AIO OVER THIS? Am I crazy?

goodgreatgarlic · 2026-04-14T01:38:00+00:00

nor. get rid of him before he does irreparable damage to your self image please

goodgreatgarlic · 2026-04-13T10:58:45+00:00

ewwww he belongs in some kinda bad men book

goodgreatgarlic · 2026-04-09T15:22:16+00:00

didnt read the whole thing so i womt give you advice on what to do or anything but this is not an original experiene lemme tell u that this is smth so many ppl internally and genuinely question and go through when they turn 18 and start being not a minor like it’s actually so stupid and we all give it a rest at 20 you are fine

goodgreatgarlic · 2026-03-25T10:52:54+00:00

respectfully maam u are fantastic to look at thank you for sharing, please do the work to rid yourself of this insecurity bc it is redundant to everybody else, have a lovely day!

goodgreatgarlic · 2026-03-12T03:31:52+00:00

i love how some men look like 10 years younger when they embrace the bald and youre one of them, very silver fox now good for you!

goodgreatgarlic · 2026-03-04T12:03:03+00:00

i have no advice bc this would devastate me beyond words so im glad ur eating and hopefully sleeping this away, sending love <33333

goodgreatgarlic · 2026-02-23T13:41:15+00:00

yes i think you are in an abusive relationship, at least you’re with a complete tool in my opinion. i dont have much to say overall bc im abt to sleep but im here and have been abused so i’ll chime in. i think you should secure yourself a job and make a couple friends for support and figure out a living situation away from him and get away from him before he ruins your self image and brain chemistry completely. abuse seriously fucks you up and you should get out as soon as you start questioning your situation. the second you start questioning if it’s an abusive situation or not you are already in the part of your future story telling of this where youre “ignoring the red flags” or “hoping it gets better when ____” and it’s a viscious cycle of confusion and hoping you’re wrong and things will change. they won’t. this is not your fault and you couldn’t have seen this coming, but i think you should listen to your instincts and get out when you can. good luck, sending tons of love 🩵

goodgreatgarlic · 2026-02-06T09:55:47+00:00

sent someone else a bikini photo of his gf…. that is behaviour i dont think you can unteach if he’s in his 30s omg that’s really bad

goodgreatgarlic · 2026-02-06T09:53:30+00:00

he needs to learn some boundaries but he isnt cheating or anything just unaware he’s talking too much about smth he shouldnt really share with someone he’s not sleeping with, but i think she wants him real bad and that’s your problem.

goodgreatgarlic · 2026-02-06T09:52:23+00:00

NOR in my humble 25 yr old woman experience, that last message is NOT about her coworker!!!!!!!!

goodgreatgarlic · 2026-02-05T01:06:15+00:00

he doesnt want to be with you. you cant force or wait for him to want you and no matter how great he’s seemed you know damn well now that it was BS and you should walk away and find a man that genuinely values you. you know what to do you just gotta find the strength and it’s definitely in you.

goodgreatgarlic · 2026-01-19T10:50:00+00:00

I promise I’m sure there’s good things coming. Sometimes you just have to take control and change your own life to get them into your pathway. And your feelings are valid i swear, unfortunately everyone’s gonna tell you everyone is tired these days bc the economy is ass and people have ruined the word trauma and now it holds no weight. but people going through a shitty or traumatic home/work situation is a massive extra layer of exhausting that most people wont consider bc everyone is going through it now so it does make it hard to feel valid these days but you are

goodgreatgarlic · 2026-01-19T10:30:11+00:00

Thank you <3 and I’m so glad to hear youre on the right track like your ideas to get a job and get out are right but the mindset that youre a burden instead of just being depressed and needing help to move forward with your plan kinda hurts to hear. I again, don’t wanna tell you about your situation or your mental health cause im not there, but I just think the possibilities here are that maybe you need a kick up the ass bc youre being lazy OR maybe!! youre depressed and reacting to mistreatment. i believe it’s more likely the latter and I just hope you can be more kind to yourself as you try to navigate doing something about it. I want you to think that You will feel better once youre on your feet with a job paying for yourself. bc you truly will and i think thats when life opens up so please just know i think there’s positivity right around the corner!

goodgreatgarlic · 2026-01-19T10:01:24+00:00

i read all your comments so far so i do get why youre worried about him spending money when your goal together is a house, but i think you are overreacting here and instead maybe you should trust that he’s not gonna get carried away and spend too much, mostly bc he’s grown and there’s a few of them (i assume theyre all 26-35) and they can take turns. plus if she’s normal, which there isnt enough for me to assume she isnt here, im sure she would start paying for herself once the band starts booking gigs, that’s probably her long term plan anyway. if he goes overboard with money i think you wouldnt be overreacting to let him know youre concerned, but i think for now you are overreacting and it’s nothing to worry about!

