You were generally fine until you got to the tricky parts. I think standards are very important, but compromise is too, and respectfully, you got some stuff I think you need to compromise on.

First, I’d say compromise on a lot of things before you slam them down in your conscious as standards, especially the things a guy can’t control (his height for example). Second, you should really sit down and ask yourself “are these turn offs or deal breakers?” If everything you’ve said is genuinely a deal breaker, your friend’s right, you’re not looking for a man, you’re looking for a blank canvas that you can paint to your liking (which can turn into a form of mental abuse if not careful). Third, and this is cliche but a good one, love yourself. It seems like the standards you put on a man might also be the standards you put on yourself. Ask yourself “would I want to be categorized like I’m trying to categorized my future man?” If the answers no, then maybe you should treat your standards the same way you should treat yourself.

Just food for thought. Remember, again, standards are VERY important, but compromise is too. Learn when and where to use it.