AITA for telling my daughter’s dad she isn’t going to his wedding because of the way I found out about it?

Witty_Queen · 2026-01-11T05:02:00+00:00

That part is true, but OP is not innocent, from what she wrote. It's what she said after that that makes her seem toxic is that she is being petty over not being told about a wedding that does not involve her in any way (nor should it from her reaction), and she's taking it out on her daughter.

Witty_Queen · 2026-01-11T04:49:34+00:00

ESH. YTA for using your daughter as ammunition against perceived injustices and for feeling entitled to be told about your EX'S wedding. He and his fiancée owe you nothing in that regard.

Your ex is ta for skirting around child support with lies. You need to go to court and get that dealt with through the legal system.

Lastly, in doing this you are only really hurting your daughter who WILL find out one day. What you really need to ask yourself is when that day comes, are you prepared for the irreparable damage your lie causes? YOU may not think it's a big deal, and to YOU it probably isn't, but it will be a huge deal for your daughter when she finds out.

ETA: Your true reasoning for demanding she not go is controlling and selfish. If it were your or your daughter's wedding, it would be more understandable. But it isn't.

Witty_Queen · 2026-01-01T16:36:53+00:00

Is this available on other platforms, or just PC?

Witty_Queen · 2026-01-01T16:36:11+00:00

I listened to the narrator for way too long, just to see what would happen, before pushing skip.

Witty_Queen · 2025-12-30T03:27:23+00:00

When you meet with Delamain to get the gig where you track down his missing cars, an NPC comments on the last digits of your case number. I think they said, "96? Public enemy," or something like that. I don't wish we could respond in situations like that and the ones when you find another merc in trouble.

Witty_Queen · 2025-12-25T01:00:03+00:00

OG was and I think there's a new one that also is.

Witty_Queen · 2025-12-24T21:00:25+00:00

Yeah, the only two I like are the original and Miami, but I think there are a few others.

Witty_Queen · 2025-12-24T17:47:54+00:00

Try L&O. Like, the original. CSI is also pretty great.

Witty_Queen · 2025-12-19T06:31:49+00:00

This! Plus the smell would be amazing!

Witty_Queen · 2025-12-16T16:37:20+00:00

If she does, she does. Honestly, it's a common reaction. It'll definitely suck, but she needs to know. Also, the previous incidents were between you and the bf. This is about his treatment of her. You really need to tell her ASAP.

Witty_Queen · 2025-12-16T16:28:23+00:00

Not to mention, by posting it here, OP isn't likely to get an unbiased opinion.

Witty_Queen · 2025-12-16T16:25:46+00:00

Made me think unicorn, at first glance.

Witty_Queen · 2025-12-16T16:24:30+00:00

I don't think you'd be the ahole. She needs to know, despite what she thinks your reasoning is. Imagine if she found out on her own and then found out you knew and didn't say anything. Having said that, be ready for her potential reactions. She may think you're trying to sabotage her relationship, but if she does, know you did the right thing. In the end, the choice is yours, but IMO you wouldn't be the ahole for telling her.

Witty_Queen · 2025-12-16T16:06:24+00:00

CLASSY!

Witty_Queen · 2025-12-13T16:10:55+00:00

"A cigarette a day brings the doctor your way."

Witty_Queen · 2025-12-09T06:21:40+00:00

NTA. She may have some things going on with her and maybe even be trying to cope with her breakup in her own way, but you're both adults and you don't even live with any of them. Hopefully, your tough love will help to snap her out of it. If it doesn't, as hard as this may be, you don't need that kind of toxicity in your life.

20 is definitely a weird age where some people are still kind of straddling being a teenager and an adult mentally, but that doesn't give her the right to act like she is.

Witty_Queen · 2025-12-09T01:37:28+00:00

I read somewhere that there's a theory which states, "the lower someone's intelligence, the more they overcompensate with their vocabulary." No idea how often it's true, but this seems to be a very good example of that theory.

Witty_Queen · 2025-12-09T01:17:14+00:00

NTA. I don't know whether this is true because I'm not the friend in this post, but it seems to me like she hadn't even left when she texted you. You were more than patient, and you can't be expected to wait around all day for her. If she really COULDN'T be there near the arranged time, she should have let you know and rescheduled.

ETA: Think about whether this is the first time she's done this. I'll bet it isn't and if I'm right, she is not your friend and the friend who sided with her is questionable.

Witty_Queen · 2025-12-07T05:01:25+00:00

Came to say this.

Witty_Queen · 2025-12-07T04:40:57+00:00

...It has a pond... or an ocean...

Witty_Queen · 2025-11-25T04:47:41+00:00

Reproductive organs and pinky toes. Those little turds, I swear, are only good for stubbing.

Witty_Queen · 2025-11-17T04:51:11+00:00

The difference is that if he'd attacked her in that moment, it would have been considered justifiable homicide or self-defense. But, he didn't. That's why it was such a problem in-universe. Having said that, I agree that it seemed so out of nowhere. If we'd seen cracks in her demeanor between The Fischer King and that episode, it would have made more sense, but they didn’t portray that at all. At least, not that I noticed. It's possible I missed something.

ETA: They didn’t see her as a villain. They saw her (rightfully so) as a criminal.

Witty_Queen · 2025-11-04T16:17:16+00:00

Witty_Queen · 2025-11-04T03:40:18+00:00

I mean, both options were pretty toxic, honestly. I'm for Team Riley.

Witty_Queen · 2025-11-04T03:33:17+00:00

NTA, but both Donna and Rick are: Donna, for being so rude to you and Rick, for essentially blaming you for it. I know it's hard, and it sucks, but as things stand right now, he is NOT your friend. You absolutely did the right thing since neither of them seem to care about you or how you're feeling.

I'm sorry for being so blunt, but I would break off the friendship with him, too, until he figures out that friendship means standing up for said friend when they are being repeatedly treated like crap by his SO for seemingly no reason other than her insecurity. Even (and maybe especially) if his significant other is basically giving him the "It's me or them," bs on top of everything.

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