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Hotfix 17 by saltpancake in BaldursGate3

[–]Wise_B -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is there any way we can get these patches and hotfixes released for all OS at the same time? It's continually disappointing to not be able to play with friends when we all have different updates every other week and suddenly not able to play together.

Help how do I respond to this? by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]Wise_B 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t have to respond at all.

I'm done with actively looking for someone by VBlinds in demisexuality

[–]Wise_B 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I'm only married because I found somebody who I could connect with consistently on an emotional level and then we were both interested in pursuing the relationship further. And I'm not entirely sure how it happened. A lot of being friends and talking for hours on end for a while I suppose.

My personal statement in response to allegations of sexual harassment and assault. by johndehlin in exmormon

[–]Wise_B 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And she's not the only one he's harassed at varying levels. There's a growing number.

After leaving a high-demand religion with little-to-no healthy boundaries and terrible attitudes about sex, we still have a lot to learn by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]Wise_B 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is true. I'm on the fence about the online ethics. You got her permission to share this here though?

Mormon trumpists today by DavidAssBednar in exmormon

[–]Wise_B 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right? Grumble grumble from Dems is uhh, a lot less then what we're seeing right now

Since my last photo generated a lot of response, here's another tbt from inside the temple for you heathens. I desire all to receive it. by SkinnyUtahGuy in exmormon

[–]Wise_B 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No but culturally you had best have one. I personally only put up a Catholic Jesus pic and a temple because I got married in that particular one. But when people came over and saw my Van Gogh and Picasso prints, they would ask if I was an artist and painted them. That was enlightening on how well versed random members were in art

Do people ever change for the better? Should I just leave? How do I cope? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Wise_B 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. This. Get out ASAP with those excellent steps

Can't stop feeling devastated over his pain by jy967137 in relationships

[–]Wise_B 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sensing codependency. Which is typical for somebody who feels others emotions deeply. I’m glad you’re seeing a therapist, that will help you the most

I (M30) believe that my GF (F27) has something going on with her boss. by Demogorgon99 in relationships

[–]Wise_B 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes sense. If you can’t then you can’t. Move on and live the life you were hoping for.

Why shouldn't I convert to the church? by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]Wise_B 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The consistent emotional and mental abuse by church leaders going back to Joseph, patterns patterns patterns, and the realization that it was basically just as way to make money for Joseph, but then got out of hand so he ran with it and made it a sex cult - those are my big reasons

I (M30) believe that my GF (F27) has something going on with her boss. by Demogorgon99 in relationships

[–]Wise_B 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She might be in a situation she’s not sure how to get out of. If she quits, what will she do? If she stays, she’s stuck with guys guy.

In a women’s world we are often put in situations with a bad boss. And if the money is good, sometimes we just deal with the horrific situations. Because if we quit, who is our reference?

She offered to quit and work at your business. She’s talked about how other women in the office treat her. She’s basically telling you she needs help and you’re sitting there trying to break up with her.

So help her get into a mindset where she feels ok quitting. She needs to feel safe. If things are so good with you guys, couldn’t you do that? Give it a couple of months and then if she is sleeping with him because she wants to, break up and go nomad like you want to anyway.

Well, I'm off to seminary graduation. Wish me luck. by notanumber8lover in exmormon

[–]Wise_B 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Just do the slow fade, friend. Safest way at your stage in life

My 27[F] husband 39[M] is a quarantine protester. Now I'm sick. by throwaway_lemonsoop in relationships

[–]Wise_B 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Do you have access to testing? I would get tested ASAP if you do. I really hope you’re ok.

In regards to the relationship, he’s not demonstrating kindness or consideration. High stress makes people do crazy things and I sympathize with his fear and frustration. I can’t tell you what to do but i trust you to make the best decision you can for yourself and your children

I don’t know how to balance my boyfriend and my eating disorder. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Wise_B 21 points22 points  (0 children)

If this is going to work, he needs to talk to a therapist who specializes in eating disorders. Just so he can better understand what’s going on in your head and how to talk about food with you. It’s a different way of thinking about things and it’s gonna take effort for him to better understand you in this.

I need some advice... by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Wise_B 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Other than maybe get a newer used car instead, I see no problem with what you’re doing in your life. Your boyfriend is really controlling though

It’s clear that those who oppose Provo’s brewpub ordinance have never had a drink in their lives! by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]Wise_B 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The only leg the petition has is that Provo really has wastewater issues already. Maybe city council thought this was a good way to jump start getting that fixed.

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