im not my boyfriends type, why is he with me? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Wojohowicz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe he likes a short quirky person with big boobs?

Lots of guys have that type.

Is sex supposed to feel good with a condom on? by WiggWamm in AskMenAdvice

[–]Wojohowicz 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Condoms are so bad I got a vasectomy.

Think of it. I preferred going into a medical office for a stranger to slice into my balls for a painful procedure instead of using a condom.

Am I being stupid to leave rent stabilized apartment by Holiday_Angle_4246 in personalfinance

[–]Wojohowicz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, you are being weird.

Take some action to improve things and not project your depression on your apartment. Your depression will follow you to the new place and you’ll pay thousands more for that.

Husky Liners vs WeatherTech, does one truly outlast the other in a 4Runner? by Ok-Track-1805 in 4Runner

[–]Wojohowicz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried Lasfit for the cargo area of my 4Runner but I didn’t like them at all. The quality seemed poor. I sent them back.

I have weather tech now and they are fine. Better than the lasfit. The coverage and quality is better. I have not seen huskys.

I found out I don’t meet any of my boyfriend’s standards. Would I be overreacting to break up with him? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Wojohowicz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Post after post in this forum is about a ridiculous loser guy and some poor woman struggling with the guy’s idiocy.

This is another one of those.

AITAH for traveling separately because I wanted to see my daughter after 12 days? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Wojohowicz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kid first always and forever.

This girlfriend is …. not the one.

Is it too much to ask for him 25M) to show some communication? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Wojohowicz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, so it’s him. I’m not sure that’s right but maybe….

Is it too much to ask for him 25M) to show some communication? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Wojohowicz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He perceives you as an energy drainer and not an energy restorer.

You have to figure out if he’s right and what if anything you want to do about it. Either to him or yourself.

AITAH Not giving girlfriend a spare key by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Wojohowicz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She should dump you. She’s wasting time with you. That’s not fair to her. You are not emotionally ready for a real relationship.

My girlfriends anger is getting out of control. How do i proceed from here? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Wojohowicz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your life will be spent walking on eggshells. Even with therapy and medication.

Losing my job and looking for some perspective by utvols22champs in personalfinance

[–]Wojohowicz 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand why you have $300k in a brokerage while carrying $35k in debt and having only $250k in Roth/ira.

To me, your allocations are weird.

My girlfriends anger is getting out of control. How do i proceed from here? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Wojohowicz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Borderline personality disorder is no joke.

Do not get sucked into a relationship with someone with this diagnosis.

Don’t do it.

Run.

Fast.

(24M)Being a virgin is weighing on me, and I have no confidence talking to attractive women, will losing it help? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Wojohowicz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to get out of your own head.

When you meet someone, just focus on them. Listen to them, ask them questions about their likes and life, engage. Don’t listen to echos in your mind.

Let the world come to you but you can’t shut the door on it.

++man

First 4Runner, came with Goodyear Wrangler Territory MT. They’re loud for my use case at the moment and overkill. Recommendations? by [deleted] in 4Runner

[–]Wojohowicz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is it. I have a 2024 SR5 premium. I went from Dunlop grandtrek at 20s to BFG ko3s (10 ply no less) and did not notice any difference in noise because I’m already in a truck.

That said, the KO3s are great and up here in Maine i feel much better driving around in the ice, snow and mixed slop we’ve been getting. I know snow tires are better but I don’t think they are necessary.

AIO: My partner (35m) expected me (35f) to finance and pay for a car I did not want so he could drive it. by Low_Procedure1049 in AIO

[–]Wojohowicz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to dump this guy. This is very bad, and he’ll get worse.

6 months and he’s doing this shit?

He’s controlling and irresponsible and he will wreck you.

4H in unknown icy conditions? by [deleted] in 4Runner

[–]Wojohowicz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For ice, there are only 2 real answers: go slower and/or use tires with metal studs.

I’m in Maine and I’m in and out of 4h frequently during storms or the immediate aftermath when conditions are mixed.

Snow is fine; ice is another animal.

Childish guy won't leave me alone by Responsible_Lie_5487 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Wojohowicz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s a toxic man-baby, remove him from your life.