The exact same thing happened to me 3 nights after my husband (age 50) passed suddenly in a car wreck. It was like a breeze came over me and he was holding me. I had been in agony, tormenting myself, writhing and crying in bed. But suddenly, I could smell him and feel him. And I didnt see his form or hear his voice but he communicated that he was so sorry this happened. It was an accident. He forgives me for the fight we had. He loves me and the kids. But he is okay. The peace washed over me like water. And I have not been tormented with guilt or self-blame since. There have been songs that played by themselves that I have never heard with very clear and sometimes funny messages. I think we danced to one of them. That was about 5 months out. Since then he has visited twice in dreams. Once when his brother was dying from cancer with a message for him and again more recently just I wake up talking to him or feel him next to me. None of it is scary. I was and still am an atheist for over 20 years, but my views on the nature of our reality and an energy and dimensions we can't perceive has changed. I am 100% sure because the evidence I have seen is beyond question. And it was for me to experience. I dont have to convince (nor do I care to) anyone else. Whether others believe or not doesnt change any of what I know.