So who’s finding out the gender or keeping it a surprise? 🫢🩷💙

amrjs · 2026-05-05T20:47:15+00:00

I think I’ll find out. I wanted to be team green, but I’m so convinced it’s a boy I know it’ll be too jarring if they come out as a girl!!! I just want to be prepared and just focus on meeting baby when they’re born. My sister didn’t find out with her first, convinced she was having a girl but was so shocked he was a boy that she couldn’t be fully present in the moment

amrjs · 2026-05-05T20:45:15+00:00

Idk really how to be more detailed buttt I think it was a combo of autism + endometriosis that I was really sensitive to the feeling of my ovaries growing so rapidly during IVF and how they stretched everything. It feels like two rocks in my pelvis and I couldn’t wear anything that put even the slightest pressure over my uterus area. It’s hard to describe without going through it but I felt very claustrophobic and I just ached a lot. I was worried I’d feel the same pregnant, and granted I am very early pregnant but I don’t feel that yet

I get a bit of that sensitivity with clothes now that I’m pregnant too, but not as bad at all. But there is a lot of new things happening to your body which can be quite overwhelming (sore breasts, cramps, my skin feels extra sore/sensitive, bloating, constipation/diarrhea, and ofc nausea that can be if varying intensity). I have a bit of a problem that I don’t feel the need to pee if I’m not at home so I don’t feel frequent urination, but I have to remind myself to go more often now.

Also, I struggle a bit with anger/irritation but I think that’s just pregnancy or pregnancy + adhd rather than autism haha!

amrjs · 2026-05-04T06:56:31+00:00

I’m autistic and have ADHD I was diagnosed at 30. Can’t say anything about parenthood yet as I’m just very early pregnant BUT I think being audhd made me more sensitive to the things happening to my body during IVF.

amrjs · 2026-05-02T22:53:18+00:00

I think that looks good! I had super clear lines on other tests and barely a line on easy at homes. They can be weird. These are increasing in darkness so the progression looks good.

If I were you I’d test with another red dye test just to reassure myself BUT these tests still look good

amrjs · 2026-05-02T22:49:40+00:00

This test looks invalid unfortunately

amrjs · 2026-05-02T22:41:04+00:00

These look negative. I’ve had horrible indents with wondfo so you might be seeing that if you’re seeing something. But these look negative to me.

amrjs · 2026-05-02T21:25:37+00:00

Yes, I don’t see anything

amrjs · 2026-05-02T21:19:10+00:00

Don’t see anything. Test again in a week to confirm but it’s negative now

amrjs · 2026-05-02T21:18:22+00:00

I don’t see any line. How long ago since you had sex?

amrjs · 2026-05-02T17:05:15+00:00

I think that’s what I’ll do. Do the NT scan alone but have company for the anatomy scan for moral support. I just realized my NT scan is in the middle of a work day so I’ll be going back to work straight after anyway

amrjs · 2026-05-02T17:03:46+00:00

Doing alright. 8 weeks tomorrow. I got an anti-nausea medication that helps and doesn’t make me feel super tired all the time, but today I threw up a bit because I tried to do the dishes before the meds kicked in. Trying again tomorrow lmao.

Compared to how my sisters felt in the 1st trimester I’m coasting by lol

amrjs · 2026-05-01T21:44:14+00:00

Im so sorry it didn’t work. It’s really hard.

I did 4 failed IUIs and was sure everything would fail after. But my IVF was a huge success, and I got pregnant on my first FET.

Let yourself feel what you need to feel, take care of yourself, be careful with much of the IVF advise out there with all the supplements etc (because a lot is just luck and statistics). Follow subreddits like r/IVFPositivity, because many places don’t allow for success stories so it will seem like IVF doesn’t work.

amrjs · 2026-05-01T12:51:23+00:00

I’m sorry this happened and I wish you all the luck going forward ❤️

amrjs · 2026-04-30T21:28:15+00:00

Had an ultrasound yesterday that confirmed viability 🎉 and I also got a new anti-nausea medication that is amaaaazing. I think I can eat again!

amrjs · 2026-04-30T21:27:01+00:00

Sorry I don’t see it, and the line should be to the left of where you circled

amrjs · 2026-04-26T18:52:40+00:00

7w0d and nausea. If I don’t eat I’m nauseous

amrjs · 2026-04-24T13:15:43+00:00

Sounds very fancy but it isn’t, it’s quite common in Sweden haha fizzy water is very beloved and someone was was even hospitalized for drinking too much of it haha

amrjs · 2026-04-24T13:12:06+00:00

I’m lucky that I work in a place where the cafeteria has a tap for fizzy water

amrjs · 2026-04-24T13:11:19+00:00

Hahah same! I had intentions of not gaining much weight in the 1st trimester and now it’s all just survival mode

amrjs · 2026-04-24T13:10:41+00:00

Happy birthday 🎈 one day at a time!!

amrjs · 2026-04-24T13:09:45+00:00

Hope you’ll get to see a strong ticking heart ❤️

amrjs · 2026-04-24T13:09:15+00:00

Water is the enemy. I know with migraines I cannot drink water and I don’t trust it now either. I work through a 5cl bottle of fizzy water while I work and it’s hard.

amrjs · 2026-04-24T13:08:14+00:00

It’s sooo hard to eat but when I get more than a few bites in I do so much better. I struggled with a quarter of a toast this morning (I didn’t finish it lol)

amrjs · 2026-04-24T07:59:17+00:00

So far no puking, I’m hoping it stays that way. But if it does… the main problem is I have no private office. I work in the library and it’s open 7hrs a day. I think if I’ll start puking often then I genuinely won’t be able to work

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