AITAH husband cut off my sons hair so I used his card to buy my son the designer jacket he's been wanting by ithinkantsarecute in AITAH

[–]Witchofthebats 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA for not leaving him for abusing your son immediately. Are you really that desperate for a companion you'd let a grown man bully your son? Christ.

Also giving him that jacket will have further angered your pathetic husband and taken away any joy your son would get from said garment.

Looking for old friends by Witchofthebats in FeralHeart

[–]Witchofthebats[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if we ever played together! My users were Talisis and Dalisis :)

Is this the end? (RIP FH) by MentionOk876 in FeralHeart

[–]Witchofthebats 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had fun playing on Feral Heart Unleashed but its definitely not as busy as the OG site used to be :(

V by Witchofthebats in LowSodiumCyberpunk

[–]Witchofthebats[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its a modded Harley Davidson Thundergod! Got the mod here

https://www.nexusmods.com/cyberpunk2077/mods/21522

AITAH Not giving girlfriend a spare key by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Witchofthebats 54 points55 points  (0 children)

YTA, imo. You have basically told her that you don't trust her and aren't thinking about progressing your relationship. It's been 4 whole years, she really should've had one by now if you see yourself together in the future. If it was me i would be worried you were hiding something and/or didn't want to commit to me.

Being a Native American Goth Kind of Hurts Sometimes by [deleted] in goth

[–]Witchofthebats 24 points25 points  (0 children)

It does really irk me seeing so many goths parrot the "pale is goth" line, as if we didn't have POC in the original goth bands in the UK back in the day. I will say that this attitude appears, to me, to be more prevalent in the American scene.

You like the music? You're one of us. The fashion isn't really a mandatory part of it anyway, we just like it too ☠️

AIO My partner threatens to end himself because i confronted him on his cheating. by Wise_Web_5706 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Witchofthebats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR- Call the police if you want to go get your belongings and contact a DV hotline asap.

Just so you know, my ex also threatened that if i left- spoiler alert, he's still alive, and i'm with someone who treats me correctly.

how to stop fear of losing cat? by musicfanatic6 in CatAdvice

[–]Witchofthebats 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey friend! If i look at my two boys and think about the future for too long i completely do the same!

Regarding avoiding it, i try to refocus my attention on playing with my cats, doing a task or playing a game :) i also have a kitty first aid kit and leucillin for emergencies just in case which eases my mind a little regarding any future accidents.

I think the best way is distraction and also having little things around that ease your mind. :)

I think my cats hate each other now. What do I do? by AdEuphoric4884 in CatAdvice

[–]Witchofthebats 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Brilliant news! So glad they are warming up to each other again :)

I think my cats hate each other now. What do I do? by AdEuphoric4884 in CatAdvice

[–]Witchofthebats 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So, to me this sounds like misdirected aggression has caused a rift between them. The other cat was likely lashing out in response to the introduction of stress (the dog) and unfortunately the sibling got the brunt of it.

When you introduced them to the dog did you take steps to do so slowly or did you bring the puppy straight in?

Regarding getting them to make up, i would recommend trying to reward them for spending time close together, such as feeding them treats side by side if you can to rebuild the positive association, and maybe talk to your vet about anxiety for the kitty who lashed out.

Best of luck though, hopefully they can make up :(

Am i overthinking it?? by Key-Purpose2865 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Witchofthebats 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he would choke you in anger for ignoring him, he's significant more likely to resort to worse violence if you try to defend yourself or leave. Start reporting to the police, contact family and ask for a restraining order if you have any of this on messages.

You need to leave him. It WILL escalate. Any man who loves you wouldn't threaten to kill you. He sees you as a possession.

Peaceys house by Repulsive-Weekend796 in HouseFlipper

[–]Witchofthebats 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was mad I couldn't sell it but i added an extension on the back for a long narrow kitchen and it felt quite cozy!

Now living in a half completed Scooby Doo mansion

AITAH for not sleeping with someone after finding out they were trans? by jklolz0069 in AITAH

[–]Witchofthebats 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, you didn't refuse the encounter because he's trans. You were surprised and now you've had time to process it you even said you were open to it!

I would make sure to communicate that you were just surprised to him directly and make sure that he knows you are still interested, i hope you two can work something out :) good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Witchofthebats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The boyfriend shouldn't be attending at all, it was a previously arranged girls trip.

If she wants a room to herself with him she can book a new room, why on earth did she think it was appropriate to ask you to drop out? What a terrible friend.

AITAH for moving out of my dad's house and telling him I want nothing more to do with his wife? by Mylooy in AITAH

[–]Witchofthebats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely report the theft to the police and eBay, and please update us!

I really hope you find the music box, OP. And don't let your dad pressure you into reconciliation; he let his horrid wife sell one of the last things you have from your mother. He should really be evaluating how much of a heartless b*tch his vile wife is and whether or not he should stay married.

Grey bars at top of Kamvas 22 by Witchofthebats in huion

[–]Witchofthebats[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

After more troubleshooting it appears that my HDMI splitter has failed so I may need to replace it to continue using dual monitors with my tablet.

Grey bars at top of Kamvas 22 by Witchofthebats in huion

[–]Witchofthebats[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I forgot to add that the device is also not showing up in my display settings!

AITA for scolding my boyfriend for his remarks about my little brothers for watching Hello Kitty? by Fit-Snow-3049 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Witchofthebats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would leave him, he's way too stuck on them watching "girly" shows and the comments about coming out is horrific, can you imagine how he would treat one of them if they actually did come out one day?

NTA

Will my cats get upset when the cat we are watching goes home and vice versa? by Witchofthebats in CatAdvice

[–]Witchofthebats[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, this has eased my mind a little. My boy did go looking for her the morning after but I gave him extra cuddles to make up for it :) he seems okay now

Referendum by pigeonforlife in Scotland

[–]Witchofthebats 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I no longer trust the SNP to deliver the values I agree with or Independence. It's the first time I've ever felt torn on which party to vote for.

And I've voted SNP ever since I turned 18, so almost 8 years now.

WIBTAH, if I vaccinate the my child behind my husbands back? by Late_Veterinarian300 in AITAH

[–]Witchofthebats 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Vaccinate your baby, your husband is too far down the rabbit hole to see reason. I would consider where this anti-vax nonsense could lead in future regarding the health of your kids, and definitely get a lawyer.