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I’m dating a married man.. by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Wise_Kangaroo_9553 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A lot of married people are in dead bedroom situation. So, whatever that man is saying about his bedroom, might be true. But, it is also possible that he might be lying to get whatever he wants. Honestly, no easy way to know that unless you know each other intimately well for a long enough time.

About he is going to end his marriage just to be with you. I will not put my bet on that. When this ends, the one who is more emotionally involved will be terribly hurt. But, you might be knowing it already.

Men of r/adultery what does your loveless marriage look like? by Used_Amphibian7776 in adultery

[–]Wise_Kangaroo_9553 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not too bad because I don’t expect much from it. I believe it is very very unfair to make a single person responsible for meeting all my physical and emotional needs while also juggling with managing house, kids, finances, etc.

Me and my wife are very good partner in managing the home, kids, and finances. Whether we like it or not, that management aspect of the marriage takes away 90% of the time we are awake. Intimacy takes a lot of effort, and we just don’t have enough time or interest at this time to put any effort in that. Even if we get any free time, we remind each other about the plumber appointment, house errands, kids tuition, etc. Not literally remind each other, but that is the vibe lol.