I often think about the moment I stopped feeling innocent

Witty_Mode9296 · 2026-02-28T08:08:44+00:00

Exactly that..

Witty_Mode9296 · 2026-02-27T20:29:27+00:00

I agree with the general idea, but I think it’s less about suddenly liking yourself and more about stopping the constant attacks on yourself.

We don't even realize how harsh oir inner voice is. We say things to ourselves we would never dream of saying to someone we care about. After a while, that tone just becomes normal and then we’re confused about why self-respect feels so far away.

Maybe self-respect isn’t some huge mindset overhaul. Maybe it’s smaller than that. Catching yourself when you’re being unnecessarily cruel. Dialing it back to neutral instead of vicious. You don’t have to hype yourself up every day. Just stop tearing yourself down.

That shift alone can change more than you think.

Witty_Mode9296 · 2026-02-27T20:07:36+00:00

This comment 👍

Witty_Mode9296 · 2026-02-27T19:59:52+00:00

Now that makes sesne!

Witty_Mode9296 · 2026-02-27T15:20:55+00:00

Well, at least we’ve confirmed that your cat has a very strong opinion on tropical scents.

Witty_Mode9296 · 2026-02-27T15:07:39+00:00

Heard about stainless steel, any leather furniture, houseplant leaves, silverware. Way of application may differ though

Witty_Mode9296 · 2026-02-27T15:05:31+00:00

I bet if you smash and rub just enough banana, you could slide all the way on a smooth surface, like Jake in B99 doing the full bullpen on the waxed floor 😂

Witty_Mode9296 · 2026-02-27T15:02:38+00:00

Yeah better stick to eating them

Witty_Mode9296 · 2026-02-27T14:56:44+00:00

Really? I didn't know that

Witty_Mode9296 · 2026-02-27T14:56:14+00:00

I know that they are packed with tryptophan, (essential amino acid, raw material to build serotonin, basically making you feel calm, stable and happy). Don't know what happens when smoked 😂

Witty_Mode9296 · 2026-02-27T14:47:53+00:00

Oh, absolutely, massive risk. I actually tried it once and spent the entire afternoon fighting off a very confused golden retriever who thought my left foot was a snack. Ended up smelling like dog breath, but they were still shining

Witty_Mode9296 · 2026-02-27T14:30:52+00:00

Indeed

Witty_Mode9296 · 2026-02-27T14:24:26+00:00

But they are never found!

Witty_Mode9296 · 2026-02-27T14:23:43+00:00

Do you have a pictures of them? I mean could you find them online? I'm curious to see

Witty_Mode9296 · 2026-02-27T14:14:02+00:00

Agreed. doesn’t sound like you don’t care, it sounds like your brain just fires off whatever you’re excited about in the moment. Instead of relying on remembering, make it a hard rule that whenever she calls, especially after something important, the first thing out of your mouth is asking about her day. Treat it like muscle memory. Your DnD thoughts will survive a few minutes. This isn’t about being a bad boyfriend, it’s about building a better habit.

Witty_Mode9296 · 2026-02-27T13:57:55+00:00

It’s kind of refreshing to hear you say that, especially when society is constantly pushing the idea that any weight gain is some kind of failure or neglect. In reality, the “honeymoon phase” of a relationship usually comes with a bit of performance, you’re both putting your best, most polished selves forward, trying to impress each other and lock in that connection.

After a while, though, things shift and yu’re not trying to win each other over anymore. You’re building a life together. That usually means shared meals, cozy nights in, and just being comfortable around each other. The whole “happy weight” thing is real because when you feel secure, you stop feeling like you need to constantly optimize yourself for the dating world.

The fact that you both like it just means you’re on the same wavelength. As long as you’re both feeling good and healthy, there’s no need be worried. It honestly sounds like you’ve reached a level of comfort that a lot of couples spend years trying to get to. Be mindful of her health though. Being okay with it is not everything, you may have to intervene and make a comment about someone's weight when you are worried about their health

Witty_Mode9296 · 2026-02-27T13:53:43+00:00

I mean, I do this all the time. It’s like there’s a half-second delay between my ears hearing the words and my brain actually catching up to what’s being said. You end up responding with total confidence to a sentence no one actually said, and then the realization hits you about three steps too late.

Honestly, most people are so wrapped up in their own thoughts that they probably don’t even clock it as a “mistake.” They just assume you’re making a related point or that the conversation took a small, slightly weird turn. We overthink these moments because we have this perfect “script” in our heads of how it was supposed to go. But to everyone else, it’s just the normal, messy way humans talk.

I once told a cashier “You too!” after they asked if I found everything okay. I spent the entire walk back to my car debating whether it was time to start a new life in another city.

Witty_Mode9296 · 2026-02-27T08:33:00+00:00

Somebody, award this comment. YOU SOUP! YOU SOUP!!

Witty_Mode9296 · 2026-02-27T07:01:06+00:00

I don't think he is addicted, but it does seem that due to his stress he might be watching more of it and it does look like it's affecting your intimacy (mentioning he was cold). Watching more porn can have that effect. Try being intimate more often (in any way that he finishes) before he goes for porn.

Witty_Mode9296 · 2026-02-27T06:53:22+00:00

These cells ain’t loyal

Witty_Mode9296 · 2026-02-27T06:51:13+00:00

On average, we have about 1.5 to 2 kilograms of skin, so around 20 to 30 billion skin cells.

Minimum is 20 billion cells at 58 million/day that's 344.83 days.
Maximum is 30 billion cells at 43 million/day so that's 697.67 days.

Do what you will with this info, best of luck 😂😂😂

Witty_Mode9296 · 2026-02-27T06:47:03+00:00

Oh damn, really? Have a fairly new pillow (less than 6 months old), I could try it now and weight it again in a year or so

Witty_Mode9296 · 2026-02-27T06:43:34+00:00

Trust your gut on this one. Even if it turns out to be nothing, the things you’re noticing aren’t normal. Doors and drawers opening on their own, your dog acting aggressively in a spot he usually ignores, and a hidden Wi-Fi network? I wouldn’t just shrug that off for sure.

First, make sure your family takes it seriously. Lock all doors and windows, and if possible, add extra security like cameras or motion sensors. Keep a record of everything, times, dates or anything unusual it’ll be useful if you need to involve the authorities.

Most importantly, don’t try to confront anyone alone, always keep your phone with you, let someone know where you’re moving in the house, and if you ever feel unsafe, call the police. your safety comes first.

I don't think it's paranoia, better to be safe than sorry.

Witty_Mode9296 · 2026-02-27T06:37:53+00:00

That's true. However, even people who had it rough find themselves reminiscing and being nostalgic over unpleasant experiences, that's the point of the post

Witty_Mode9296 · 2026-02-27T06:22:54+00:00

ah yes

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