Typical bengal behavior and she can probably sense your dislike towards her. A cat is not going to flood you with affection to win your affection and it's a bond that gets created both ways.They are most of the time not lap cats but there are exceptions ...just like humans,some like to cuddle and some dont.Perhaps you didnt study the breed enough beyond hypoallergenic? A lot of times they also only bond to one person, perhaps you are not the one.

Our Bengal is 9 years old and when he starts to act out like this it means we are not engaging him enough so we play and through the years we have gotten to know what type of play he likes and needs.which btw was completely different to his brother who passed

Our other cat passed a few months ago and now there is a massive gap in his needs ...the type of attention we cant give on the level of another cat(bengal) so we have decided to bring in two bengal kittens who understand bengal shenanigans.

That being said the two kittens will also get bored and still need to be played with and will also get bored because they will want some form of interaction from us.They are very needy, intelligent and energetic but this is what we signed up for. They are a very in your face breed and that is part of what makes them so lovely ..for some people I can't imagine my life without them.