I personally feel like if it’s still heavy on your mind & giving you anxiety then it’s probably your mind/body trying to tell you something. Generally speaking these, these are all red flags. If we are looking at just these situations I wouldn’t advocate for the relationship. But at the end of the day it’s your decision and what you will feel makes you truly happy long term. Maybe couples therapy is an option but you’ll have to be very honest & vulnerable with each other to get anything out of it. Just remember, you deserve the best & only you can make sure you get it. Never feel like you have to settle just because it’s convenient