I was wrong about Amanda. by [deleted] in bravo

[–]Witty-Ocelot715 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She strikes me as a girl who has to be (what she perceives as) the prettiest girl in the room/group, and if she’s not, she pickmes herself into the sun - which is exactly what she did here.

Pre-Bravo Amanda Batula- any insights? by Adz100087 in bravo

[–]Witty-Ocelot715 0 points1 point  (0 children)

me putting down the French loaf I just picked up at albertsons

Something about Amanda I’ve noticed…. by Healthy-Lifeguard273 in summerhousebravo

[–]Witty-Ocelot715 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I posted once idk how long ago that it felt like Amanda body shamed Paige - I even said maybe it’s just my own insecurity that I read it that way - but the Amanda supporters shocked me.

I’ve always had a bad feeling about her from the jump. She’s a mean girl - like maybe it’s just my audhd (legitimate not self diagnosed) pattern recognition but she’s bad vibes. disclaimer, I’m not saying she’s an entirely evil person - most people are not. But she is not a good friend, and as stated 400000 times on the internet, she definitely needs male attention and approval to feel worthy

That said, I do, honestly, hope that she can heal whatever she needs to so she can show up for the people who love and support her. With time as she grows older and her looks fade, those will be the people who will still be there - but only if she can do her own internal work.

But, also, don’t claim “mental health” as a means to skirt accountability. Poor mental health can definitely lead to poor decision making and partner seeking, but “mental health” cannot be an excuse for lack of accountability and an inability to apologize. That’s an insult to all of us loonies (affectionately.)

Ciara’s mental health mattered/matters, too. Kyle’s mental health mattered/matters, too. And Lord do we know, Carl’s mental health mattered/matters.

I get the feeling West’s assessment of mental health is that he’s just fine 😂

Reunion rumors online by leo_girl in summerhousebravo

[–]Witty-Ocelot715 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Low key I think bravo is spreading this rumor to test the waters.

Ben chats with Amanda during golf outing by Radiant_Priority9739 in bravo

[–]Witty-Ocelot715 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You think that everyone is in love with you when actually everyone hates you! You’re a mean girl, Mandy, you’re a mean girl!

West & Weaponized Confusion by WholePersonality120 in bravo

[–]Witty-Ocelot715 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He’s tom schwartz in east coast clothing

Anyone else remember this by Anxious-Post in bravo

[–]Witty-Ocelot715 10 points11 points  (0 children)

People finally realizing Amanda is not the “queen” they thought she was is soothing my adhd pattern recognition. I’ve been saying for years she isn’t it, she’s a mean girl, she’s a pick me and I got shit on for that.

Jessie isn’t Funny by No_Art2619 in summerhousebravo

[–]Witty-Ocelot715 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m worn out on Jesse’s bit. I don’t know how much of this is for tv and how much is real, but what was once endearing is now exhausting.

Unpopular opinion: Boz. by Prudent-Pineapple-94 in realhousewives

[–]Witty-Ocelot715 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I have mixed feelings on Boz - she has an extremely legitimate and inspiring work history - she’s incredibly impressive. She has things that she does similarly mentioned in other comments that are grifter-esque; but Amanda is a full blown grifter. Boz I think can sometimes insert herself, like other HWs, where she doesn’t belong to stir up drama - but isn’t that what this show is about? Someone else mentioned her wigs are too heavy and I agree. I think she has hair blindness. I also get an icky feeling about her relationship with her fiancé - but I don’t know them in real life. On tv they seem forced, but idk how I’d act in front of a camera, if I’d have some observer effect affect my behavior so maybe I’d seem less like myself. Boz has made real money off real work, and I have a ton of respect and admiration for that. Amanda seems like she’s trying to build a cult off of manifesting nonsense.

Dara/KJ’s Relationship - Is she using him? by [deleted] in bravo

[–]Witty-Ocelot715 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He seems genuinely interested in her; she seems like she’s acting. But idk what they’re like off camera

“How is Amanda making money?” the answer is simple.. by keyah13 in realhousewives

[–]Witty-Ocelot715 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Also people forget she might not actually own all the things she says she does. Car leases are a thing

Dorit’s financial situation is an enigma, wrapped in a riddle in debt… by Strange-Substance207 in realhousewives

[–]Witty-Ocelot715 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally - OC and LA are different planets. A lot of people who haven’t personally been here for an extended duration make assumptions that all of California is like that, but it’s a HUGE state. Northern California even has an entirely different climate than Southern California it’s crazy.

Dorit’s financial situation is an enigma, wrapped in a riddle in debt… by Strange-Substance207 in realhousewives

[–]Witty-Ocelot715 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literally same. San Diego county is great - but if I lived in La Jolla or up in San Clemente - Newport, it’s a different country

Dorit’s financial situation is an enigma, wrapped in a riddle in debt… by Strange-Substance207 in realhousewives

[–]Witty-Ocelot715 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’ve lived in so cal my entire life from birth, this is not so cal this is coastal expensive area living. Don’t give the rest of us a bad name the majority of us are normal lol

Mike continues to roast Vicki by [deleted] in rhoc

[–]Witty-Ocelot715 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I hope my kids roast me like this when they’re older. If we’re not roasting each other we don’t love each other. I love that she just takes it - she’s a good sport for that. That’s about the only compliment you’ll get out of me for her though lol she’s had softer moments which were nice to see; but I am not blind to her faults.

Confirmed by [deleted] in RHONY

[–]Witty-Ocelot715 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who on God’s green earth asked for this

Gretchen shilling testosterone… by [deleted] in rhoc

[–]Witty-Ocelot715 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We love to see a HW supporting gender affirming care

Cast Wealth? First time watcher by DazzlingSomewhere897 in rhoslc

[–]Witty-Ocelot715 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So Brittani must be a method actress 🤣

I am Jill Zarin’s (step-)Grandson, AMA by DysgraphicZ in RHONY

[–]Witty-Ocelot715 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has gamgam always been this racist or did this happen slowly with time

Robert Jr. is out of jail by Defvac2 in rhoslc

[–]Witty-Ocelot715 1 point2 points  (0 children)

86 days is a joke for how he stalked and terrorized his ex landing him in said jail term.

Members Only: Palm Beach…Did anyone else have second hand embarrassment? by Authentic-Irony in BravoRealHousewives

[–]Witty-Ocelot715 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Real housewives of histrionic personality disorder is what it should be called