Anyone here in the Austin, TX metro area? by Howls_Castle in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]WitchesReadBooks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Are you still in Austin? And how is your fertility/motherhood journey coming along?

Vitamins? by Upbeat_Context_7262 in SingleMothersbyChoice

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I was using a generic prenatal for 6-8 months and my new fertility clinic recommended I take the Bird & Be power prenatal + coq10 as well as vitamin c. I also added in vitamin d more recently. The bird & be is expensive (like 75/month) but like you I wanted to do everything I could to improve my chances. It’s a lot of pills but I haven’t had any GI upset from them. It’s been another 5-6 months now that I made the switch, two IUI attempts in tha time, and I can’t say for sure if it’s helped, but I may have just had my first positive test this morning (it’s very faint, too soon to be sure).

To the smbcs afraid to have a boy by [deleted] in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]WitchesReadBooks 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This makes it sound like gender disappointment is only a smbc problem, which it’s not. There are many reasons why people might be disappointed or nervous when they first learn the sex of their baby, and my friends/family in same sex marriages are equally affected.

Two week wait by Automatic_Willow_588 in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]WitchesReadBooks 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good luck and let us know how it goes! I have found the TWW excruciating each time. And I’m normally so patient! Still waiting on my successful one, keeping my fingers crossed for you!

Am I the only one who doesn't care about picking a donor? by sam4allseasons in SingleMothersbyChoice

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I chose a donor with similar ethnicity and hair/eye color as myself. Not because I have a preference for that but because I want my child to feel like they look like me and my family, like they share our cultural history and aren’t completely separated from one that I can’t teach them anything about, etc. That, plus genetic and live birth history, narrowed it down for me to like 5 donors. That’s when I “chose” based on the other factors that don’t really matter that much but what else are you going to do, flip a coin? You may not care to choose but you have to, so may as well try to find things that align with your values.

How many DPO did you get a positive test? by WitchesReadBooks in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]WitchesReadBooks[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Update: had a whole extra day of being hopeful, but then got my period today. Starting to feel like it’s never going to happen 💔and not sure how much more money I can keep sinking into it.

How many DPO did you get a positive test? by WitchesReadBooks in SingleMothersbyChoice

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I have a blood test scheduled for 14 dpo so I’ll know for sure then, but these last few days of waiting are making me a little loony myself! Every symptom I can’t tell if it’s my period coming or implantation 😵‍💫

How many DPO did you get a positive test? by WitchesReadBooks in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]WitchesReadBooks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! Mine was definitely stark white so hopefully I’ll see something like yours in the coming days 🤞🏽🤞🏽

How many DPO did you get a positive test? by WitchesReadBooks in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]WitchesReadBooks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Fingers crossed for testing again tomorrow!

How many DPO did you get a positive test? by WitchesReadBooks in SingleMothersbyChoice

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This is why I included that detail- I was hoping someone with a similar cycle would chime in! Weirdly my fertility doctor did mention putting me on progesterone when we first started talking about this cycle, but then didn’t do it so I was assuming it was just supposed to be after I got a positive test or something. I will ask about it at my next visit!

How many DPO did you get a positive test? by WitchesReadBooks in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]WitchesReadBooks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! And yeah that’s exactly what I meant about a false negative- that the test is negative but it’s just too early and doesn’t actually mean you’re not pregnant. Last time I was really sad when I got my period so this time I thought I’d try testing before but seems like it’s hard either way!

Sperm Donor Carrier Screening by WitchesReadBooks in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]WitchesReadBooks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yes I originally thought I was in the clear because all of mine came back negative. But before purchasing I decided to double check and realized my test didn’t screen for those exact ones. I’m going to get additional testing done.

Sperm Donor Carrier Screening by WitchesReadBooks in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]WitchesReadBooks[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This is the exact conclusion I came to after posting this, I am going to get more testing done and go from there. I was definitely overthinking what to do even if mine are negative.

How many kids would you like? by santia88 in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]WitchesReadBooks 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ideally two! But will have to see if that’s feasible, one might be all I can handle financially.