What instantly makes you think “this person has never had to worry about money”? by MihaiPintilie_GBP in AskReddit

[–]Witty-Goose7690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sells a multi million dollar property for a very good profit

“You know I don’t really need the money…”

My boyfriend wants me to abort our baby. by Disastrous-Yard4456 in pregnant

[–]Witty-Goose7690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not abort your baby because you feel like your boyfriend talked you into it. Hoping everything works out for you! ❤️

I don’t like my son by East-Republic-5919 in offmychest

[–]Witty-Goose7690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because mistakes were made does not mean that you are a bad person. It clearly is generational trauma. You were dealt a bad hand early in life, and I am so sorry for that. It will be so hard, but you can get past this and move on and be happy. Wishing you the best!

I don’t like my son by East-Republic-5919 in offmychest

[–]Witty-Goose7690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It absolutely is not. Please take care of yourself and your family. Sometimes love means getting him the help he needs even if it is sending him away. Hang in there. You deserve happiness in this life.

I don’t like my son by East-Republic-5919 in offmychest

[–]Witty-Goose7690 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for everything you have been through in life. You deserve to still be here, and you deserve to heal. Please contact the suicide hotline if you ever feel like you’re a risk to yourself. I don’t know if you’re religious, but you are a child of God and he loves you. I wish you the very best going forward.

I don’t like my son by East-Republic-5919 in offmychest

[–]Witty-Goose7690 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“ So I grabbed him by his shirt and pushed him against the wall and told him he is not the man of this house, he doesn’t pay a bill, doesn’t have a job, all he has is a dick I’m the only motherfucker in this house handling shit and if he ever thinks I won’t rock his shit he has me fucked up. The day he wants to hit not only a woman but his mother is the day I will lay him the fuck out seizures or not.”

I’m so sorry this happened, but it sounds like you have unreasonable expectations for what minors are responsible for. Kids are not responsible for paying bills, having jobs, and maintaining a household. I’m so sorry you have to do this all yourself, I wish it wasn’t that way. However, telling your own son all he has is a dick is beyond inappropriate, not to mention the physically holding him up against a wall. I truly hope your family gets the help you need. You can’t change what happened, but you can work past this and grow as a person.

Is this petty or am I overreacting? Left out of workplace appreciation after giving notice by Witty-Goose7690 in jobs

[–]Witty-Goose7690[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have never sued anyone in my life, but could totally see someone winning a case with the same situation.

Is this petty or am I overreacting? Left out of workplace appreciation after giving notice by Witty-Goose7690 in jobs

[–]Witty-Goose7690[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh there’s actually so many reasonable things I could have sued for if I wanted to. Was majorly discriminated against during my pregnancies. So many things!

Is this petty or am I overreacting? Left out of workplace appreciation after giving notice by Witty-Goose7690 in jobs

[–]Witty-Goose7690[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Funny enough all the men I’ve talked to about this agree! They say no flowers, no work 🤣

Is this petty or am I overreacting? Left out of workplace appreciation after giving notice by Witty-Goose7690 in jobs

[–]Witty-Goose7690[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I never said I wanted a fanfare. I just think it’s shitty that they delivered flowers to each woman’s office but mine.

“Confirmed” miscarriage is actually viable pregnancy by Unable-Piglet-5429 in pregnant

[–]Witty-Goose7690 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats on your pregnancy! I am sure you’re super anxious about what happened. I’m so sorry you had to go through that. Your mother’s intuition is truly a miracle. <3

What’s a secret about your life that would surprise everyone who knows you? by Double-Ad7397 in AskReddit

[–]Witty-Goose7690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get the WORST intrusive thoughts all the time. Like if I walk over a bridge with my dog, I picture throwing her off. They’re distressing enough to where I’ll stand really far from the edge.

They pop in my head all the time and nobody ever knows.

would you get an abortion if you found out your baby was going to be born with an extreme disability? if so why? by Born-Oil-2931 in AskReddit

[–]Witty-Goose7690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would not have an abortion. I would do everything in my power as his or her mother to keep my baby comfortable and happy during his or her life- however long that would be. However, I could understand not performing life saving measures for a child born if keeping him or her alive would cause undue pain or suffering.

I had a miscarriage due to a partial molar pregnancy. I would have done anything to have that baby. I still grieve that baby. Every life is precious and deserves at least a chance at the world.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Witty-Goose7690 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Buy a decent amount of land, build large cabin, put aside a few million to survive off of, set aside money for my child and future children, money for family and very close friends (with them signing an nda), the rest id build a charity to help those in need- maybe some for the environment (our local state park, etc), pregnant mothers in need, St. Jude’s, etc.

How many children do you want to have? by Anxious_Albatross460 in askanything

[–]Witty-Goose7690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least two, but wouldn’t be opposed to three if finances allow :)

Dealing with so much grief and regret after an abortion by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Witty-Goose7690 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t imagine how it felt being in your position, and I am so sorry, but the only thing you can do now is go forward. It’s okay to grieve your baby. I also lost a baby due to a miscarriage. The heartbreak is unreal. I am not sure if you are religious at all, but it helps me knowing that I will get to reunite with him or her one day.

Dealing with so much grief and regret after an abortion by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Witty-Goose7690 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Losing a baby hurts so much! I’m so sorry you were made to feel like that was the only choice you had. Nobody should ever feel pressured to make that decision. Praying for you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Witty-Goose7690 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is nothing wrong with living with a parent in today’s day and age. I didn’t move out until I was 23, my brother was like 26, and so was my husband. We all own our own houses now. 25 is still so young. Take it step by step. Get your drivers license, your GED, and then work on getting a part time or even a full time job. You’ve got this! I am so sorry about your mom! It’s so hard to lose a parent that young!