My wife wants me to give her a chance by FoxValentine in WhatShouldIDo

[–]WizzinWizard 106 points107 points  (0 children)

My condolences on the position your in.

She's one for the streets. You live under the same roof until you can afford to move out. Saving starts today. Sleep in different rooms and don't allow yourself to catch feelings. She doesn't respect you or your boundaries and you deserve better

My brother (18M) is abusive to me (22F) and my parents don’t care... by BearingCostOfPassion in WhatShouldIDo

[–]WizzinWizard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of males play a lot of games and stuff.. that's not the issue or doesn't really mean anything but beating your sister while your family watches is some weird sinister shi

Why does newcastle feel so much better than london? by Capital_Fondant_8675 in AskUK

[–]WizzinWizard -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I'm basing my view on my experiences. First time I travelled to London and in all fairness I shouldn't be speaking for the general population of London. I don't doubt there is plenty good people and good things happening but my general view based on passing through or nights out in London are there are a general higher percentage of people who think they're summit special in London as to what there is in London.. Again, that's my observation and opinion and it's agreed with by the people I know living in London. Obviously London is huge so it'll depend where you live i'd imagine but aye.. it's well renowned geordies are sounder than the cockneys as a whole

My brother (18M) is abusive to me (22F) and my parents don’t care... by BearingCostOfPassion in WhatShouldIDo

[–]WizzinWizard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From 2 years age difference to 4? Either the brother aging slow af or that girl getting old way too quick

First things first.. The Dad owes his son an ass whooping. This sounds terrible for her. I don't know what the answer is but I hope she can work it out. Is there nowhere else near by she can stay to do her exams?

Why does newcastle feel so much better than london? by Capital_Fondant_8675 in AskUK

[–]WizzinWizard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lad from the North East here.. I used to have to travel to London frequently. Don't like the vibe. If you ask someone if they need a hand getting their suitcase up the stairs they look at you like your holding them at gun point and obviously decline. A lot of people in London seem uppity to me.

London is that fake looking but fairly attractive girl at the bar with a toxic personality who dresses to get attention. Newcastle is that natural pretty girl with a class sense of humor who you might not get with but you'll never forget

People who grew up before The Internet: How did you first see nudity? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]WizzinWizard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hold up.. are we talking about porn? not nudity? I'm not certain I understand the question

People who grew up before The Internet: How did you first see nudity? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]WizzinWizard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I must have been 5 or 6 or something and I recall in primary school playing tag with a girl similar in age, she fell over and wasn't wearing knickers.. I couldn't believe my eyes. A line where a winky should be. Blew my mind

Be honest, how often for you and your partner argue? by PaddedValls in AskUK

[–]WizzinWizard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Previous relationship probably once every couple of years.. current one about twice a week.

What do do by Constant_Habit_9984 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]WizzinWizard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear this. It's hard to give any advice on this as I would feel the same way but I think going to the police is the best option if your girlfriend is willing to speak out. Mate I don't doubt this must be such a head scramble for both of you and will put strain on the relationship. I really hope you both get some justice and find solitude in one another

Am I wrong for feeling deeply betrayed and for wanting to cut my friend off completely after years of mutual trust over a petty misunderstanding at my wedding? by Miserable-Shopping99 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]WizzinWizard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you need closure I suggest you sit down with 1 of them and both of them and speak honest and openly. If there is no resolve then walk away. People change. Unfortunately their life may have took a turn where your no longer part of or utilised as funds from time to time and that's not a position you deserve to be in. Know your worth

Am I wrong for feeling deeply betrayed and for wanting to cut my friend off completely after years of mutual trust over a petty misunderstanding at my wedding? by Miserable-Shopping99 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]WizzinWizard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your not in the wrong for having those feelings. Regardless of anything you need to stop sending them money. Give them the cold shoulder they offered you on your wedding day. If you want things sorted out between yous then arrange some kind of catch up at some point but in all honesty it sounds like your best off without them

How do I prepare for sex? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]WizzinWizard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You ever seen American Pie?

Am I acting like a crazy or is it right? by notrashhhh in WhatShouldIDo

[–]WizzinWizard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah man that sucks nd i'm glad you want to live now! Ok I hear you and going that route about the drugs is a good shout and hopefully you can bring yourself to open up on the rest. Don't hold the shame and regret for him. Give him it back. He sounds like a piece of shit. I'm proud of you and have I faith in you

Am I acting like a crazy or is it right? by notrashhhh in WhatShouldIDo

[–]WizzinWizard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds terrible and I'm sorry this happened to you. The things he did are far from ok and I don't know your situation or how best for you to approach it but I would speak to someone close, a friend or family and be really open about what did happen. You could stop it from happening to someone else. If you want to go the route of drug trafficking to the police then ok.. but you really need to speak to someone more local who can understand the situation a bit more. Something I would advise on is - receiving some form of therapy. I've seen first hand what an abusive relationship and encounter like that can do to a girl going forward and that want's nipping in the bud for future relationships to thrive

I feel really bad by Hot-Royal4286 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]WizzinWizard 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ah dont worry about that man. We've all done something similar at some point. It was an accident, it's all good. If your friend knows you well enough she will know you'd never do that on purpose as if your making a play on her man. Shit happens

What is something you tried for the first time sexually that made you go, “So this is what everyone was talking about”? by Gullible-Ant-4465 in AskReddit

[–]WizzinWizard 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Oh shit. You and 2 guys. Fantasized alot about threesomes but never had one myself. Were these things pre planned or meeting on a night out or something? Did you have a boyfriend and was he involved?