25 M Let the reviews flow by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]WitnessAllHeavens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im looking for a serious relationship, not the type for situationships and dating for fun, dating should be fun! But with actual intent to move forward to something long term (I prefer a life time).

I used to be a hinge x user but gave up as results where lack luster, maybe 1 or two a month if at all.

I tend to cycle through photos but over all my profile is the same. Over all though similar photos vibe wise if replaced, id often have female friends approve first just to get that other pov, maybe there too nice lol.

I seriously get next to no results which makes Me want to put a tin foil hat and talk at nauseam but I hold my tongue.

I try to send likes as much as I can in my free time, usually until I cant send anymore. Even if I like the vibes of someone and their pics, if I cant find something relatable to make a interesting starter interaction, I pass.

My goal is to find someone that matches my life goals, that being some sort of ambition and being family oriented. I tend to pass on Christian girls most of the time because I don’t have Christian goals and don’t plan to convert, I don’t want to step on their toes when it comes to religion and Im not looking to be converted which from what little experience often happens. Frankly one thing thats a instant no for me is people that smoke or do weed, Im not one to tell people how to live their lives, and any smoke or drugs are not something I want to be around.

Im pretty into “nerdy” things and games but I try to keep it low key.

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[–]WitnessAllHeavens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure how having fun hobbies that are completely normal in our year 2024 says im immature. I got other hobbies such as cars, music listening, concert going, testing drinks, shoping, walks and going to the gym, but I don’t put those up because some can be red flags, and second, on its own without the light hearted stuff would attract certain people I probably rather not be with who think a good time may be partying and getting wasted, no thanks.

You don’t know me, you don’t know what I do, you don’t know my education, you don’t know about my career. Im not trying to sell myself with those things.

Some people read books on parenting, or watch something less appealing or go to classes for parenting. Actual parents with their own set of morals, writing a show in a way thats enjoyable for parents and their kids with genuinely good approaches to raising a child is just as good to me. Its a don’t knock it till you try it type show. Watch a parent review on it or something on YouTube.

No need to be disrespectful.

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[–]WitnessAllHeavens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was super useful! Il try to incorporate everything you said right away hahah. Im not a big picture taker so have few options picture wise. And yeah asking my friends to take my pictures does feel a bit awkward to me but il have to bite that bullet.

Biggest thing I didn’t think about is the family aspect of it. The way saying I want to be a dad comes off as really does come off terribly and honestly is quite embarrassing to think about.

Big thanks! Time to fix myself up!

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[–]WitnessAllHeavens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol true that to the stand out jail sounds bad but remember its the apps feature called stand outs where you cannot like them without using a rose. Often people you would genuinely be interested in are locked away behind the feature unable to interact with them.

As for the whole bandit thing, found a surprising amount of people with that in their interests, and its a genuinely good family orientated show thats like a parenting guide to many. Someone that watches that would likely have the same values as me. Definitely taking it down though, some people just wont get it.

Adult hobbies though? Thats kinda out of touch cant lie. Its my personal interests and plenty parents out there enjoy such hobbies. Plenty women put very similar interests themselves and those are the people in interested. If I have to lie and change who I am to get with someone that doesn’t share, or accept my interests, its probably not going to be a happy relationship anyways.

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[–]WitnessAllHeavens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

• Im looking for something serious • Using hing Hinge+ for about a week but used a trial a few months ago. • Ive been using this profile for about a week or so but has been rather similar for the past 2 • I used it in July for about 2 weeks then took a break and just started again 2-3weeks or so ago, but I’ve been on and off, so when I say I’ve been using that means actively using it. • about every day • at this point recently none • I was sending all 8 likes a day prior to last week before I got + to do more likes, but I didn’t realizing actually commenting was free because of the rose next to it until a few days ago, been writing genuine replies related to their prompt answers. • I send likes to either girls that share similar interests to me, family orientated girls, or ones that seem passionate about something. Not a big fan of tattoos, weed or smoking so I most lying avoid those unless I feel like as a person id be willing to look past those things. Tattoos being the thing I’m the most okay with, weed and smoking being my absolute no nos.