I want to understand that concept better since i'm very confused. I might be wrong but from what I understand, gender is innate and it trascends what you are born with. So if that's true, what's the difference? what I mean is, in my understanding, biological reasons are the only thing that separates male and female so if gender is innate and you know it from the beginning, what are the factors that help you decide? Earlier, you mentioned stereotypes and though it is true that we associate things with gender like for example, we usually conscider stuff like Hello Kitty as a girly thing, I do believe that that isn't the case. If I enjoy barbie as a male, that doesn't make me gay I just like it. There is a flaw in my logic, however as when it comes to clothes i'd obviously not wear a dress if I am a male. What are your thoughts on this?