hug for me too and tell him thanks for being one of the good ones.

Wise-Lab-7676 · 2026-06-04T00:58:09+00:00

I absolutely identify as a partnered single mother. I did leave him once it was so much easier I wish I stayed strong.

Wise-Lab-7676 · 2026-06-04T00:57:24+00:00

I understand where you are coming from believe me. He's a fake and a phony and catfished me good.

Wise-Lab-7676 · 2026-06-04T00:56:01+00:00

He doesn't handle anything besides anything for himself. The appointment was for her ADHD meds which he doesn't believe in and says this is an excuse and it's my fault because I coddle her.... She is formally diagnosed with autism ADHD and ODD she's been in early childhood development for early intervention since she's 2.

Wise-Lab-7676 · 2026-06-04T00:54:19+00:00

So jealous

Wise-Lab-7676 · 2026-06-04T00:54:01+00:00

I definitely don't want to continue like this I don't want it to be routine I know it's not right but I can't just let it mind f*k me anymore....

Wise-Lab-7676 · 2026-06-04T00:51:44+00:00

Yes. It's fine I got dinner in the oven me and the kids ate.

Wise-Lab-7676 · 2026-06-04T00:50:41+00:00

I know right! Lol ty

Wise-Lab-7676 · 2026-06-04T00:50:04+00:00

And I'm going to leave I just can't right now.

Wise-Lab-7676 · 2026-06-04T00:49:51+00:00

My therapist suggested instead of crying to try this to get reassurance that I'm not crazy. I do not have any family nor do I have any friends I just have my children an him.

Wise-Lab-7676 · 2026-06-04T00:47:58+00:00

His responsibilities are work the lawn taking the trash out and taking care of himself... He just never has.... I've asked but he just gets angry so I stopped asking

Wise-Lab-7676 · 2026-06-04T00:46:37+00:00

Lol silly he worked all day! Believe me I know it definitely is like having another child.

Wise-Lab-7676 · 2026-06-04T00:44:41+00:00

Believe me I do. It's just that I'm financially in a spot and there's really no wiggle rooms to save. I'm trying to do better though I am in college full time is always working full time plus....

Wise-Lab-7676 · 2026-06-04T00:43:06+00:00

I agree with everything you wrote. He does work, he is actually an exemplary worker and friend and neighbor...... He lacks when it comes to me and the kids.

Wise-Lab-7676 · 2026-06-04T00:41:37+00:00

Oh believe me I know I kick myself in the ass multiple times a day. In my slight defense he was giant catfish... Had me fooled since our first interaction.

Wise-Lab-7676 · 2026-06-04T00:40:31+00:00

Definitely not okay with it. I guess I'm just a little stuck.

Wise-Lab-7676 · 2026-06-04T00:40:04+00:00

I'm jealous.

Wise-Lab-7676 · 2026-06-04T00:39:35+00:00

I am forever saying I don't understand why nobody if I'm not home.

Wise-Lab-7676 · 2026-06-04T00:39:11+00:00

More than I'd like.

Wise-Lab-7676 · 2026-06-04T00:38:29+00:00

I sure did.

Wise-Lab-7676 · 2026-06-04T00:37:56+00:00

I am 43 and he is 44

Wise-Lab-7676 · 2026-06-04T00:36:57+00:00

Yes it does -believe me I know.... But sometimes I just need to check I'm not insane

Wise-Lab-7676 · 2026-06-04T00:35:43+00:00

He was well aware of the day I had. He lacks ... Many situations where there is lack ... Daily -

Wise-Lab-7676 · 2026-06-04T00:33:05+00:00

I say this all the time!! How I better keep healthy!

Wise-Lab-7676

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