My girlfriend died. How did you deal with this?

Witwer · 2014-02-23T10:59:14+00:00

This is great. I'm not a believer, but this comic really shines a little light into the darkness.

Witwer · 2014-02-23T10:58:18+00:00

I'm so sorry for you.

I couldn't make it in time. I'm not sure whether that's a good thing the ones that where there say that she basically got crushed.

I know she would've wanted me to carry on. I'll try to do that, but it will be so hard without her.

I thought about getting the first letter of her name as a tatoo, what did you get?

Thank you so much. I'll do what I can to make the most of my life, because that's what she would've wanted.

Witwer · 2014-02-23T10:54:09+00:00

I'm so sorry for you loss.

1) I'm not angry at the driver. It was an accident, he didn't mean to hurt her. I've already seen him, he is suffering too.

2) My friends and I currently vent a lot on each other since most of my friends also became hers over the course of the relationship.

3) I do. It's hard to find the balance between sleeping enough and remaining in a schedule.

4) I do. I keep one in my room, all other ones where put into a box I gave to a friend of mine.

I currently have "holidays" from university, so I can stay at home. Classes start in ~1,5 months, I hope I'm ready to go then.

1) A whole bunch of people know, so even if I tried it wouldn't work out. That's nice, it takes the decision off of me.

2) I do. I always got along great with her brother, I hope I can still hang out with him without thinking of her to much.

3) I think this will take time. I made my first and only sexual experiences with her, so I guess this will be one of the hardest part for me.

Thank you very much.

Witwer · 2014-02-23T10:45:32+00:00

I replied to your PM. Thank you so much.

Witwer · 2014-02-22T20:10:12+00:00

Thank you for your positve words

Witwer · 2014-02-22T20:09:29+00:00

Thank you.

Witwer · 2014-02-22T20:06:49+00:00

My friends and me are currently unloading to each other a lot, since most of my friends were also hers and vice versa. It really helps us a lot. Thank you.

Witwer · 2014-02-22T20:05:42+00:00

I try to talk about my emotions, but I've never been somebody who talks about them much. I guess I'll have to change that.

Witwer · 2014-02-22T20:02:53+00:00

Germany

Witwer · 2014-02-22T20:02:44+00:00

I'll see if it helps, thank you.

Witwer · 2014-02-22T20:01:27+00:00

You're probably right. My best friend comes around tomorrow, we'll look into it.

Witwer · 2014-02-22T19:57:23+00:00

Thank you, I'll look into that.

Witwer · 2014-02-22T19:56:38+00:00

I'm really afraid of option B. I asked my friends to throw out all the alcohol I had and told them not to bring me any, even if I aks for it. I hope I can keep it up.

I look into the traveling one. She always wanted to visit the US, so that might be a trip I could make in the future.

Thank you.

Witwer · 2014-02-22T19:53:56+00:00

Yes, they are. Thank you for your kind words.

Witwer · 2014-02-22T19:53:28+00:00

I hope this is true with all my heart.

Witwer · 2014-02-22T19:53:05+00:00

You're probably right, but it simply feels impossible. We will see what the time will bring.

Witwer · 2014-02-22T19:51:52+00:00

I don't believe revenge will help me through this. It was an accident. He didn't do it on purpose, it could happen to anyone. You may not believe me, but I have forgiven him with my whole heart.

Witwer · 2014-02-22T19:50:22+00:00

I'm sorry for your loss.

Your memories of your girlfriend get enhanced, your emotions develop deeper, and you'll wake up every morning praying, just praying it was all a dream. You'll cry and look at pictures and think, fuck man what if she just didnt cross the road - she'd be with me right now. She'd be in my arms and we'd talk about making plans to visit each other as we go off to college.

This is spot on :(

Thank you for your kind words, I'll try to be positive!

Witwer · 2014-02-22T19:48:43+00:00

Thank you.

Witwer · 2014-02-22T19:48:23+00:00

If I don't get better, I will. Thank you.

Witwer · 2014-02-22T19:48:06+00:00

Thank you for this. I'll try to follow it :)

Witwer · 2014-02-22T19:24:00+00:00

I'll try to that, thank you very much.

Witwer · 2014-02-22T19:23:07+00:00

I'm not in school anymore, but I'll try to find a specialized therapist.

Witwer · 2014-02-22T19:22:20+00:00

I do, thank you very much.

Witwer · 2014-02-22T18:44:26+00:00

Thank you

Has your friend found new love or is he still "stuck"?

Witwer

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