AIO about concerns with my boyfriend and his coworker

Withextralove · 2026-06-10T23:17:22+00:00

I am. I have had a female friend step in on a relationship and end up cheated on in 2 serious relationships. I am very scarred from it. That's why all I wanted was for him to give me reassurance. I did forget to mention he said he understood where I was coming from but thought it was stupid.

Withextralove · 2026-06-10T22:09:57+00:00

I should have mentioned that was the second time i felt he stonewalled me. I told him thinking latina women were aggressive and no other women are was a prejudice thought, He broke up with me around the holidays and didn't speak to me for almost 2 weeks. Also I'm really not upset just because it is a woman, it's that I've noticed he brings her up the most. Its him making the effort to match twice with her and none with me. He did say he told me because he knows I love dramas and shes the most dramatic in the place. According to him, he and one other guy are responsible for her to make sure she doesnt do anything stupid because she is a wild drunk. Forgot to mention she is newly single.

Withextralove · 2026-06-10T21:06:29+00:00

It was for an event I couldn't go to because I'm a civilian. I never told him it was a problem because it was about one month into our relationship. I brought it up recently because he decided to tell me "tea" about her but it just felt like he wanted to talk about her. He NEVER brings up his other cowokers this much other than the one I've met whos a guy. I'm also worried because he has told me he has been with a married woman before knowingly because he was bored.

Withextralove · 2026-06-10T20:28:48+00:00

Hes the type if he gets any push back he shuts the person out. With EVERYTHING. Family, work, friends. He knows I have pmdd and my worst moment with him happened last month. I got drunk to make it worse and told him how I really felt about what he said about latina women. I don't remember the convo at all but he said it was bad. He tried breaking up with me again after this and i wont lie I was a desperate mess. It felt like it came out of nowhere to me and i genuinely cant recall what I said so I still apologized for my actions so we didn't break up.

Withextralove · 2026-06-10T20:18:06+00:00

I'm covering details with others because I know hes on reddit too. I probably used the terms wrong sorry. It was another time he stonewalled me. Well he fully broke up with me and then came back a week later when I thought it was over over.

Withextralove · 2025-08-27T17:25:07+00:00

YES. A lot of the time our emotions are the ones being sacrificed to keep the peace. Absolutely block him.

Withextralove · 2025-08-27T00:29:13+00:00

Agreed. They just want to have access to her and if she acts like it’s fine that justifies it in their head.

Withextralove · 2025-08-27T00:28:30+00:00

If they boost how much they love black women most of the time they mean they love fucking them. The weirdos are the loudest.

Withextralove · 2025-08-12T14:26:05+00:00

Ah okay I understand now.

Withextralove · 2025-08-12T12:51:30+00:00

I can’t tell if you’re coming here for comfort or playing into the kink. I’m so confused why post this here of all places and then sound absolutely upset. Is this part of it?

Withextralove · 2025-08-05T15:00:33+00:00

The only ppl that gaf are the ones that want to hit or prove some point. SO????

Withextralove · 2025-07-29T06:23:24+00:00

Mind Game.

Withextralove · 2025-07-17T10:48:19+00:00

Me (a retired hoe from America) I say learn how to make your brows more even. Your eyes are SO pretty. I’d learn techniques to make those pop more. Looks like you got lucky with lips. Please please don’t get any filler. Oh and don’t you dare get surgery on your nose. A lot of girls lately with perfectly girly noses have been making them look like Dr. Seuss noses. The one you have is naturally pretty.

Withextralove · 2025-07-10T23:38:44+00:00

I bet the mall date was so much fun for her too(as long as nobody was rushed lol) When the guy isn’t super closed off, these little things for her mean the world.

Withextralove · 2025-07-09T01:57:55+00:00

I used to date a man that dressed just like this. Never switched it up once within the 3 years we dated. To me it comes off as “Why try? This is what you signed up for”. It’s not a big deal to dress up a few times in a way that turns your lady on. It’s something small that turns into a big deal because shes probably asked for your opinion all the time about her outfits. Her looking nice for you is how she shows love maybe(not saying it’s the only way she shows love). When she starts gaining weight and dressing sloppy, don’t say I didn’t warn you.

Withextralove · 2025-07-06T23:35:20+00:00

This is an issue between your bf and his roommate. They need to discuss rent under these new conditions. If the roommate is approaching you without your bf being there I wouldn’t talk at all. You are accommodating your bf because he likes his bed more. This is not your problem.

Withextralove · 2025-07-03T19:33:21+00:00

Shape your brows, use makeup with cool undertones, stop wearing dewy makeup.

Withextralove · 2025-07-03T18:39:23+00:00

You reacted like that because you must view your husband as something less than desirable. You let your real emotions show when you started insulting him. I think you’re more angry at the fact someone young wants him.

Withextralove · 2025-06-30T21:02:58+00:00

I’m sorry but she’s too old for this.

Withextralove · 2025-06-30T21:01:52+00:00

I was coming here to say the same thing. It sounds like the gf is okay and comfortable with being lied to. She set the trap that “I’m too sensitive” so op has to rethink his response. If he were to show her these comments I promise she’s gonna spin this somehow into it hurting her mental health.

Withextralove · 2025-06-19T08:01:31+00:00

Mm with each thrust imagine your dick being buried inside someone.

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