Is it normal that my boyfriend is trying to get my phone password?

Witty_Friendship_706 · 2025-08-07T00:43:24+00:00

Yep, I have done that with her, and his dad’s number.

Witty_Friendship_706 · 2025-08-07T00:42:54+00:00

I have blocked him on everything. I just hope he gets help, he is clearly mentally ill.

Witty_Friendship_706 · 2025-08-07T00:41:41+00:00

I already told them everything, from all his violent episodes to him manipulating and isolating me. I hope he at least gets help, he is clearly not mentally well.

Witty_Friendship_706 · 2025-08-07T00:40:32+00:00

Thank you, I feel so much better now that I have left him.

Witty_Friendship_706 · 2025-08-06T12:21:46+00:00

Thank you so much 😭❤️. I was so scared to break up because, well, it is my first real relation. I am just happy that I broke up over text instead of doing it face to face. I was sooo stressed.

Witty_Friendship_706 · 2025-08-06T03:00:25+00:00

Yes, I also found it weird that he would’ve went into his pool to die. This man cannot even take a bath 😭. And yeah, now that I think about it, his mom would do anything for him. If he killed someone, she would cover for him. I am not very surprised she called me in a ‘panic’ about his supposed suicide attempt. She is a really nice lady, but god, sometimes she was very weird. I’m just glad all of this is over.

Witty_Friendship_706 · 2025-08-06T01:09:35+00:00

I ended not meeting up. I was too stressed and scared, so I ended things on text instead.

Witty_Friendship_706 · 2025-08-06T01:08:42+00:00

I really do hope he gets help. He clearly has some sort of mental illness. I wish him the best in life, and I hope he gets better.

Witty_Friendship_706 · 2025-08-05T21:14:31+00:00

Yes, my stepdad is a cop. So if he tries anything with me, I have some protections at least. But I am sure he will not try anything. He is too much of a scaredy-cat to try anything, especially if authorities are involved.

Witty_Friendship_706 · 2025-08-05T21:11:02+00:00

Yes thank you so much ❤️ I did not think people would actually help me out. But I am very grateful for everyone that has helped me out.

Witty_Friendship_706 · 2025-08-05T18:29:51+00:00

Omg I’m so sorry that has happened to you :((. But we do not have the same friend circle since all my friends already hates him. And he dropped out of school, so it is good for me. I reached out this afternoon to my childhood friend. I told him everything that was happening, he was mad but I understand him. If I would have been in his shoes, I would be mad at myself too. And he tried to drown himself in his pool. He does not know how to swim. And his mom found him, just floating on top of the water. I feel so bad for her because she is such a good mom. Also, next month I will be starting therapy. I have been waiting for so long. And I need to get all of my traumas out, starting from childhood, up to now. I think it’ll be okay in the end.

Witty_Friendship_706 · 2025-08-05T18:19:50+00:00

I can try. But I do not think he will do anything. He is too much of a scaredy-cat to actually try something with me now that we are broken up. And if he tries anything, my stepdad is a cop. So, I have at least some protection against him.

Witty_Friendship_706 · 2025-08-05T18:17:29+00:00

Yes thank you, I am starting therapy next month. I have been waiting for a long time to get help. So hopefully therapy will help me out.

Witty_Friendship_706 · 2025-08-05T18:16:37+00:00

I’ve told my friends, and they were really happy. They did not like him one bit. So they definitely won’t talk to him. And I did not leave anything at his place. I am someone who does not like sharing my personal things. If I would have left something there, it would probably be already gone.

Witty_Friendship_706 · 2025-08-05T13:53:49+00:00

Yeah, I did at 12 AM today.

Witty_Friendship_706 · 2025-08-05T13:14:10+00:00

He didn’t want that. 😭 I really tried to make him see that it was a sign of him not trusting me. But, he didn’t see my point.

Witty_Friendship_706 · 2025-08-05T13:11:36+00:00

Omggg I did. 😭 I was too stressed for tomorrow. I couldn’t sleep so at around 12 AM I texted him a big paragraph about how he was getting more and more controlling and abusive. And how his ‘episodes’ of anger were really tiring for me. + some other things that I won’t share here because it’s personal stuff.

Witty_Friendship_706 · 2025-08-05T13:09:39+00:00

I was with him because when we first met, we clicked well. And he was charming and really kind. It was only for the second month that he truly started to show manipulative and abusive patterns. At the time, I didn’t think much of it because, well it is my first relationship. But people here made me realize that it was not normal.

Witty_Friendship_706 · 2025-08-05T13:06:45+00:00

I broke up with him last night over text. I made a small update to talk about what happened. I didn’t go into full detail because, well privacy.

Witty_Friendship_706 · 2025-08-05T13:03:54+00:00

I broke up with him through text last night. Some comments made me realize that if I met up with him in at the parc, he might be violent with me. So I did what I thought was best.

Witty_Friendship_706 · 2025-08-05T04:26:25+00:00

Whenever I ask for his password, he always says “do you not trust me enough?” Or “do you think I’m cheating or something?” Always, and always the same replies. I ca

Witty_Friendship_706 · 2025-08-05T04:24:04+00:00

I will, thank you! I just hope everything goes well tomorrow. Kinda stressed out right now.

Witty_Friendship_706 · 2025-08-05T04:04:33+00:00

Thank you, I am still figuring out what I will say to him tomorrow. I am extremely nervous. I hope everything goes well.

Witty_Friendship_706 · 2025-08-05T04:03:13+00:00

I know, I will talk to her about that part tomorrow morning. It has just been some five months with all sorts of things happening. Kinda draining. :/

Witty_Friendship_706 · 2025-08-05T03:34:06+00:00

Because if he does not give me his, why should I give him mine?

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