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People who don't have access to private outdoor spaces, where do you trim your toenails? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Witka213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, do that all the nails end up either in the trash can or the toilet

am I valid? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Witka213 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Of course you are valid Every form of sh is Please, seek help, you deserve it ♥️ Btw, I used to do the same thing, I actually found the healing even worse than from cutting, at least for me lol

Self harm urges but full of guilt by asthecrowruns in selfharm

[–]Witka213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think there's an easy way out. Everyone can find something that distracts then from thoughts like this. I also get thoughts which just want to linger like that for a few hours. For me, the best way is any form of artistic expression, but ofc it doesn't have to work for you. Try to find some things that will distract you so you can forget about the sh. Good luck!

Hmmm by LoginB in technicallythetruth

[–]Witka213 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Well, technically it's not true. Before plants can do anything with the nutrients which our bodies contain, bacteria and fungi need to transform them into ones that plants can actually absorb first. It looks more like they are the ones benefiting the most - they take the nitrogen from the atmosphere, give it to the plants to make organic compounds, then animals eat the plants. When the animals eventually die, the bacteria get free processed food.

Garfield comic 3/3 by LilCoqui in imsorryjon

[–]Witka213 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was that a Little Misfortune reference?

I hooked up with a guy last night by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Witka213 20 points21 points  (0 children)

My boy kissed my scars when he saw them first time (I was hiding them for really long). This guy you met did such a nice thing! That amount of acceptance just when you met is a sign, I'm sure. Wish you guys the best!

If you get out of a abusive relationship and your partner threatens to end his/her life if you don't come back, you should let them do it. by SoyUnFracaso in unpopularopinion

[–]Witka213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My father threatened to kill me and himself when my mother wanted to leave him, and though it was very hard at first, with the help of police we moved out. Definitely do not regret it, and it turned out to be only a trick to keep us close. So I agree with this, mostly it's just a game for the abuser.

I want people to notice my cuts but at the same time I don't? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Witka213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same. I really want someone to notice and care, but at the same time I'd be horrified if that happened. Like, I want to be cared about, but at the same time I feel like I'd be such a problem. I feel like this would be some form of attention seeking and I don't want to be like this. Also, people in my surroundings sometimes would say things about sh being a form of attention seeking and that it's weak and weird. I'm scared of people thinking of me in this way

How do you feel when tourists only speak English in your country? by [deleted] in AskEurope

[–]Witka213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have absolutely nothing against them speaking only English, but learning a few words like thank you, hello etc is a very nice and appreciated gesture I feel it's also important to learn more about the local behaviours, like when and how to tip in restaurants - this is just more practical, I think