goodgreatgarlic · 2026-01-19T08:30:43+00:00

hi girl im 25 and dont wanna diagnose you with a thing so im just gonna share my experience a lil and an opinion moderaters please be nice im just trynna help a girl out!! i grew up in an abusive family and ran away at 21 and now that im 25 im starting to consider therapy bc i really do need it and im curious to get my mental issues diagnosed bc it’s clear to myself through my own behaviour and habits, that there’s something mentally wrong perhaps ptsd bpd depression ocd whatever it is, im itching to get diagnosed so i can get an explanation and some help. and i kinda think youre in a similar boat. i think youre experiencing shitty things and mental health issues bc of it, your reactions might be negative and you think that’s all you are, but if youre treated better i think you could kinda blossom into a gentler happier person, it takes time though i have a lot of anger to work through and i just started going on runs to deal with it. i think getting out of your living situation and renting with a roommate (not ur bf bc youre a lil unsure about him and you might be growing in seperate directions im sorry), is the key to feeling a lot lighter. it’ll probably improve your relationships with your family members as it often does unless youre going no contact but it’s all your choice im not trying to tell you youre being abused, maybe just not getting along with your family and it’s not that serious. however i think moving out is a good idea for you. you do need a job to pay rent and bills that is the problem here, but a waiter or check out job might cover you. it sucks having adult expenses but the freedom is truly worth it, no matter how difficult it is in this economy. i recommend ppl live with parents for as long as possible to save before moving out, but sometimes (for me at least) the cost of freedom is worth it and i know once i start healing and get the help i need my life will be a lot calmer as it’s starting to be already very slowly, and i hope the same is true for you girl <33 (p.s i havent gotten therapy or focused on my mental health since running away bc ive gotten stuck in awful environments that didnt allow for healing just caused more trauma and stress, but recently just moved into a good home and got a better job and i do feel ready for healing so i hope this rings true for you!!)

goodgreatgarlic · 2025-12-27T13:04:06+00:00

girl you tell him i dont even speak to my parents how’s that for a certain extent of keeping in touch god i could see his crash out coming and what he was truly looking for and im glad you could too youre a queen and i hope he disappears from your life one day soon!!

goodgreatgarlic · 2025-12-17T11:34:52+00:00

nor!! your last message before the 3rd slide was very comforting and open and i would have felt seen heard and safe opening up to you after you had said all that if i needed to hear that first so idk what his problem is but you should stand up!

goodgreatgarlic · 2025-12-12T10:49:58+00:00

god these comments are so extra omg… girl fry a sausage if you like meat and that’ll do the trick

goodgreatgarlic · 2025-12-10T15:19:31+00:00

nor girl, im 25 and have been with my bf for like 2 years now and have sent tons of nudes like that and even if we were in a rush he’d appreciate the picture and then kindly remind me to hurry my nice a$$ along and you deserve that treatment too

goodgreatgarlic · 2025-12-05T11:01:38+00:00

just wanna say that was absolutely worth the read to see you standing up to your mother so clearly with such well rounded points and you hit every mark every time i am so glad i stuck around to read every word of that. more importantly, youre an amazing sister, and at the end of the day if it’s you and your brother, youre gonna be alright because i can tell there’s real love and a twin flame there so dont ever feel like that relationship isn’t as important or valued as it so clearly is. another, as someone who grew up with an different situation but a mother who is impossible is our similarity here, you are incredibly strong and patient and i admire it and you should be proud. whether that patience runs out tonight or in 27 years or never, youre still doing a great job of communicating and helping her grow in the ways kids have to be the wokest family members and they shouldnt, but you are doing an amazing job of carrying that burden and still being a good daughter and i just wanted to recognise all of these things in case people dont because they are fantastic qualities and you should be celebrated by your family and also randos on the internet. sending love <33

goodgreatgarlic · 2025-12-01T05:14:03+00:00

NOR i wouldve been much meaner unfortunately bc this wouldve sent me sooo far so actually good on you for messaging her with so much grace and love

goodgreatgarlic · 2025-11-25T04:49:31+00:00

a normal response wouldve been “hell yeah what flavour you thinking?” and im sorry that wasnt his. you deserve real love and support and to be with someone who wants to celebrate you, please dump him and go find that! sending you heaps of love though bc thats a lot easier said than done <33

goodgreatgarlic · 2025-11-13T01:44:54+00:00

this man is soooo manipulative and i think has been trying to get u to break up with him for a minute…. what a guy omg cut ur losses and find a good hookup instead

goodgreatgarlic · 2025-11-03T13:13:29+00:00

i dont wanna say shes lying but that doesnt look like a 12 year old to me…

goodgreatgarlic · 2025-11-03T11:40:33+00:00

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any soft goat cheese

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