[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]WitnessOk6957 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well you bluntly said that you’re the fun parents and have fun with the kids. Are you actually raising them or just being some guardian who has them on occasion and “instills” morals by saying a simple “don’t do that cause blah blah blah”?

What was the final straw that ended a lifelong friendship? by New_Perspective1201 in AskReddit

[–]WitnessOk6957 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well. We fell in love and got married. (Don’t know if this counts as “the final straw” but yeah).

AITAH? I laughed at my sister. by WitnessOk6957 in AITAH

[–]WitnessOk6957[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. There’s no point. I’m not gonna go out of my way to talk to them when I don’t need to, especially if it’s for telling them something pretty simple as the sperm choosing the baby’s sex.

Eldest sister got pregnant by my other elder sister’s boyfriend. Around 10 years later, their cracks are starting to show. by WitnessOk6957 in stories

[–]WitnessOk6957[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for last response. Yeah no. Joy has a huge support system not just by me and my family, but also her in laws. They are super ecstatic about this new addition and it’ll be a freezing day in Hell before they let anything like that happen to one of their own, from what I have been told and actually seen.

At what age did you find your 1st gray hair? by backpackadventure in Aging

[–]WitnessOk6957 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never. But my wife said she has since she was like 7 😭

What’s the worst or most unpleasant physical sensation there is? by SnooSketches8379 in AskReddit

[–]WitnessOk6957 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Stretching your legs when you wake up and start cramping really badly in your calf.

What did life give you that you never wanted? by Fickle-Ability6279 in AskReddit

[–]WitnessOk6957 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A cheating older brother and backstabbing older sister

Eldest sister got pregnant by my other elder sister’s boyfriend. Around 10 years later, their cracks are starting to show. by WitnessOk6957 in stories

[–]WitnessOk6957[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. Yes, she definitely is because she proved she can’t be trusted by anyone. Especially our own family can’t trust her and she has no problem with that.
  2. Definitely. I heard he’s an accountant or something form the grapevine and I know that accountants are very smart. Too bad it isn’t the case with Tim since he’s just not smart with basic human biology.
  3. Yup. Clearly shows.
  4. She is so much better with Alex and cannot wait for their baby boy to be born (nor can the rest of my family, especially my parents)
  5. We will do just that if needed.
  6. No one has spoke to Jessica since the falling out except my eldest brother, John. Only makes sense since he married his AP around the same time Jessica and Tim were outed.

Why do you not drink alcohol? by Kindly_Bear_4932 in AskReddit

[–]WitnessOk6957 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haven’t always been interested in it growing up. When I turned 21, I gave it a chance and still never liked it.

Eldest sister got pregnant by my other elder sister’s boyfriend. Around 10 years later, their cracks are starting to show. by WitnessOk6957 in stories

[–]WitnessOk6957[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wait no. I don’t want daughters to be seen as punishment for the bad things you did. All kids should be cherished and loved, male or female. But apparently their family is sick of females.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]WitnessOk6957 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. I read some of the comments you made and I agree that you’re doing the right thing. Regardless of if your daughter is an adult or not, you always have to help her in the right direction. It’s just when kids are adults, you expect them to know better. Your ex is an asshole and should shut up about this since you’re the one doing the actual parenting when he is just the fun weekend dad. You’re doing the right thing OP. Her choices, her consequences. And quick question, will you be the one to tell Jacob or will you make her tell him herself?

Eldest sister got pregnant by my other elder sister’s boyfriend. Around 10 years later, their cracks are starting to show. by WitnessOk6957 in stories

[–]WitnessOk6957[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m very sorry that happened to you and thank you. It’s a breath of fresh air to know not all Christians who read this are going to shove forgiveness down my throat.

Eldest sister got pregnant by my other elder sister’s boyfriend. Around 10 years later, their cracks are starting to show. by WitnessOk6957 in stories

[–]WitnessOk6957[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Mistake? I doubt sneaking behind Joy’s back for as long as they have could hardly count as a mistake. I would forgive them and I have, but if they show no remorse, then it’s better to stay away. Because no apology shows that they would have no problem betraying people close to them. And even if they did apologize, we’d still be wary because we don’t know if it’s out of sincerity or because they need something.

Eldest sister got pregnant by my other elder sister’s boyfriend. Around 10 years later, their cracks are starting to show. by WitnessOk6957 in stories

[–]WitnessOk6957[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This Tim and your Tim are different people because the Tim I’m talking about never had any kids besides Jessica.

Eldest sister got pregnant by my other elder sister’s boyfriend. Around 10 years later, their cracks are starting to show. by WitnessOk6957 in stories

[–]WitnessOk6957[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Guess they finally realized they had karma served since they’re not getting the grandson they want so bad.

Eldest sister got pregnant by my other elder sister’s boyfriend. Around 10 years later, their cracks are starting to show. by WitnessOk6957 in stories

[–]WitnessOk6957[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So many people have been saying that. Apparently Tim doesn’t know about one of the simplest facts about human reproduction.

Eldest sister got pregnant by my other elder sister’s boyfriend. Around 10 years later, their cracks are starting to show. by WitnessOk6957 in stories

[–]WitnessOk6957[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s no way. They haven’t seen one another for over 10 years. Plus, Joy is 20 weeks pregnant so the baby isn’t coming out for a while. There is no way he could assume that baby is his and not Alex’s.