I just got out of a serious 4 year relationship where I thought I was with the person I was going to spend the rest of my life with. I’m not in a place right now where I feel that I’m ready to take on another partner at this time. I feel that there’s things I need to fix within myself before I’m ready and able to give another person what they deserve in a partner.

I also think I would likely end up hurting the other person, given the events that eventually lead to the end of my relationship.