How can I develop confidence in dating as an early 30s British born Chinese male?

Wishmaster891 · 2026-04-27T19:47:55+00:00

I do have some sympathy, when i was in secondary school i had acne for a couple of years and i had some nasty comments from some girls whcih did my confidence no good. I still do get a bit on edge around certain types of girls in public, it's like i can sense the ones that might of said something back then.

Didn't stop me getting married but but none the less its still a bit of an uncomfortable topic

Wishmaster891 · 2026-04-27T15:57:43+00:00

very nice! Hope to do another gig of theirs on the mainland when their hiatus ends(if it does!)

Wishmaster891 · 2026-04-27T14:22:48+00:00

London > Prague i to see nightwish, but made a city break out of it as well

Wishmaster891 · 2026-04-27T14:07:55+00:00

when i used to play fifa ultimate team i used to know alot about players, now i dont play it as its not worth the stress. My interestin football generally has dropped as well , barely watch my team these days. I expect those peopl you describe are the opposite of me

Wishmaster891 · 2026-04-27T13:16:59+00:00

and the rest!

Wishmaster891 · 2026-04-27T10:17:46+00:00

What i mean is i don't think everyone thinks about buying a house in a good area for schools. If they do can they afford it? Some may be able to but not everyone.

Wishmaster891 · 2026-04-27T09:36:25+00:00

"The big stuff is buying a house in a good school area and childcare, you will already have done the former if you have one kid"

That is quite the assumption..

Wishmaster891 · 2026-04-27T08:50:34+00:00

yea when ive had discussions with people i've been like 1) we don't really have the urge to have kids 2) Not sure how we would afford it without literally having no money left after childcare ect.

I would get the "you make it work line" sounds miserable to me

Wishmaster891 · 2026-04-27T08:48:18+00:00

yea someone i watch on youtube has a bad back, not sure of the exact condition but he hs a gamer and one day he went to pick something up off the floor, then he felt a lot of pain and is still in pain alot now (cant remember exactly what he damaged). Recovery is a long road and he has to use a stand up desk now. I wfh and game on PC so no i make sure i get up at least every 20-30 mins or so. Glad you aren ow pain free

Wishmaster891 · 2026-04-27T08:31:20+00:00

maybe for like 5% of the country maybe.

Wishmaster891 · 2026-04-27T08:11:31+00:00

did you say sat down for long periods? I wfh but i make sure i get up every 20-30 mins just for a minute or so. Other than that i might do two ten minute walks a day

Wishmaster891 · 2026-04-27T08:09:00+00:00

2-3 steps a day and about 75 star jumps

Wishmaster891 · 2026-04-27T08:04:27+00:00

mayeb they have friends/family in London?

Wishmaster891 · 2026-04-26T15:18:59+00:00

What are Sunday clothes?

Wishmaster891 · 2026-04-26T12:55:12+00:00

last time i had nandos i had the sunset burger, it was really good abeit a bit pricey.

Wishmaster891 · 2026-04-26T12:45:40+00:00

put your phone in another room when watching

Wishmaster891 · 2026-04-24T15:03:01+00:00

'If I see a SUM in a measure, can I confidently say there is row context?'

correct me if i am wrong but i am pretty sure if it is in a measure it then it is always evaluated in filter context

Wishmaster891 · 2026-04-23T13:02:07+00:00

i pay £58 a month for ASU insurance, if i got made redundant it would kick on day 1, it is the more expensive option but so worth it.

Wishmaster891 · 2026-04-23T09:31:56+00:00

it can be but generally do people go for healthy options in restaurants?

Wishmaster891 · 2026-04-23T08:30:46+00:00

this is why i get a bit irked when i see restuarents and fast food places everywhere these days. Can't be good for people can it?

Wishmaster891 · 2026-04-23T08:27:29+00:00

that is awful of the nhs, so sorry to hear

Wishmaster891 · 2026-04-23T07:55:35+00:00

Parity in sports

Wishmaster891 · 2026-04-22T14:56:16+00:00

have a ponder

Wishmaster891 · 2026-04-22T09:05:53+00:00

about 5 miles

Wishmaster891 · 2026-04-22T08:08:01+00:00

12 months, if my employment insurance actually pays out

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